The Big O. I need to know.

candypantsls · April 2014

I need to know, how often do you go, in relation to your partner, now that baby is here? How long have you been married or together? Discuss as you wish.

Babychuu · April 2014

It's usually 1:1 for us, but sometimes its a fight for me to get there. My husband is really patient and willing to work to make sure I get my O too

km_md · April 2014

We are usually 1:1. It took us a bit to get there but once we did it has stayed that way.

We've been together for 8 years (as of today!) and married for 3.5.

Tylynngrace · April 2014

We're usually like 3:1. We've been together for over a year, married for 8 months (wow that sounds lame)

Tylynngrace · April 2014

MarBee1214 said:

Tylynngrace said:

We're usually like 3:1. We've been together for over a year, married for 8 months (wow that sounds lame)

daaang @tylynngrace how long did y'all know each other before the wedding?

We met 4 years ago but were only dating for 8 months when we got married.

bethughknee · April 2014

I'm the first number right? Sorry, it's Monday and I have the dumb.

If so, we're 3:1 usually. 2nd tri it was like 4/5:1. That was awesomesauce.

We have been together 5.5 years, married for 1.5.

peanutmuse · April 2014

bethughknee said:
I'm the first number right? Sorry, it's Monday and I have the dumb.

If so, we're 3:1 usually. 2nd tri it was like 4/5:1. That was awesomesauce.

We have been together 5.5 years, married for 1.5.

You don't have the dumb, it wasn't explained well. To me, it looks like we are actually the second number, based on the descriptions.

ETA: Basically this poll makes two erroneous assumptions -- 1) that the men orgasm each time and 2) that the women never orgasm more than once per sexual encounter. So I picked SS.

SandFHasse · April 2014

It's about 3:1. We've been together for 4 and a half years and married for 8 months.

mrsjenni · April 2014

Am I the only one that doesn't O during sex? We're still 1:1 b/c DH takes care of me first every time (unless it's a quickie) before the sex.

ETA: We've been married 8 years, together 13 in November.

Hmvbaby14 · April 2014

We're probably about 3:1. We've been together for 4.5 years and married 1year(anniversary was last week)!!

candypantsls · April 2014

Yeah my poll answers aren't very clear. The gist of this question was to find out if your husband is being taken care of, are you too? I assumed when you had ST, he orgasms. And I didn't account for when ladies have multiple Os in one sitting, oops!

MeganWorden · April 2014

I O at least once every time. There was a point in 3rd tri that it was only once every 3 st but its back to normal. We have been married almost 3 years together over 9. Dh is one of those who takes it personally if I do not O every time. We haf to have a talk about it during the 3rd tri.

Shannahbee · April 2014

I'm not going to attempt to figure out the ratio, but I O at least once every time (during foreplay) but usually twice (when we actually DTD).

CeeJC121013 · April 2014

1:1 here. I usually take a bit longer though so if we get interrupted by a child crying, I don't finish but it really doesn't bother me. H is very concerned to take care of me during st.

Together 12 years, married for 6.5

KEfam5 · April 2014

1:1 We have been married 3 years in May.

bethughknee · April 2014

I'll be blunt!

He has an O every time we DTD. I O 2-3 times and it was 4-5 during the 2nd tri and I miss that sometimes but really who has the time for that anymore? Haha. I can think of less than a handful of times that we've had ST's and I didn't go. I'm an easy to please lady in the downstairs mix ups apparenty.

mommabird77 · April 2014

We are almost always 1:1, although there are times whenhe does and I don't, and there are times when I do and he doesn't. We have been together for almost 10 years.

last14real · April 2014

Almost always 1:1 DH always gets his and is great about trying to get me there. Sometimes if it's been a while and he goes before me, then we take a breather and go for round two and like I said almost always get my O. The times I don't are quickies or shower sex, gotta love the easy clean up but I feel like a great white jiggly whale so it's hard to get in the sexy mindset. We have been together 6 years married for 4 yrs 3 months.

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