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MelissaMisoMelissaMiso member
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How many times a month do you DTD?

Do you only do it during your fertile days or do you "practice" and have fun other days?

Has DTD become all baby making business?

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  • MelissaMisoMelissaMiso member
    MelissaMiso said:
    How many times a month do you DTD?

    Once or twice. I've been too exhausted to want to do it more.

    Do you only do it during your fertile days or do you "practice" and have fun other days?

    Last month it was only during fertile days.

    Has DTD become all baby making business?

    Yes but I am trying to get myself to be more open with bringing intimacy back into the marriage.


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  • hooligans4hooligans4 member
    Once or twice a month if I'm lucky.
    I would like 3 times a week but DH has a very low sex drive :((

    Only hit fertile days if it falls on a weekend.

    It really isn't ever baby making business. It's whenever I can get it. And it is so dang good when I do get it I take it whenever it's offered.

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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    On average twice a week. During my fertile time for me it's all about making a baby
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  • Davie813Davie813 member
    Every day during fertile week, once or twice most weekends, very occasionally on regular weekdays.

    During fertile week it's pretty much a chore, but at least we can laugh about that fact.  Although, (TMI alert) we recently put the Colbert Report on in the background because we were bored and ended up laughing too hard to get anything done.  Reproductive fail!

    As in so many other areas, now that we're starting to realize that we're in this for the long haul, we're also working on ways to make things a bit more fun and intimate.
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  • ksgsmuksgsmu member
    on average 5x per week except for when aunt flow is in town.  Timing has never been our issue :)
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  • bumpuser10258960bumpuser10258960 member
    ksgsmu said:
    on average 5x per week except for when aunt flow is in town.  Timing has never been our issue :)
    So jealous!

    I too suffer from a hubby with slow sex drive. As a result, it has decreased mine as well. As of right now we only DTD about 1x a week (if it's a good week). Since I've been on BC "fertile days" hasn't really been an issue, but I officially stop BC today so we'll see how it goes this coming month!
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  • LaireAndLiaLaireAndLia member
    Laire and I's AF don't overlap at all, so we have about two weeks every month in which no sex is had at all, and Laire gets really annoyed, haha. But when AF is not around, we do the 'deed' pretty much every day. So probably around 13 times a month.
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  • lcwedlcwed member
    We have sex whenever we get the chance post AF.  We want one of each so when the fertile time hits, boy positions are the go to position for us. 
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  • CML11CML11 member
    Generally we are at 3x a week, and now that we are in the fertle window, we've been at it everyday. I think we did it 6 days in a row last month because my crazy LH surge.
    He likes a heads up if we are going at it for several days. It's good for us because he likes to initiate it, seems to work better than when I do ( celias related).
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    hooligans4 said:
    Once or twice a month if I'm lucky. I would like 3 times a week but DH has a very low sex drive :(( Only hit fertile days if it falls on a weekend. It really isn't ever baby making business. It's whenever I can get it. And it is so dang good when I do get it I take it whenever it's offered.
    This is us, totally. It doesn't help that DH gets home at 9 at night and still has work tasks when he arrives. 

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  • northernkhaleesinorthernkhaleesi member
    Almost every day.

    TTC or not.


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  • KirstenAleciaKirstenAlecia member
    Id say we are 1-2 times a week. 

    My hubbys school schedule and work takes a toll lately. Also Im feeling like a fat cow so it effects my desire to be seen nekid. :( 

    I shouldn't let that bother me cause it doesn't bother him that i have a few extra pounds. In fact its almost over too quick if he can see (DTD in the daytime). lol…TMI. I love that guy….he loves me even when I don't love me. :) 

    I think when school is over (august) we will be all over each other again all the time. lol. 
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