I mostly lurk on this board, so I'll give DS's background.
DS is a late term preemie whose been in physical therapy since 4 months old because of a torticollis diagnosis (now resolved). For awhile he was in private PT, but our insurance capped out on therapies for the year, so he's just continued in EI since then (last July). He also had a helmet for positional plagiocephaly for 4.5 months.
Orally hes always been delayed. He just started eating solids chunks at all at 13 months, eats them decently now. He still uses a bottle 2-3 times a day, and he's starting to figure out the sippy cup, but that's been a long road and I don't think he'll switch to it completely for a while. He makes some noises (da, ga, go, du) but no words. He doesn't cry when he needs something (usually) but makes noises (I don't know what else to call them). He even makes a string of sounds that sounds like a jibberish sentence.
All things considered, at his 15 month appointment, the provider wanted us to put him in speech therapy and gave us a referral for audiology (he's had fluid in his ears for months and his pediatrician won't do anything about it, so when we saw a different provider in the clinic this time, I seized the opportunity to ask for it again). I declined a private therapy referral in lieu of using EI for now. He saw audiology last week, and his right ear is completely clear and hearing is normal. His left ear has some fluid in it, so he'll see the ENT in May to take another look and then explore our options if the fluid is still there.
His PT from EI is going to bring out the SLP in the next couple of weeks, we've had her come out before (at around 12 months because he had NO babbling type noises) and she said to give him until about 18 months to see if his speech gets better, which, at the time, I agreed with her. I guess, the insistence on speech therapy we got from the provider has me questioning whether we should do speech now or wait. Thoughts?
Re: Speech Therapy Q
Thanks everyone! I think deep down I know he needs this eval, I just needed some outside input that it wasn't too early for a speech eval.
Early speech therapy will not be harmful to a child's development. Waiting could be. I would get the evaluation. If you don't qualify, then there's some peace of mind that things aren't that bad and always have the option to revisit in a few months.
Of course, but if a child is on the cusp, evaluated at 16 months, "passes" and has to wait six months to be reevaluated, they're not going to be receiving therapy until nearly two if not later if there's a wait for therapists. Giving a little more time could help make the difference because the standards are different between 16 and 18 months--it is why therapists recommend that age. It's definitely worth inquiring about.
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