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StephyMarieStephyMarie member
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My husband and I had a MMC at 12 weeks in January 2014.In the beginning of the pregnancy I was very calm. I frequently thought to myself "everything always works out the way it should." This is out of character for me, typically I'm full of anxiety over everything.  I started to have a a bad feeling about the pregnancy a few weeks in. It was very different from my first pregnancy. Especially when my symptoms stopped an I started to loose weight around 8 weeks. After the miscarriage I had a difficult time coping and decided to give myself some time before TTC. I was bitter, angry, and sad which put a lot of stress on my body and emotional well being.  We are now going to try again but I'm fearful (terrified) of another loss. I want to learn to cope with this fear, as I know it will not be good for my body or any future pregnancy.
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  • MoreThanSparrows08MoreThanSparrows08 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Many ((hugs)). Welcome to the board.
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  • kate6214kate6214 member
    So sorry for your loss. Welcome

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • Buttercup509Buttercup509 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome.

    TTC since May 2013
    BFP #1 11/22/13 EDD 7/31/14
    MMC 13 weeks - discovered 2/13/14 at 16 weeks - Trisomy 13 - D&C 2/14/14
    BFP #2 10/9/14 EDD 6/22/15
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  • polevaultRNpolevaultRN member
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. ((Hugs))

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  • stefugestefuge member
    I am so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here. Welcome to the board.
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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome - hope you find the comfort and support you are looking for here.
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    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • rubysirubysi member
    Welcome to the board. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find the support you need here. Your fear you have is very natural and I am sure we all share it.

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  • BluEyedGirl26BluEyedGirl26 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board, I hope your stay here is short!

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    BFP #1: April 5, 2013; EDD December 11, 2013; Missed M/C May 15, 2013

    BFP #2: February 17, 2014; EDD October 30, 2014; M/C March 15, 2014

    BFP #3: August 1, 2014; EDD April 14, 2015 - Praying for our RAINBOW!

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  • squeakyfrog15squeakyfrog15 member
    I'm so sorry for you loss! Welcome to the board, and make sure you take all the time you need! It is okay to grieve and it is okay to be afraid! I hope your stay is short! ((HUGS))
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    BFP #1 4/29/13 Chemical Pregnancy 5/6/13
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    D&C 9/16/13
    Started trying again 2/17/14
    BFP #3 4/19/14 Chemical Pregnancy 4/21/14
    BFP #4 8/18/14 EDD 4/25/15
    Began Lovenox 8/18/14
    Heterotopic Pregnancy- Interuterine MMC@6w 8/28/14 
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  • QuigleyCat1QuigleyCat1 member
    I am so very sorry for your loss.  I hope you'll find the support you'll need as you move forward.  It's a wonderful place to be considering the circumstances.  Many hugs to you.

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  • NoeliaVNoeliaV member
    I am sorry for your loss. Welcome.
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  • longcat07longcat07 member
    i'm so sorry for your loss.
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    BFP#2 EDD 12.07.2014, natural mc 04.09.2014 at 5w3d
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  • smcniffsmcniff member
    So sorry for your loss. Welcome.


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  • sgio7485sgio7485 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.
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    BFP #2 5/14/14 EDD 1/19/15 Beta 1: 728 Beta 2: 1858 We have a heartbeat! 166 @ 7w3d  Please be our RAINBOW!
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  • ikrystalikrystal member
    I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome.
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  • stephy1221stephy1221 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • tfno2tfno2 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. I'm not able to try yet but when we do I'll be sharing your fear. I think that's a completely normal fear to have. ((Hugs))

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  • chicagojackiechicagojackie member
    Sorry for your loss and welcome
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    BFP #2: m/c at 7w, February, 2014
    BFP #3: It's a BOY! Please be our rainbow! Due February, 2015
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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    So sorry for your loss. Hope your stay here is short and sweet.
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
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    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • jap618jap618 member
    I'm sorry for your loss; welcome to the board <3
    Married the love of my life June 18, 2011 -- Me (28) DH (29)
    TTC #1 since June 2012
    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
    BFP#4 6.18.14 EDD 3.3.15 Team Pink
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