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I'm starting to plan my dd's second bday and realized she is a toddler not baby today. :(
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  • I feel your pain! DS's is next weekend!! 
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  • I am the same way.  It is so bittersweet.  It is awesome to watch them grow and develop but it is definitely "sad" to watch them stop being babies/toddlers/little kids/etc. at the same time.

    The only thing I wasn't sad about?  Leaving the newborn 0-3 month phase :)

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  • I am the same way.  It is so bittersweet.  It is awesome to watch them grow and develop but it is definitely "sad" to watch them stop being babies/toddlers/little kids/etc. at the same time.


    The only thing I wasn't sad about?  Leaving the newborn 0-3 month phase :)
    Ya I feel the same way the nb stage was horrible. I don't know what was worse nb stage or breastfeeding. Lmao
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  • Would it make you less sad if I pointed out she's been a toddler for almost a year?  (toddlers are typically defined as 12-36 M)

    On a serious note, while I can't quite empathize (I will be happy to leave the toddler years behind) I can sympathize because being OAD makes everything bittersweet.  Hugs to you and happy b-day to your LO.

     

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  • We'll be planning our LO's second bday pretty soon and H is all "I can't believe our baby is almost 2!" and I'm all "it feels like he should be 10 by now..."  Haha.

    Sorry you'r sad about it.  Just focus on the fun party :)
  • Would it make you less sad if I pointed out she's been a toddler for almost a year?  (toddlers are typically defined as 12-36 M)

    On a serious note, while I can't quite empathize (I will be happy to leave the toddler years behind) I can sympathize because being OAD makes everything bittersweet.  Hugs to you and happy b-day to your LO.

    Ya its fun making everything even more special since you only do big stuff one time.
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  • I'm sorry! I feel the same way. This has been a rough week. 3 has been depressing me. Hugs!

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    I felt the same way when I was driving with DS and he said "dick" instead of penis (he is eight).....I almost drove into a ditch.....then you really know they are not a baby anymore..... =)) .  It took me days to recover.

     

    In all seriousness, I get where you are coming from.  Bitter sweet indeed.

  • I don't have that experience yet but I am sending you internet stranger hugs! 

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  • I'm looking forward to the better. :D
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  • meo34meo34 member
    Chapter79 said:
    Guys, it ONLY gets better :)

    Love it....very true....everytime we pass a mile stone there is something new to savor and enjoy at each stage (potty mouth included because after I got to tell DH and we laughed till we cried)
  • I haven't been sad at a bday yet, but I have a feeling 5 is going to be hard. Ages 2-4 are kind of blending together for me. 3 is like 2 with more words. I feel like 4 is gonna be like 3, but with more coordination (dressing, writing, using scissors...).

    But 5. Man. I remember being 5, you know?
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  • I am in the same boat. Planning the second bday and sad!
    Chemical Pregnancy 2001, Married 8/8/09, TTC April 2011, BFP 5/8/11, Missed M/C @ 9wk5d, D&C 6/21/11 BFP 11/13/11 Chase Everett born at 29wks 0 days on 5/7/12 at 2 lbs 14 oz, 14 1/2 inches long.
  • Chapter79 said:

    Guys, it ONLY gets better :)

    I used to say 1-2 yo was my favorite stage ever. and then she turned 2. 2-3 is so much fun. the things she says, the way she sees the world, OMG, she's just the funniest and sweetest person I have ever known. seriously, everyday it's more magical than the last.
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