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1. What are 5 things you are never without? (phone, gum, lotion, etc.) If you have a brand of something you love, tell us too!
2. Where are your top 1-3 vacation destinations? Maybe something you can drive to (regional) and something you have to fly to...and why?
3. If you work outside the home, describe your office/workspace. If you're a SAHM, tell us what your daily schedule looks like.
4. What kind of cake/dessert do you like to have on your birthday?
5. What's up for the weekend!?!
BONUS: PIP us something related to one of the above; or, anything really. Everyone loves a PIP!
Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!
It's been a long road to here...Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.

Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long. We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
Re: GTKY 4/11 Edition
- Phone (I have a Windows Nokia 920 and love it)
- Lip Balm (ok, this has a horrible name but I LOVE it - Chicken Poop Lip Junk!)
- Locctaine Shea Butter Hand Cream (original) I have these everywhere!
- Sunglasses (yes, in Seattle you do need them all year - if that sun comes out it hurts!)
- Hair ties
2. Nearby we love to drive up to Whidbey Island - it's 1 hour from Seattle but a different world. For flyaway, Maui for sure!!! But if we want to 'travel' vs. 'vacation,' then I really love France and Italy.
3. My work office has art on the walls, a shelf of Japanese blind box toys, and is lit with lamps and never those horrid flourescents! It feels a little dark but I like the soft light.
4. I like this Strawberry vanilla cake from Simply Desserts in my neighborhood - it's like a strawberry shortcake cake, in a way, perfect for an early summer birthday! Here's a link to an online pic of it. I love chocolate cake, but this is a worthy exception.
5. Ug! This weekend is all about getting ready for vacation to Maui (packing, bikini wax, toes done, bang trim, etc). We are giving our chickens away this weekend too
Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.
Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
1. What are 5 things you are never without? (phone, gum, lotion, etc.) If you have a brand of something you love, tell us too! I am never without my cell phone, dental floss, tissues/napkins, gum, and my iPod.
2. Where are your top 1-3 vacation destinations? Maybe something you can drive to (regional) and something you have to fly to...and why? I love vacationing in the Florida Keys. My in-laws, myself and my wife, and about 5-6 friends go down every year for mini-lobster season (except this year b/c my SIL is due right when season starts and I will be 7 months along with twins so it is not happening-first time in over 10 years BOO). We camp (well, glamp b/c we all have RVs and campers) right on the water and it is AH-MAY-ZING! The other two are anywhere where we can go and relax. We go stay at a "camping" location called sun-n-fun in Sarasota and it is always a good time. I LOVE GOING ON CRUISES!!!!
3. If you work outside the home, describe your office/workspace. If you're a SAHM, tell us what your daily schedule looks like. I have two offices at work. One is stacked full of secure testing materials (I work in a school-one of my responsibilities is the planning, organizing, implementing, and security of all testing) and the other is a hodge-podge of administrative paperwork, picture frames, and calendars to keep up with the bagillion things we have going on
4. What kind of cake/dessert do you like to have on your birthday? I LOVE FUNFETTI CUPCAKES WITH CREAM CHEESE ICING!!!! MMMMMMM.
5. What's up for the weekend!?! I am not really sure. Tomorrow-probably laundry and DW is going to do yardwork. Sunday- going to check out a church and then probably hanging out by the pool
Married to M and proud mothers to Olivia and Elise (8/19/2014) and to our fur-babies: Capone (pitbull), Jax and Atticus (cats)
2. Some I drive to: Durness. We go every year, right on the very north coast of Scotland, and is gorgeous (and normally freezing). Its about a 5 hour drive, if you go straight up, on some of the most horrible roads I've ever been on, but it's worth it. Somewhere I have to fly: Elba. It's a tiny island just off the Tuscan coast of Italy and it's stunning. Plus, it's always warm! But I also love all the Norse capital cities.
3. I am a community midwife (though I also do cover work in the local hospital) so I do a lot of home visits. I also have a little office in the local GP surgery. It looks like it hasn't been decorated since the 1970s, is almost always too hot or far too cold, and covered in photographs of the family of the midwife that also works there. I put a picture of me and Laire on my 'side' of the desk (it's actually just my desk, she has her own), and she took it down because apparently it made some of her patients feel awkward. I kind of hate working in there, and have taken to using one of the nurses rooms when I need to see a patient.
