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April 2014 Moms
Luckie519
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TP Saturday... sorry if you normally don't do these on Saturday, but I have to get this out!
Luckie519
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I guess I never paid attention to if we do the TP posts everyday. But I have one for Saturday, so here it goes...
TP to FIL. He is working my last freaking nerve! First, he is planning on leaving on 04/10 (the day after my scheduled c-section) for a race in NC. No big deal. If he wants to leave and miss out on stuff, that's fine. But his constant comments about wanting me to have her sooner, so he can leave sooner, are getting on my last nerve. Last night he stopped by and basically told me not to have her this afternoon, because my nephew has a baseball game and then not to have her this evening, because he is going to a race. Really, dude!?!? First off, neither one of those reasons is a reason in my book not to have the baby. I want this baby out more than anything and now I want her to come today, just be a bitch. I know that may sound awful, but it's like an almost everyday / several times a day comment that comes from him.
He also made the comment last night "I've had both my kids and been to all the grandkids, I know what happens." So, I guess since my BIL has had 3 kids and we have had one, this one is less important, because she would be the 5th grandkid? WTF ever!
TP to FIL. He is working my last freaking nerve! First, he is planning on leaving on 04/10 (the day after my scheduled c-section) for a race in NC. No big deal. If he wants to leave and miss out on stuff, that's fine. But his constant comments about wanting me to have her sooner, so he can leave sooner, are getting on my last nerve. Last night he stopped by and basically told me not to have her this afternoon, because my nephew has a baseball game and then not to have her this evening, because he is going to a race. Really, dude!?!? First off, neither one of those reasons is a reason in my book not to have the baby. I want this baby out more than anything and now I want her to come today, just be a bitch. I know that may sound awful, but it's like an almost everyday / several times a day comment that comes from him.
He also made the comment last night "I've had both my kids and been to all the grandkids, I know what happens." So, I guess since my BIL has had 3 kids and we have had one, this one is less important, because she would be the 5th grandkid? WTF ever!
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Re: TP Saturday... sorry if you normally don't do these on Saturday, but I have to get this out!
I want to TP my DH. He decides now is the time to clean the garage. I'm being induced Saturday if no baby by then so this is our last wkend to do stuff. He won't do laundry, he's complaining about going anywhere with me, and he's been telling me to "just go" and do whatever I want, with my dd. Cool.... I'll just run all over and hope I don't go into labor alone. Awesome. Get that garage nice and clean! Cuz that's what matters right now!
BFP: 7/5/10 EDD: 3/13/11 Miscarriage 8/1/10 at 8 weeks
BFP: 10/30/10 EDD: 7/7/11 Born 7/11//11 7lb12oz, 20 in.
BFP: 7/30/13 EDD: 4/9/14 Born right on time on his due date! 8lb10oz, 21.5 in.
Awesome prophetic fortune cookie: Love is a present that can be given every single day you live
On another note, while leaving my OBGYN appointment on Thursday, a nice old man rode the elevator down with me. He said I wore pregnancy well and was glowing. He asked me about cravings and talked about his wife's cravings when she was pregnant. He didn't try to touch me or comment on how big I was either. So that was good!
But DH took him outside and he ran off into the woods. I was driving home an hour away worrying while DH searched frantically for him.
He looked for almost an hour before heading back to the house....
Where dearest dog was hanging out in our yard with the goats happily munching on goat poo....
I know the dog has been horribly bored this winter between my lack of energy for walks, lack of light for walks, and overall really long cold winter... But DH was right there!?! He was getting attention!
Someone is getting an invisible fence ASAP... I can't be chasing after him with an infant... Hopefully when baby and spring are here we can go for lots of walks together again.
TP to my MIL and SIL who've been driving me insane about Easter. We go in for a C-section on the 14th, the next Sunday is Easter, and we expect to be home by then.
SIL asked me about the holiday and what we are doing. When I told her we will be skipping out on the traditional Easter day activities, she said, "oh, no. I guess we will just have to do the whole dinner and egg hunt at your house then so you can still be there!".. uh, HELL no lady. I'm not hosting Easter 6 days after surgery. I know me and my limits, and after each baby I spent the first week home avoiding people and doing things, not for the sake of my baby but for the sake of my sanity!
My mom will be in town until the day after the holiday helping out. This will be the first holiday I've spent with her in 3 years due to us living so far away from each other.
Well MIL decided to have Easter at her house this year and is hounding me about letting my kids go over there the day of the holiday for the egg hunt. I said no and DH is on my side considering we always see them on Thanksgiving day, Christmas day, etc.. we are going to spend the day at home together as a family of 5 with my mom. Of course MIL is throwing a hissy fit, but she can just deal with it!
DD1- 2009, M/C- 2011, M/C- 2012, DD2- 2012, DD3- 2014
My sister called me about a week ago to see what our plans for Easter and if I planned on hosting it. I am having a c-section on the 9th and I just really will not be up for entertaining. I do plan on doing something small for us and a mini-Easter egg hunt for DS, if my ILs don't do something, but who knows? A few others have casually asked if we were hosting Easter also.
It just aggravates me that everyone expects me to still have Easter. We also include two sets of our neighbors in a lot of our holidays. My ILs are both retired, so is my GMIL and one set of our neighbors and my mom is unemployed now. Me and DH work full time. My sister works part time in the evenings (waitress). Out of everyone, we have more going on and they want us to have Easter! Plus, it's a pretty big cost, at a time, we really need to be watching our money.
I'm 37 weeks pregnant.... how the hell do you think I'm feeling?
Of course I'm excited.... idiot.
Yes. Our lives are going to change. We are having a baby and I can't wait for her to be here. Why do people feel like they need to threaten you with this information? !?
Vent over.
BFP#2 7/28/13 EDD 4/9/14 Birthday : 4/10/14 Adalyn Nanette
All of this. "Are you nervous? Are you excited?" STFU.
With the possible exception of the equator, everything begins somewhere. - C.S.Lewis