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pregnants vs nonpregnants

SassFrassSassFrass member
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Ok, so my SIL and I are really close. She knows about our 2IF and I keep her updated about everything going on. Well I just told her about the lab results for my 7dpo and she came off as a bit.... bitchy... she was like "seems weird to me, just seems too early to be able to tell, aren't you going to see if you o without the meds..." uhm, I don't o without them, that's why I was put on them in the first place... She has always been really supportive, but when I told her that my levels looked really good it just suddenly changed today... than she snarked, "it'll happen when it happens..." and she, up until now, has been the only one to not say that to me, because she has been through the whole m/c thing and it took them 10 years to get ku with a viable pregnancy.

today has been the first time I want to throat punch her pregnant ass... she is my best friend, and today, I just cannot even stand her...


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  • tortuga47tortuga47 member
    I am so sorry :(  How 'bout I throat punch her for you so you two can still be friends after??
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    Jan 2014 - diagnosed POF (Premature Ovarian Failure) and told pregnancy not possible without egg donor because my ovaries would never function again with my hormone levels (FSH 136, LH 98.6, AMH <.03, estradiol 0, HCG 7) - using acupuncture, chiropractic care and TCM herbs / supplements
    March 11, 2014 ovulated despite every doctors prognosis!!!
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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Maybe she just didn't feel like hearing about it today? People are not always in the mood to hear about other people's shit, even if you are BFFs. 


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  • SassFrassSassFrass member

    True, but if she didn't want to know she shouldn't of asked either. right?


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  • Momarazzi007Momarazzi007 member
    Piss off.

    True friends come back from that.
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
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    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!     February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    Momarazzi007 said:

    Piss off.

    True friends come back from that.

    Agreed!
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  • SassFrassSassFrass member

    I didn't say we weren't friends anymore. I was stating that the feeling was mutual today... she obviously didn't wanna hear my shit and I obviously didn't want to hear hers.


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  • HawaiianSunset09HawaiianSunset09 member
    Ugh lame. Im so sorry! 
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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    Maybe she can't handle it right now because one, she's pregnant and two, it sounds like she went through a ton over ten years to get pregnant. Maybe she feels like you're prematurely complaining. Maybe she had a bad day. If you two are close you should be able to ask those things.
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