4. Red velvet cake!
5. We're off to see Laire's sister's family in Sweden! We fly out tonight.
Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.
Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
Married to M and proud mothers to Olivia and Elise (8/19/2014) and to our fur-babies: Capone (pitbull), Jax and Atticus (cats)
Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.
Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
1. My iPhone and burts bees lip balm (I have a psychosomatic response of chapped lips only if I don't have it on me). I can't think of 3 others... probably my wallet, keys, and sunglasses (somehow its always the sunniest day of the year with tons of glare the one day I forget them at home).
2. We go to Cape Cod every summer. Except this upcoming one when we will instead be birthing some babies. My in-laws have a house there and we love the entire Cape, but especially Provincetown (of course) and Martha's Vineyard. Can't wait to dress up our boys all preppy for their first summer on the Cape next year. Their nursery will even have a Cape Cod/New England theme. Locally we like San Diego for day trips or weekends away. Perfect home away from home since my dad lives there..
3. I think I got lucky with my office. I think its one of the better ones in our building, but I might be the only one who thinks that. Others in this building are much bigger, like with room for couches and meeting tables, but mine has one wall of north-facing windows (so I never have had to turn on a light and its always well lit, not a dark cave like the offices across the hall from me) and I can look out on a huge un-usable deck (and I do have a sliding glass door to go out there, but I'm not supposed to) and my view is of a steep green hill dotted with houses. I have art I brought from home on the walls and all over my desk. I also work with students (not in my office, in separate testing rooms) so my testing materials fill the shelves- most of which is colorful puzzles and pictures.
4. I love home made carrot cake on my birthday.
5. San Diego is happening this weekend. My sister and a close friend of ours both live in north San Diego county and we will go spend some time with them and enjoy the beach in Del Mar with our dogs.
A & K, married 7/1/13.
After 10 months of ttc via medicated IUIs and two early losses, we finally got our boys- Perfect premie twins born 5/27/14.
2. Where are your top 1-3 vacation destinations? Maybe something you can drive to (regional) and something you have to fly to...and why?
3. If you work outside the home, describe your office/workspace. If you're a SAHM, tell us what your daily schedule looks like.
4. What kind of cake/dessert do you like to have on your birthday?
5. What's up for the weekend!?!
1. What are 5 things you are never without? (phone, gum, lotion, etc.) If you have a brand of something you love, tell us too!
2. Where are your top 1-3 vacation destinations? Maybe something you can drive to (regional) and something you have to fly to...and why?
3. If you work outside the home, describe your office/workspace. If you're a SAHM, tell us what your daily schedule looks like.
We renovated our office about 2 years ago (man was that a project and giant pain in the rear!)... prior to the renovation I had a large office that I shared with two other people. Post renovation, we have moved to an "open workspace environment" where only our Executive Management (CEO, VPs) have actual offices, and everyone else has a cubicle. At first I hated it, because even though I shared, I had private space with a door in my previous office. However, it has been 2 years and I am used to it now. My cubicle is also very, very large and located across from a conference room where I can quickly duck in to make a call or have a confidential discussion. And honestly, my day is made up mainly of meetings, so I am away from my desk about 75% of the time on any given day (most of the time).
4. What kind of cake/dessert do you like to have on your birthday?
Classic grocery store bakery birthday cake! White cake with vanilla icing, please! With a scoop of ice cream on the side. So simple, but has always been a favorite of mine
