Thanks, but no thanks. I have no idea who you are.
This! Why do people want a secret BMB FB group when they aren't active on the board?
@ugabamafans Agreed! When I first opened this thread, I thought it was a NEW FB group, which I might have been interested in since I don't think I know anyone who jumped ship when that FB group was started forever ago. But then I realized I don't think I recognized OP, so I was wrong. Oh well.... No offense to anyone in the FB group (I don't really think of it as "my" or "our" FB group), but I don't see myself joining anytime soon. All my ladies are here.
I'm pretty sure we all know where I stand on this one, considering how my last bout with the FB group turned out. That said, I really hope that after the babies are born we figure out a way to stay in touch with the June mommas on here who ARE active and have built relationships through the board. I've never been part of a BMB before, so maybe it's as simple as "we just keep posting here like we always have" but just wanted to throw that out there.
I'm pretty sure we all know where I stand on this one, considering how my last bout with the FB group turned out. That said, I really hope that after the babies are born we figure out a way to stay in touch with the June mommas on here who ARE active and have built relationships through the board. I've never been part of a BMB before, so maybe it's as simple as "we just keep posting here like we always have" but just wanted to throw that out there.
Exactly. I think the regulars here are regulars for a reason. You get out what you put in to a community like this.
OP, I have no idea who you are so this is as good as spam to me *shrugs*
I will be posting here after baby!! My last BMB FB group didn't end well for me, so I'm not going there again, plus we had one super crazy lady that involved the cops/CPS so there's that. I'm a little FB group gun shy. I will be posting here, all by myself if it comes to that! Glad to hear the rest of you will also likely be staying!
Do people stop posting after the babies are born? !?!
I'm a little horrified.
You can't make me!
Also, nopenopenope. I left the Facebook group months ago because I got sick of hearing how MEAN we are. Not joining another unless the salty hoes here start one up. I don't really care about a bunch of strangers and their babies...
DD1: June 2014 - VBM4lyfe DD2: October 2016 DC3: coming May 2019
Ditto on missing the Facebook thread going drama. Or maybe my drama filter was on high that day from hearing DD's tales. (Her nickname is DQ if you can imagine)
I like all you salty hoes and hope I'm not the only one still hanging around after LO is born. SoStickAroundK?
Was I drunk the day the fb thread turned ugly? I don't remember it being "drama." All I remember is everyone being like "Nah, I wanna stay here, yo." ~FIN~
I'm also equally confused by this drive by...
The drama I remember wasn't here, it was on the FB group itself.
DD1: June 2014 - VBM4lyfe DD2: October 2016 DC3: coming May 2019
Was I drunk the day the fb thread turned ugly? I don't remember it being "drama." All I remember is everyone being like "Nah, I wanna stay here, yo." ~FIN~
I'm also equally confused by this drive by...
The drama I remember wasn't here, it was on the FB group itself.
There was also a thread about it, and in that thread I mentioned that I had just left the FB group that day because I was sick of the holier than thou attitude they had there when it came to talking about this group. Many of the women on there would go on tangents about how mean everyone was here, but then would start a thread in the FB group like, "Look with June 14 is doing today...what a bunch of bishes!" which rubbed me wrong and felt totally hypocritical. So I left the FB group, and brought that scenario up on the aforementioned thread in my response. A few gals from the FB group stepped in and said they "couldn't believe I had turned on them" yadda yadda and then it kind of felt like OK, there really is TWO distinct groups here... FB and the BMB. Which is a shame, honestly. Because I joined the FB group thinking I would make closer relationships to people there, but it turned out not to be the case (for me, anyway).
People will still keep posting, but expect a slight lull in anything not baby related until about August when we've finally started adjusting to life with a new baby and feel like we have time to bump again
Good, I'm glad. How the heck else am I supposed to figure out how to cure my baby's diaper rash/incessant crying/lack of pooping, etc?
And then, I am going to need SEVERAL cocktail recipes. S.E.V.E.R.A.L.
Just something to consider - at some point, BMBs disappear. For example, my Aug10 BMB is still going strong on FB, but that group no longer exists on TB. So at some point we might want to consider other options for our community.
@chickpea912 We can always create a social group. I'm still active on March 12 and we have a social group just in case the BMB disappears. June 14 prop won't go away until mid to late 2018, tho.
Just something to consider - at some point, BMBs disappear. For example, my Aug10 BMB is still going strong on FB, but that group no longer exists on TB. So at some point we might want to consider other options for our community.
Ok yes I was thinking the same thing I thought they eventually expired.
I got excited when I say a post with a period title and three pages of posts... So disappointed when I opened it and saw it was this one. I was hoping for something good...
And I was holding out a teeny bit if hope it may have involved the pickle chips girl, pregnancy brain is making me forget her name.
Why is it that once they've DD'd we can no longer go back to the older pages? I can't even see my own comments if I try to click through my history and access it that way. It's stupid. What's the point of the QFP if we can no longer scroll?
It's just the period that does it (the punctuation mark, NOT what @shannonliggett is referring to). Even two periods doesn't break it. Just the one. Proving that, as always, periods are jerks.
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I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
Why is it unfortunate that the group is private? Isn't that the point?
So much confusion!
OP, I have no idea who you are so this is as good as spam to me *shrugs*
I'm a little horrified.
Married DH 7/30/11
CSC arrived 5/7/12
CHC arrived 6/2/14
DD1: June 2014 - VBM4lyfe
DD2: October 2016
DC3: coming May 2019
I like all you salty hoes and hope I'm not the only one still hanging around after LO is born. SoStickAroundK?
DD1: June 2014 - VBM4lyfe
DD2: October 2016
DC3: coming May 2019
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
I prefer to come here for all my pregnancy stuff. LoL
GIFed FOR THE FIRST TIME. HIGH FIVE!!!
I hope people keep posting here after LOs are born! I plan to stick around.
Good, I'm glad. How the heck else am I supposed to figure out how to cure my baby's diaper rash/incessant crying/lack of pooping, etc?
My original BMB is still friends and we all still post on TB and our new private/not private/social group thingy.
Ok yes I was thinking the same thing I thought they eventually expired.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
And I was holding out a teeny bit if hope it may have involved the pickle chips girl, pregnancy brain is making me forget her name.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.