TTC After a Loss

Intro from the bench (loss mentioned)

LilNugget19LilNugget19 member
edited April 2014 in TTC After a Loss

Hi everyone! I want to start off by saying I’m so sorry for everything all of you have been through, no one should ever have to suffer through the loss of a child.  I have been lurking for the last few weeks and this is definitely the kind of support group I’m so glad is out there.  A little about my story: It was my first pregnancy and I went in for my 9 week u/s (April 1st) and the baby had no heartbeat.  I was so devastated, I know a miscarriage can happen to anyone, but there is no way to prepare for that news.  I had my D&C the next day.  It’s been 2 weeks and it has gotten a little easier, but I cry every time I talk about it and it's on my mind so often.  I’m still grieving, it all happened so quickly that the reality of it really didn’t set in for a few days. 

I’m currently on the bench but was hoping you guys would have me while I wait to start trying again.  My doctor said to wait one cycle before trying, but stressed that only if I’m emotionally ready and that if I decide I want more time take it.  My husband and I have decided we will see when my cycle starts and gage if we are ready then.  I do hope for another chance one day, and I know my body and soul will tell me when it’s ready so I’m not rushing it.

Anyways, I hope to be a support to you guys on here as much as I can even though I’m new to this, but one thing I can always offer no matter what I have been through is my T&P.

Melissa

BFP #1 2/26/14 EDD 11/4/14 MMC 4/1/14 D&C 4/2/14
 BFP #2 5/24/14 EDD 2/3/15 MC 6/12/2014

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Re: Intro from the bench (loss mentioned)

  • i'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm sorry for your loss. Plenty of TTCAL-ers are on the bench at some point in the journey. There's even a TTA check-in that can be helpful/supportive/informative while you wait to leave the bench. 

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  • BluEyedGirl26BluEyedGirl26 member
    edited April 2014
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board, I hope your stay here is short.

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    BFP #1: April 5, 2013; EDD December 11, 2013; Missed M/C May 15, 2013

    BFP #2: February 17, 2014; EDD October 30, 2014; M/C March 15, 2014

    BFP #3: August 1, 2014; EDD April 14, 2015 - Praying for our RAINBOW!

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  • Welcome. So very sorry for your loss.
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    BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E
    BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22
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  • So sorry for you loss. (((Hugs)))


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    BFP #2 6/12/14, DD born 2/21/15

  • I am so sorry for your loss.

    I am also currently TTA and have found this board a to be a nice commuinty, welcome to the board.
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  • welcome. I am sorry for your loss.

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  • Welcome. I am soo sorry for your loss...
  • I am so sorry for your loss. Hope your stay is short and sweet.((hugs))
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  • I am so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here. Many of us are TTA, and you are more than welcome to join us!
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  • So sorry for your loss. Welcome to the group.
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    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
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  • Welcome!! I am also on the bench until next cycle. Sorry you had to find us but I hope you find the support you need.
  • Welcome. I am sorry for the loss of your baby. Missed miscarriages are a shock to the system. I am benched too. Listen to your doctor, your body, and yourself. I hope your stay is short. 
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  • I'm very sorry for your loss. Give yourself time to begin healing. I can say that for me time has helped me heal and move forward. Take care of yourself and welcome. (((hugs)))
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    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
  • I'm so sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board.  (((HUGS)))

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    MMC discovered at 10 weeks (baby measured 9 weeks) D&C on 3/16/13 
    BFP #2  CP on 3/31/14
    BFP #3  8/11/14  EDD 4/22/14
  • I am so sorry for your loss ((hugs)) and sorry that you are finding yourself here but welcome to the group. 

    Me: 34, DH: 32
    TTC Since September 2012
    Dx-PCOS, Anovulation, highly irregular cycles
    March 2013 Comid 50 mg+ TI #1: BFN
    April 2013 Clomid mg + TI #2: BFN
    IVM#1 Aug 2012: BFN
    20 FEB 2014:  CP
    IUI #1 Clomid 100mg  24 FEB 2014: BFN

    IUI #2 Clomid 100mg  21 MAR 2014: BFN

    IUI#3 Follistim & trigger 21 May 2014: BFN

    IVF #1 Follistim & Menopur: 14R, 9M, 7F, transfered 2 day 3 8 cell embies

    Beta #1: 7/30: 41  Beta #2 8/1: 96   Beta #3 8/4: 796   EDD:4/9/15

      

     

     

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome
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    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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  • Hi Melissa.  I am sorry to hear about your loss.   The ladies here are great. 
  • I'm sorry for your loss. (((Hugs))) Welcome to the board.
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    BFP #2 8/21/14, EDD 5/1/15 
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  • Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm currently TTA as well. It's ok to take some time before you TTC again. It's important to heal emotionally as well as physically.

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss! Everyone's healing process is different, so do what is best for you. I hope you find support here. Welcome to the board!
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    Welcome to the board. So sorry for your loss but this is a great source of support even when you're benched and waiting to TTC again.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome.

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    BFP #2 10/9/14 EDD 6/22/15
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  • Welcome, I am so sorry for your loss. 
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    BFP #1 10/5/13 MMC 11/13/13 D&C 11/15/13
    BFP #2 5/14/14 EDD 1/19/15 Beta 1: 728 Beta 2: 1858 We have a heartbeat! 166 @ 7w3d  Please be our RAINBOW!
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