5. What's up for the weekend!?!
Tonight we are meeting my mother-in-law for a quick dinner and then going to the mall to walk around and do some baby/nursery shopping. My wife wants to get some more nursery decor things, and my mother-in-law wants to help. I am not supposed to be involved, as the nursery is still largely a surprise to me, but I plan to walk around the mall and perhaps check out nursing bras - exciting! HAHA
The rest of the weekend my wife is working on the nursery and playroom and hopefully starting to get some thing "finished" (dare I say!)... I have a long list of to-do things that range from going to the bank and grocery shopping, to trying to paint my toes (HA - should be interesting), to writing some thank you notes for gifts we have already started receiving. So I will chip away at my list at my own pace, and help my wife if she needs it. I looking forward to not getting out of bed before the sun comes up and having a decent amount of couch time as well
BONUS PIP: This is my wife and I on our honeymoon on the tour bus in France
Me - 30, My wife - 31 , Together for 10 yrs - Married August 2012
5 medicated IUIs w/ RE (March - July 2013) = BFN
Fresh IVF Cycle in September 2013 resulted in 18 mature eggs, 16 fertilized, 12 made it to day 5. Transfer of 2 Grade A blastocysts on 9/15/13, and 10 embryos in the freezer! *****BFP on 9/25/13 - betas: @10dp5dt = 232; @12dp5dt = 465; @15dp5dt = 1,581 *********William George born June 4, 2014*********-iPhone (5c)
-Burts Bees lip gloss (w/ tint)
-Sunglasses
-Wallet
-Extra Diaper & change of clothes for Kaden
2. Where are your top 1-3 vacation destinations? Maybe something you can drive to (regional) and something you have to fly to...and why?
-We love Santa Cruz, CA for day trips (beaches, boardwalk, etc.)
-Day trips also to Sonoma/Marin coast, Napa, Sonoma, Healdsburg, etc. (love the little shops, restaurants, the beautiful landscape). I also love street fairs, etc. in the Spring and Summer
-Roatan, Honduras in the Caribbean for longer vacations (we love the beaches, and the people. It's such a beautiful island. We've travelled throughout the Caribbean and Central American and Roatan is definitely one of our favorite places. Our house is rented now for 6 -12 months so its likely if we visit in 2014 that we'll be staying in a hotel, hopefully near the beach!) :-)
-We also really liked Fuji and have wanted to go back. But likely we'd try something new (since exploring is the best ;-)
3. If you work outside the home, describe your office/workspace. If you're a SAHM, tell us what your daily schedule looks like.
7:00am (ish) Kaden wakes up, we putter around upstairs while I shower and get ready. Recently he has wanted to jump in the shower with me and splash around which is so cute (its a large stone shower so luckily there is room and a flat bottom).
7:45am - breakfast for Kaden and I pack EV's breakfast and lunch for the day
8:00am - 11:30am - Put away dishes from night before, eat breakfast, do dishes, sweep, mop, do laundry. Let Kaden play outside or inside. Bump. Start prepping dinner. Give Kaden a snack. Read a few books together. Maybe a project around the house (like cleaning out fridge, garage organization, putting newborn stuff together). Various diaper and outfit changes for Kaden, 1x - 2x a week do a deeper clean of bathrooms, vacuum, dust, etc., Work on personal business while Kaden plays (i.e. pay bills, send emails, taxes, etc.)
11:30am - Kaden eats lunch, usually something warm (I might eat lunch with him, or later)
12:00pm - 2:00pm - Kaden naps, I do homework, drink tea
2:00pm - 4:30pm - run errands (grocery shopping, etc.), go to the park, finish laundry and put it away, finish, or heat dinner
5:00pm - EV comes home (Kaden goes crazy - he just adores her :-)
5:30pm - Dinner
6:00pm - 7:00pm - Family hangout time (Clean up dinner dishes)
7:00pm - Bath and bedtime prep
7:30pm - Bedtime
7:30pm - 11:00pm - homework, EV and I talk, ocassionally watch a show
4. What kind of cake/dessert do you like to have on your birthday?
Today German Chocolate cake...yummmm. And Ice Cream
5. What's up for the weekend!?!
I actually need to rush and change for our lunch Baby Shower with EV's co-workers. Kaden is coming along and I need to leave in 20 minutes!!! Whoops
Later tonight homework and hopefully getting to sleep early
Saturday - I'll work in SF doing my driving gig :-)
Sunday - homework and maybe the gym (I haven't been in a couple of weeks). If its warm out maybe we can take Kaden swimming.
