I wasn't interested in dating him when we first met (though he was), but I recently had my heart broken and didn't want to date anyone. We hung out often for about 6 months and then one night, while watching a movie, BAM! We started making out haha
It'll be 10 years in August! Married for 5. Bananas.
For me...definitely love at first sight with a little scandal twist since I was dating someone else when I met him .
I met my H and when I introduced myself to him (we were neighbors at an apartment complex in college) and instantly this thought came to me "this is the man I'm going to marry". I was FREAKED out when that thought fluttered across my mind but there it was!
A month later I was single and the day after I had broke up with the other guy, my H stopped by with some lemon poppy bread and we started hanging out. Dating started a month later, we were engaged 6 months later, married 7 months after that.
Now, we're coming up on our 6 year wedding anniversary and I wouldn't change a thing. Happy as a clam.
Began trying for a baby January 2012 BFP 4.25.2013 EDD 1.3.2014 MMC 6.3.2013 D&C 6.19.2013 BFP 11.3.2013 CP 11.6.2013 BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014
We met in a game and while it couldn't be love "at first sight" something clicked with our personalities. Within 6 month of talking, webcam, etc, we both felt we needed to meet each other. Everything went fantastic and more travels crossing the Atlantic to see each other happened in the next 3 years while we were trying to keep our distance relationship alive. It was a very tough time for both but we made it. He finally came to live with me (in my country) but things didn't work out job wise, and after a year we decided to (sadly) move to his country. I say sadly because I miss my homeland so much... Now I know we made a wise decision moving, but still miss what I left behind. Looking to the present, we have been 4 years married, we have a precious 2.5 son and another on the way. And...every time I look at him, I get butterflies in my belly
I voted for the crazy roller coaster before it was made official option. DH and I met initially at a softball gam and he barely spoke to me and seemed completely uninterested....I didn't really care - I thought he was cute, but was turned off by the fact that he seemed too shy.
We ended up going on a double date with friends a little over a year later and we had a good time, laughed a lot, but he never asked me on another date (this was right around Christmas 2005). We exchanged phone numbers and chatted maybe once a week but nothing too crazy. He told me in late January that he had met another girl who he wanted to date and wanted to see how things went with her. I appreciated his honesty and we weren't officially dating, so it was a little odd but he said he wanted to be friends.
Anyway, we kept chatting on the phone occasionally and he ended up breaking it off with that girl - we hung out a few times over the next couple months but it never really seemed like "dates", just casual hanging out. Then in late May, my cousin married his best friend and he was best man in the wedding and I was singing in the wedding (destination wedding also at the beach), and we decided to be each other's date to the wedding. We ended up spending a ton of time together down there and kissed for the first time, and have been together ever since (that was May 2006). Got engaged in November of that year and married the following October!
He gives off this kind of trashy redneck vibe & I was having NO part of that relationship wise. Finally, after being around him enough & meeting some of his family I figured out he wasn't at all what I thought he was about.
He "courted" me for a good 7-8months before my opinion changed.
He still comes off a bit white-trashy imo by how he dresses sometimes, but his style & demeanor have changed quite a bit (for the better) after being with me
BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbowBaby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!
Our romance was quite the rollercoaster. We met in college while we both were in relationships so we were friends but I made it no secret that I was attracted to him. The relationships fizzled on their own and we kissed one night. Being fresh out of a relationship I told him that I wasn't ready for another relationship, but I liked him and didn't want him to date or hook up with anyone else. Shockingly, he stuck around.
A few months later he got in a really bad car accident that he shouldn't have survived. The thought of losing him snapped me into reality about how stupid I was being. I told him that he was gonna marry me. We compromised by officially becoming boyfriend and girlfriend. 3 days later I flew to Costa Rica to study abroad for the summer and he still stuck around.
BFP #1: 3/23/13, EDD: 11/22/13, MC: 4/2/13
Convinced it was a boy and missing him every day!
BFP #2: 10/25/13, EDD: 7/3/14, Grow baby Grow! Anabelle Rose born 6/6/14
DH and I went to school together from Kindergarten through our senior year and graduated together in a class of 15. We dated for one week in 8th grade, we randomly kissed at an "envirothon" our class went on, mostly just to get out of school, in 9th grade and had different significant others all throughout HS. Our last names both started with H so we were always next to each other when we had to do anything in the alphabetical order and our lockers were always side by side. He picked on me constantly and I would come home crying from elementary school because he was "mean to me". My mom always told me, "it's just because he likes you!"
