DS has become very active in the past few weeks with crawling and pulling up. I'm finding it hard to spend time doing things with my 3 year old because he is into everything. I spend the majority of my day redirecting him. He doesn't like being contained, and I'm not sure what activities we can all do together. I feel bad that my time with my DD seems limited now. He doesn't nap well, so we don't get much one-on-one time either. My DD was a very mellow, stay in one place and play baby, so this is all new to me!
Re: How do you entertain a very active 8 month old & preschooler
We have a walker that DD2 will tolerate sometimes while I set-up art projects or activities for DD1. And I think I'm going to buy a baby swing so I can push DD2 in it while DD1 plays in our backyard this spring/summer.
I am actually excited for her to walk because I think it might slow her down a bit! Hang in there, just wanted to say I can relate!
DD2: Lucia (Lucy) 07/13
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)
Ditto PPs to just baby-proof like crazy, but have some areas that he's "allowed" to get into also (for mine it's the cabinets under the sink....they love to play w/ all the tupperware). Getting outside and having changes of scenery help a lot too....so trips to the park where he can have a stroller ride or crawl around on a blanket while your DD plays could work out. I don't know where you live, but when the weather gets hot, my boys loved playing in the kiddie pool. Fresh air also helps wear the little buggers out so maybe naptime will be better then.
I have a 3.5 yo, 2 yo, and 7 mo. Without babyproofing, I'd be losing my mind. I can safely let S. (7 mo) play in our living room and kitchen (and other places) and don't need to watch constantly.
ETA: Things you can do together: color (baby plays on floor next to table), build with blocks, build with legos, play-doh (again baby on floor), read books, play with cars, play with dolls, go outside...in short, I do most of these things with all 3 kiddos around