Have a great weekend everyone!!! :-)
2. For nearby travel, we like to stay at a B&B and visit the wineries in Fredericksburg, TX. Or sometimes we just spend a night at one of the lake resorts in Austin.
For flyaway travel, I have places on my wishlist, but as for places I have been to that I love to return to - NYC without a doubt.
3. I work for the state. My building is old, gross, and germ infested. Yech. Cube city w/ florescent lights. Grey cabinets, grey (and filthy) carpets. But, I have a corner window cube with a nice view of DT Austin in the distance.
4. Anything from my fave vegan bakery, Capital City Bakery. The owner is a magician. I love her chocolate cake with raspberry filling or her cookies and cream cheesecake.
5. Sister in town!!! And home study visit!
My sister with Ash when he was 3 weeks:
- The requisite phone
- Beverage container (water or coffee)
- Sunglasses (these are like second skin in Hawaii and curse the day you forget them as you drive across the island).
- Baby stuff some kind of bag stuffed with various cloth diapers, clothes, snacks, bevies.
- Stupid ear buds. I am always losing and finding these, and they are a main thing I try to grab on my way out the door. Good at the gym, for making phone calls while driving, etc. But I lose them a lot.
2. Where are your top 1-3 vacation destinations? Maybe something you can drive to (regional) and something you have to fly to...and why?5. What's up for the weekend!?!
BONUS: PIP us something related to one of the above; or, anything really. Everyone loves a PIP!
CageyMack
37, married to my favorite person in the world, DW! One darling surfer-girl (12) and one darling, sweet boy born 3/16/13.
5/2013 Started TTC #3, DW's turn: 5/2013: Diagnostics (shg) and surgery (polyp rem.) for best chances. July-Oct: IUI # 1-4, medicated, monitored, triggered. All BFN. IVF in Jan May. Sheesh. Whoop! IVF#1 cycle started 4/2/14. 5/1: 19 eggs retrieved, 8 matured, ICSI'd. 4 fertilized. Only 2 to transfer/freeze stage. 5/6: Two embryos transferred. 5/15: Beta #1 9dp5dt is 134! BFP! 5/19: Beta #2 13dp5dt is 672! B'erFP! 5/21: Beta #3 15dp5dt is 1853. Yay!
"Things separate from their stories have no meaning. They are only shapes. Of a certain size and color. A certain weight. When their meaning has become lost to us they no longer have even a name. The story on the other hand can never be lost from its place in the world for it is that place.” ― Cormac McCarthy, The Crossing
Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.
Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
Edit to add: I did not take this picture! I'm not pulling a Kardashian.
CageyMack
37, married to my favorite person in the world, DW! One darling surfer-girl (12) and one darling, sweet boy born 3/16/13.
5/2013 Started TTC #3, DW's turn: 5/2013: Diagnostics (shg) and surgery (polyp rem.) for best chances. July-Oct: IUI # 1-4, medicated, monitored, triggered. All BFN. IVF in Jan May. Sheesh. Whoop! IVF#1 cycle started 4/2/14. 5/1: 19 eggs retrieved, 8 matured, ICSI'd. 4 fertilized. Only 2 to transfer/freeze stage. 5/6: Two embryos transferred. 5/15: Beta #1 9dp5dt is 134! BFP! 5/19: Beta #2 13dp5dt is 672! B'erFP! 5/21: Beta #3 15dp5dt is 1853. Yay!
"Things separate from their stories have no meaning. They are only shapes. Of a certain size and color. A certain weight. When their meaning has become lost to us they no longer have even a name. The story on the other hand can never be lost from its place in the world for it is that place.” ― Cormac McCarthy, The Crossing
Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.
Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
1. What are 5 things you are never without? (phone, gum, lotion, etc.) If you have a brand of something you love, tell us too!
- My iPhone with rainbow case
- Carmex lip balm
- a lenses cleaner for my glasses
- lotion, which I habitually use after every time I wash my hands
- tissues
2. Where are your top 1-3 vacation destinations? Maybe something you can drive to (regional) and something you have to fly to...and why?