We came home to our small town after our freshman year in college and started dating, got engaged, and now we've been married for almost 7 years! And yes, he was my first kiss. I love telling this story. Good poll, @MrsWallick !!
BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks
BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results. BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!! | EDD 6/6/18
"Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap & tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap & tell them about me?" All are welcome!
Definitely too complicated for a poll. We met last year through our running club while we were both married but he was already separated and I was almost separated. We were friends for a few months while I got separated from my ex and then started dating after I was officially separated. At this point, my divorce is final and his almost is, so it's been a bit of a crazy time. But ever since our first date, it's just felt completely right between us... like we're each other's perfect other half. It's a lot unconventional for both of us to be PG before being married, but neither of us is ready to get remarried right away, even though we're both completely committed to each other and know that we'll take that step in the future.
We met at a wedding and hit it off immediately. He was the best man and still recovering from the bachelor party and had a black eye and broken wrist. It's a wonder I didn't run in the other direction. We were married just slightly over a year later.
I chose roller coaster. I was at a salsa club in college and I spotted him and thought he was cute. (So..infatuation at first sight?) I dared my roommate to go ask him to dance, and she did. He asked me to dance later on in the night and we hit it off. It started off very casual after that- just met at the same place to go dancing with friends. It was a while before either of us realized how much we liked being together! I was also very young when I met him, so it was good for me to keep it casual at first.
I'm another eHarmony success story. He says he knew he could marry me after our first date (which lasted 8 hours). I liked him but was put off by how short he was. Silly, I know. On our 4th date something clicked for me and I knew he was the one for me. He asked me to move in with him a few weeks later, but I told him I wouldn't live with him until we were engaged. He said, "Alright. When do you want to get married?" I was shocked and he told me he was serious and wanted to marry me. We got engaged a little over a month later, after some exciting conversations with our parents, and married 11 months after meeting.
BFP #1 ended in MMC. Discovered Oct 2005 @10w5d, baby stopped growing around 6w. D&C. BFP#2 Nov 2005. Baby's heart stopped @ 8w3d. D&C Jan 2006. Trisomy 18 BFP#3 Nov 2006. My "miracle baby" DD born 7/25/07 BFP #4 11/6/12. EDD 7/16/13~my birthday! No sac found @ 5w1d, betas not increasing. Natural m/c started 11/20/12.
BFP#5 11/9/13. EDD 7/21/14 Our beautiful rainbow born on his due date!!
DH and I kept crossing paths, mostly because he dated a few of my friends in high school. He came down to visit other mutual friends at my college the week after I broke up with my boyfriend. We ended up staying up the whole night talking, started casually seeing each other, and then started dating. We've been together for 10 years!
Definitely love at first sight. We met through a mutual friend at a party in 3rd year university and spent the whole evening together. I knew the night I met him that I would marry him, and I'm so happy I did!
TTC Since August, 2013
BFP#1 11/2/2013 EDD 7/14/2014 MMC discovered at 8w3d (baby stopped growing at 6w2d)
BFP#2 2/4/2014 EDD 10/15/2014 please stick little one!
We meet on student senate in college. Things were complicated for both of us at the time. He liked me before I started liking him. He made me laugh and smile, that was when I started liking him. His history was being a little shy with girls, but he was not with me, he said he knew he was going to marry me, and told people that! He deffinately let me know he liked me When our situations settled and we finally started dating we both fell hard fast, and knew we were the ones for each other! Almost 10 years later, with our 5th wedding anniversay coming up and baby #2 on the way, we are still as happy as can be!
We met online. Talked for a month or so before meeting. We met and went hiking with the dogs. When I got the the hiking place he was already there. He was kneeling next to his truck with his golden retriever in front of him. I started walking towards him and thought to myself he is the one. No idea why I said that but did.
After that hike we hung out every weekend. I finished up my teaching degree in December ( met in January) and ended up moving in w him after graduation.
Met January 2006 engaged 2009 married 2011. Baby due 2014
Funny thing was I knew his brother. We went to the same horse shows when I was a kid. Small world. Lol
Me (40) DH (42).......Married 7/1/11......TTC 12/2013.......BFP #1 12/30/12........EDD 9/8/13
Spotting,clot 2/15/13 all ok......2/21/13 no heartbeat 11 w 4 d missed miscarriage........2/22/13 DnC
Re: CPW: About your relationship
It'll be 10 years in August! Married for 5. Bananas.
