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Intro (live baby, scary birth and two losses mentioned)

goldengirl84goldengirl84 member
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***I've looked and looked for the right place to introduce myself so I hope this is ok! If I am in the wrong place, please point me in the right direction***

Hello laides. I used to post fairly regularly on Oct 2012 when I was pregnant with DS, but the past 18 months have kept me busy and now I feel like I need the support of thebump again. I know there are a lot of ladies here who have gone through unimaginable heartache, and to all of you: I am so sorry for your pain. I feel like my sadness doesn't hold a candle to most of yours but I'm just looking for a place to talk since I have no friends currently in my position.

DH and I got pregnant easily with DS and I had the picture perfect pregnancy. I had a crazy scary delivery - emergency csection and DS spent a week on a cooling bed at another hospital. (He's totally fine now). We started TTC in January, BFP and mc at  6 1/2 weeks. TTC again this month and mc at 5 weeks. Getting pregnant is so easy for me, but staying pregnant is not. I'm wondering if there are any of you who have had this happen to them after a birth or csection? I'm a little concerned that scar tissue is to blame. Any help or maybe just a hug is greatly appreciated. :)
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Me: 29 DH:30 married 6/5/10
DS: 10/12/12 via ECS (blood clot in umbilical cord)
BFP 1/25/14 mc at 6 1/2 weeks  EDD: 10/4/14
BFP 4/10/14 mc at 4 1/2 weeks  EDD: 12/15/14
BFP 5/14/14 mc at 5 1/2 weeks  EDD: 1/20/15
BFP 8/28/14 *please, please stick*  EDD: 5/10/15
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Re: Intro (live baby, scary birth and two losses mentioned)

  • stefugestefuge member
    I am so sorry for your losses and that you find yourself here. I don't have any advice, other than checking with your doctor. ((Hugs))
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    Me: 32 DH: 33  High School Sweethearts  Married 5/28/2005
    DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
    Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
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  • RustyGirl3RustyGirl3 member
    edited April 2014
    Welcome, Sorry for your losses.  ((HUGS))



    DD's mentioned.




    I don't have any advice, just want to say we are going through something similar.  I have 2 girls (7 & 3) and I have also had 2 losses in the last year.  The first was a MMC in August and the second was a CP in March.  I didn't have complicated pregnancies with my girls and I am scratching my head as well. 

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    Dating- 3/1/1999 ~ Married- 10/10/2004
    DD#1- Sweet Pea ~ Born on her Due Date 3/1/2007
    DD#2- Pumpkin ~ Due 9/29/2010 Arrived 10/1/2010
    ~ BFP: 6/12/2013 EDD: 2/21/2014 NT Scan: 8/5/2013 (11w3d) MMC D&C: 8/8/2013 ~

    ~BFP: 3/15/2014 EDD: 11/24/2014 CP 4 weeks 4 days ~

    ~BFP: 7/2/2014 EDD: 3/15/2015 CP 4 weeks ~

    ~BFP: 8/31/2014 EDD: 5/10/2015

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  • buggirl72buggirl72 member
    Welcome and I'm sorry for your losses.  This is a great board to give and receive support.

    I can't help with your question but I agree with @Hawkward. It is very possible that you have some other underlying issue that did not effect your first pg. With two losses, your doctor may be willing to start RPL testing but some will make you wait until you have 3 (two is considered "bad luck"). 

    I also want to add that I love that you have something remember BootsOrHearts  Harrison in your siggy <3.   You do have your original pg ticker (says you are 120 weeks @-) ).  Since you have not been on the Bump for awhile, changing your siggy is pretty easy now. When you are on a computer, just click on the little head (preferrences). You will see "signature settings" as an option. From there, you can easily edit your siggy. Besides removing the ticker you may want to add in your loss history.

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  • Rocks526Rocks526 member
    I can't help you with your questions, but I wanted to welcome you to the board. I'm sorry for your losses. (((Hugs)))
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  • polevaultRNpolevaultRN member
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    I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. ((Hugs))

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    BFP #1 8.6.2011 EDD 4.7.2012 DS1 born 3.30.2012
    BFP #2 1.21.2014 EDD 10.1.2014 natural m/c 1.30.2014
    BFP #3 4.30.2014 EDD 1.10.2015 DS2 born 12.31.2014
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  • stephy1221stephy1221 member
    I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.
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    BFP 1/17/15 * EDD 9/30/15

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  • longcat07longcat07 member
    ***DS pregnancy mentioned***

    i'm so sorry for your losses.  i had a textbook pregnancy with DS too, nearly 5 years ago now.  i've only had one loss though.  i've heard that some doctors are willing to start RPL testing after two losses, especially if you're a little older than average, but most wait till three.
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    BFP#1 EDD 04.20.2010, SUNSHINE baby boy born 03.31.2010
    BFP#2 EDD 12.07.2014, natural mc 04.09.2014 at 5w3d
    BFP#3 EDD 01.14.15, RAINBOW baby girl born 01.16.2015

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  • goldengirl84goldengirl84 member
    Thank you all for being so welcoming. I really appreciate all the advice. It is nice to know I'm not the only one going through this. My heart aches for each and every one of your losses.

    My doctor wants to see me on May 1st - I have amazing doctors and I think they will agree to do RPL testing. I'll let y'all know how it goes. I hope everyone has a wonderful Easter!
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    Me: 29 DH:30 married 6/5/10
    DS: 10/12/12 via ECS (blood clot in umbilical cord)
    BFP 1/25/14 mc at 6 1/2 weeks  EDD: 10/4/14
    BFP 4/10/14 mc at 4 1/2 weeks  EDD: 12/15/14
    BFP 5/14/14 mc at 5 1/2 weeks  EDD: 1/20/15
    BFP 8/28/14 *please, please stick*  EDD: 5/10/15
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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm very sorry for your losses. Welocome.
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • BackstreetPixieBackstreetPixie member
    No advice, just ::hugs:: and sorry for your losses
    -Megan


    Started dating Hubby May 17 2005. Married since Aug 20 2011 
    Me:30   Hubby:31
    TTC since May 2012 
    HSG Dec 2012 Fill no spill on left side, right side normal (most physically painful experience of my life..)
    Metformin Started May 2013
    PG#1: BFP 10-21-13. EDD 6-17-14 mmc 12-9-13 m/c occurred with cytotec on 12-11-13 
    PG#2: BFP 07-25-14.  EDD 4-5-15   *Hoping this is my rainbow*
    Diagnosed with PCOS, Hypothyroid,IBD/UC, (UC in remission as of July 2014)
    *I will always love you Fetey the first.* 
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    ALL WELCOME!



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