1. California. We spent a whirlwind week there last May and I loved it. I want to go back and visit the Avenue of the Giants again as we literally drove threw and stopped only twice due to time contraints.
2. Florida. We just went in March and also enjoyed the entire trip. C has friends down there, which are now my friends as well. I was so sad to leave them. We are hoping to go back every year if we can.
3. Maine. I went once with my parents, years ago. I would love to go whale watching again and also moose watching!
3. If you work outside the home, describe your office/workspace. If you're a SAHM, tell us what your daily schedule looks like.
I work in a small office inside of a larger building. We have cubes, so privacy is non-existent! I have a few plants and some pictures of C and I. I also have a tie-dye sarong hanging up that I got in Mexico and some inspirational postcards and poster that I bought from the Holocaust Museum. On my chair I have an afghan that a very close friend made for us for a wedding present.
4. What kind of cake/dessert do you like to have on your birthday?
My birthday is in just under two weeks now! Honestly, I would love a twix icecream cake! I saw one in a store a few months back and told C that it was what I wanted. I love twix icecream bars. If they didn't exist, then cheesecake would be the winner.
5. What's up for the weekend!?!
As usual, we have a packed weekend. I'm triggering tonight at 9:30 and will then have my IUI on Sunday at 9:30 am. Tomorrow we are going to a semi-local seasonal restaurant for pancakes and maple syrup that is made right there. Then we're riding the bike, possibly going to a home show and we have our last night of bowling for the season. Sunday we'll have our IUI, then plan to ride the bike all afternoon as long as all goes well with the IUI.
I tried for Bonus PIPs, but we have reached our usage limit on our internet and it seems like I won't be able to get them to upload. If I remember, I will put them up for Thursday next week. We'll be on a new billing cycle then!
Me: 30 DW (aka C): 29
Together since 2/15/11 ~ Legally married in NY on 9/29/12
***CP mentioned***
We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm. 8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy. We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET. I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013.
11/14/14 - Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good.
12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2
12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)
1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2
****All Welcome!****
We are Mommas to four fur babies - 3 dogs and 1 cat.
@2Mamaz - We have Chicken Poop too! C and I both use it at night
I'm sorry that you have to give away your actual chickens 
@CageyMack - That is a stunning picture!
Me: 30 DW (aka C): 29
Together since 2/15/11 ~ Legally married in NY on 9/29/12
***CP mentioned***
We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm. 8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy. We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET. I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013.
11/14/14 - Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good.
12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2
12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)
1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2
****All Welcome!****
We are Mommas to four fur babies - 3 dogs and 1 cat.
Cell phone, pants, water bottle, wallet... I can't really think of anything else...
2. Where are your top 1-3 vacation destinations? Maybe something you can drive to (regional) and something you have to fly to...and why?
Hocking Hills, OH- beautiful hiking and cabins. So peaceful!
The Beach- any beach with sand, waves, nice people and seafood.
Europe- I know this is broad, but I met a lot of international staff members at camp and I miss a great deal of them very much.
3. If you work outside the home, describe your office/workspace. If you're a SAHM, tell us what your daily schedule looks like.
My office is very large, has lots of trees, a pond, a pool and a full vegetable garden. Working at camp definitely has it's perks.
<4. What kind of cake/dessert do you like to have on your birthday?
I am a bit of a cupcake/cake connoisseur... This question changes daily. We had 5 different flavors of cupcakes for our wedding... And choosing them was really hard for me
My favorite homemade cake is marble cake with double fudge icing.
5. What's up for the weekend!?!
I have a huge workday tomorrow where we will be planting over 100 plants in or butterfly garden... Then I am off on Sunday and can't wait to spend the first full day with my love since we found out we were pregnant, when one or both of us is not working! I think Sunday will probably involve brunch, naps and snuggles. Can't wait!
BONUS: PIP us something related to one of the above; or, anything really. Everyone loves a PIP!