I met my H and when I introduced myself to him (we were neighbors at an apartment complex in college) and instantly this thought came to me "this is the man I'm going to marry". I was FREAKED out when that thought fluttered across my mind but there it was!
A month later I was single and the day after I had broke up with the other guy, my H stopped by with some lemon poppy bread and we started hanging out. Dating started a month later, we were engaged 6 months later, married 7 months after that.
Now, we're coming up on our 6 year wedding anniversary and I wouldn't change a thing. Happy as a clam.
Began trying for a baby January 2012
BFP 4.25.2013 EDD 1.3.2014 MMC 6.3.2013 D&C 6.19.2013
BFP 11.3.2013 CP 11.6.2013
BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014
We met in a game and while it couldn't be love "at first sight" something clicked with our personalities. Within 6 month of talking, webcam, etc, we both felt we needed to meet each other. Everything went fantastic and more travels crossing the Atlantic to see each other happened in the next 3 years while we were trying to keep our distance relationship alive. It was a very tough time for both but we made it. He finally came to live with me (in my country) but things didn't work out job wise, and after a year we decided to (sadly) move to his country. I say sadly because I miss my homeland so much... Now I know we made a wise decision moving, but still miss what I left behind. Looking to the present, we have been 4 years married, we have a precious 2.5 son and another on the way. And...every time I look at him, I get butterflies in my belly
I voted for the crazy roller coaster before it was made official option. DH and I met initially at a softball gam and he barely spoke to me and seemed completely uninterested....I didn't really care - I thought he was cute, but was turned off by the fact that he seemed too shy.
We ended up going on a double date with friends a little over a year later and we had a good time, laughed a lot, but he never asked me on another date (this was right around Christmas 2005). We exchanged phone numbers and chatted maybe once a week but nothing too crazy. He told me in late January that he had met another girl who he wanted to date and wanted to see how things went with her. I appreciated his honesty and we weren't officially dating, so it was a little odd but he said he wanted to be friends.
Anyway, we kept chatting on the phone occasionally and he ended up breaking it off with that girl - we hung out a few times over the next couple months but it never really seemed like "dates", just casual hanging out. Then in late May, my cousin married his best friend and he was best man in the wedding and I was singing in the wedding (destination wedding also at the beach), and we decided to be each other's date to the wedding. We ended up spending a ton of time together down there and kissed for the first time, and have been together ever since (that was May 2006). Got engaged in November of that year and married the following October!
BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
He gives off this kind of trashy redneck vibe & I was having NO part of that relationship wise. Finally, after being around him enough & meeting some of his family I figured out he wasn't at all what I thought he was about.
He "courted" me for a good 7-8months before my opinion changed.
He still comes off a bit white-trashy imo by how he dresses sometimes, but his style & demeanor have changed quite a bit (for the better) after being with me
BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbow Baby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!
DX: Uterine Septum - Resection 9/5/13 || MTHFR Hetero A1298C || My Chart
A few months later he got in a really bad car accident that he shouldn't have survived. The thought of losing him snapped me into reality about how stupid I was being. I told him that he was gonna marry me. We compromised by officially becoming boyfriend and girlfriend. 3 days later I flew to Costa Rica to study abroad for the summer and he still stuck around.
BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks
BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!! | EDD 6/6/18
All are welcome!
BFP #1 9/27/2013, EDD 6/10/2014, Mmc 11/01/2013, completed with misoprostol 11/8/2013
BFP #2 2/5/2014, EDD 10/15/2014, Lillian Verletta born 10/23/14
PAL January Siggy Challenge: Good Advice
BFP #1 ended in MMC. Discovered Oct 2005 @10w5d, baby stopped growing around 6w. D&C.
BFP#2 Nov 2005. Baby's heart stopped @ 8w3d. D&C Jan 2006. Trisomy 18
BFP#3 Nov 2006. My "miracle baby" DD born 7/25/07
BFP #4 11/6/12. EDD 7/16/13~my birthday! No sac found @ 5w1d, betas not increasing. Natural m/c started 11/20/12.
BFP#5 11/9/13. EDD 7/21/14 Our beautiful rainbow born on his due date!!
When I got the the hiking place he was already there. He was kneeling next to his truck with his golden retriever in front of him. I started walking towards him and thought to myself he is the one. No idea why I said that but did.
After that hike we hung out every weekend. I finished up my teaching degree in December ( met in January) and ended up moving in w him after graduation.
Met January 2006 engaged 2009 married 2011. Baby due 2014
Funny thing was I knew his brother. We went to the same horse shows when I was a kid. Small world. Lol