June 2014 Moms

NPR: *WARNING* Question about what we can do for baby with cancer (not mine)

First, let me just put a warning out there that this is very sad, and I'm tearing up while typing this.  I've never known anyone with a kid with cancer until now, so this is all new to me and I just can't imagine what this family is going through.  On top of this, the parents are in the midst of going through a divorce...when it rains it pours :-(

So the story.....One of my colleagues at work just recently found out that his 15 month old son has brain cancer.  They've done one surgery so far, and as much as they were worried about it, it seems like he's still developmentally where he was before the surgery and seems normal.  They are worried that once they start chemo he may start to lose some of that, but there's no way to know until it happens.  Anyway, my group at work wants to put together a basket for him and are stumped at what to include.  Do any of you have any ideas on little things we could include in a basket other than the obvious stuffed animal?  He most likely won't be very mobile, so it needs to be things that can be used and played with while in bed or relatively immobile.  We're thinking sensory and/or learning type toys to keep his little brain chugging along, but we really don't know.  Any recommendations (and prayers for this family) are much appreciated!
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Re: NPR: *WARNING* Question about what we can do for baby with cancer (not mine)

  • Crayons and coloring books, kinectic sand, play-dough, snacks, toy cars, stickers, a flashlight, picture books, craft supplies, pictures of his family if you can get them.

    That's so sad.  I'll be thinking of the family.

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  • How heart breaking! :(

    I'd guess that the little guy will likely have lots of tubes and IVs and movement will be restricted quite a bit.  I'd look into a Kindle Fired HD and an Amazon Prime account.  There is so much free educational and entertaining content available on the Kindle as well as movies and tv shows through Prime streaming.  And it's very durable.  
    Bonus - the parents could use it to keep in touch with friends and family while the little guy is in the hospital. 

    I work for a Children's Hospital and I know we have a number of resources available for patient families including free in room parent massages, a family lounge, parent use offices, a pet visitation suite, a concierge service, etc.  Perhaps someone could look up hospital respite resources and arrange some things for them while they are there.  

    I'd also second the snacks and food options.  Our hospital has great food options, but sometimes a change of scenery is good.  I know our concierge service will even go pick up food for you if the restaurant doesn't deliver.
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  • I'm so sorry for them. I'd suggest a baby Einstein DVD or leapfrog DVD. There will be a lot of cuddle time and those are great DVDs. I wouldn't underestimate the value of meals either. What that sweet boy will need most is mommy and daddy and any stress you can relieve from them will benefit him immensely.  I will be praying for all of them and the marriage.
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  • So sad. :( before you buy anything I'd double check with his hospital about what can be brought. When my cousin was going through chemo we had a list of things that weren't allowed, stuffed animals were one because of the dirt and other things it can trap. Also, try limiting anything with fragrance. The chemo made my cousin extremely sensitive to smells.
    One thing she loved was a really soft blanket though since her skin hurt. Warm things like socks and hats were good to because she was always cold. We also made her a book with pictures of the family that she liked. Maybe another thing to consider is doing something for the parents, like gift cards for food or uplifting/happy books (lots of downtime during chemo). I know my aunt felt really isolated from the world. When someone did something just for her it went a long way in helping her pick her spirits back up and then was able to give refocused attention on her daughter.

    I hope the chemo is successful!!
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