A photo of an October sunset at "my office"
Baby Hayden Frances born 12/20/14 at 11:11 a.m... Our perfect little miracle. Here's how we got here:
My lovely wife:
5 IUI's January 2013-June 2013- 3 Cycles with Clomid- BFN
Myself: Genderqueer guy who hopped in the driver's seat of the baby making train
IUI #6- 7/23- Monitored and Trigger on Day 12, with one 16mm follicle and one 18mm follicle- BFN
IUI #7- 8/21- Not monitored, 50mg Clomid- BFN
September and October: Missed Cycles due to vacation and a Half Marathon
IUI #8- Monitored and triggered on day 15, with one 23x18mm follicle- BFN on 11/19/2013
December: Moved onto to see an RE to make a good plan.
IUI #9- 1/1/2014 Natural Cycle, BFP on 1/15/2014, 6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014
IUI #10 3/21/2014- Natural Cycle- BFP on 4/1/2014 (please don't be an April Fools. Beta #1 13dpiui- 48, Beta #2 16dpiui- 416, Beta #3 1018...
1st Ultrasound- 4/22/2014- 6w4d HB- 134!
Check out my Blog at: http://pregnantboithinksoutloud.blogspot.com/
3. If you work outside the home, describe your office/workspace. If you're a SAHM, tell us what your daily schedule looks like.
4. What kind of cake/dessert do you like to have on your birthday? ice cream cake- carvel ONLY (none of that baskin robbins crap with half regular cake. boy did my mom get in trouble for bringing that one year!)
5. What's up for the weekend!?! last night we chilled @ home, today DW had a bridal shower and i am bored so i am cleaning and online.... friends are coming over tongiht for pizza & a movie, tomorrow we are doing yardwork and cleaning the basement and errands!
Me: 30 DW (aka C): 29
Together since 2/15/11 ~ Legally married in NY on 9/29/12
***CP mentioned***
We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm. 8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy. We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET. I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013.
11/14/14 - Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good.
12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2
12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)
1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2
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We are Mommas to four fur babies - 3 dogs and 1 cat.
1. What are 5 things you are never without? (phone, gum, lotion, etc.) If you have a brand of something you love, tell us too!
Phone, lip balm, sunglasses (unless it's rainy, but I do wear them if it's sunny or bright in the winter), and wallet. That's probably it.
2. Where are your top 1-3 vacation destinations? Maybe something you can drive to (regional) and something you have to fly to...and why?
My family has been spending time in Maine (the lakes region) since I was a kid, and my dad now owns a summer home there, so that's our easy-drive (and free) vacation. The house is down a long dirt road on a pond, and it's relaxing and peaceful. As for flying, I guess it depends on how much money I have to burn! For a shorter flight/cheaper, we really loved Charleston -- nice combination of beaches, history, and great food. For a longer flight/more expensive, we loved Hawaii and would go back to Maui or Kauai in a heartbeat if we had the money...but it is SO far from Boston. Alternatively, somewhere in Europe. My wife and I have never been together and I'd love to go just about anywhere with her.
3. If you work outside the home, describe your office/workspace. If you're a SAHM, tell us what your daily schedule looks like.
I work on the 26th floor of a 30-story building in Boston's Financial District. I'm a librarian, so I do have a shared office with my co-worker but spend most of my time out at the Reference Desk fielding requests. The office itself is pretty corporate, but relatively comfortable.
4. What kind of cake/dessert do you like to have on your birthday?
I love cheesecake/cream cheese frosting, brownies, and caramel. So my ultimate is this cheescake; my sister also makes caramel sauce to drizzle on top (cause it's my birthday!). She also made me a buttermilk cake with caramel cream cheese frosting once that was pretty amazing, and my old standby is Nigella Lawson's chocolate Guinness cake. OR a really good brownie sundae (with caramel instead of hot fudge, natch) would do the trick if no one feels like baking.
5. What's up for the weekend!?!
My wife had a rare Friday night off, so we went out to dinner with a friend. Yesterday we deep-cleaned our entire first floor and it looks GREAT. Tired but accomplished! Also did a big BJ's run. Glamorous. I went to yoga this morning, and need to go for a walk when it stops raining and go buy groceries. I'm also hoping to get over to the cat shelter where we got our kitty to donate two beds that she has rejected/outgrown and an old cat carrier that is too small for her.
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
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