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Taking a break...(warning long post)

ReneeJ2011ReneeJ2011 member
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So last night DH and I sat down and had a serious talk.  We decided that after this cycle if no BFP we are going to take a break of undermined length and work on our finances and work towards doing some things that we've always talked about.  When we decided to TTC we weren't expecting to have to spend money to get pregnant (who does?).  Anyway after our talk we decided that if this cycle doesn't work we are going to go back to trying on our own and getting healthy for a while. We are going to work on our finances too.  Try and save up some money and hey if we get pregnant during that time GREAT, but if we don't we will start back with a RE later.  We've decided that we are still young and right now the best decision for us is to work on paying some things off and getting finances in order and we can't really do that right now while we are self paying for fertility treatments.  
I am at peace with this decision, while it was a tough one to make it is what is right for us right now.  I'm writing this to let all of you know how thankful I am for your support through this journey and hey maybe a BFP will happen this cycle and we won't need a break.  I want to thank all of you from the bottom of my heart and wish you all the best of luck in your TTC journeys.  You are all wonderful women who will all make wonderful mothers one day. 
Thank you again, 
Renee
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Re: Taking a break...(warning long post)

  • Sami14vbSami14vb member
    I am glad that the two of you have come to a peaceful decision, and I am happy that you get a much needed break from the drama of infertility.  I wish you and your hubby the best!
    Me:30 (anovulatory and mild endometriosis)   DH: 33 No issues
    Married 7/15/12
    Began TTC 3/2013
    First appointment with RE 7/2013
    8/2013 benched w/ cyst
    9/2013 100mg clomid w/ menopur/cancelled due to 15+ foll.
    10/2013 25 mg. clomid w/trigger shot/2 foll. canceled IUI
    11/2013 benched w/cyst
    12/2013 25 mg. clomid w/trigger shot and IUI 3 foll. BFN
    1/2014 25 mg. clomid w/ trigger shot and IUI 2 foll. BFN
    2/2014 took off-too emotionally drained
    3/2014 25 mg. clomid w/ trigger shot and IUI 2 foll. BFN
    4/2014 injectibles w/ trigger and prog. inserts  2 foll. BFP!!! 
    4/21/14 Beta #1 715 (18 dpo)
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  • erolliserollis member
    That's good you both are satisfied and at peace with the decision you came to. Good luck with all that you do.
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  • theholmanherdtheholmanherd member
    Good luck; sorry you had to make that decision. I hope you're able to get more comfortable financially and come back strong. Feel free to continue contributing!
    Love 2010 | Marriage 2011 | TTC #1 since 2012
    PCOS | Anovulatory | Metformin + Letrozole
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