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freeatlast2014
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I couldn't make this shit up
freeatlast2014
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Sunday: Drop kids off with BD. Asked him if he received my text messages all week (offering FaceTime with the kids and giving him the low down on the new daycare). Crickets. He wouldn't even acknowledge me. Also, he wore sunglasses at 3:30 on a cloudy rainy Sunday. Classy.
Tuesday: I find out he is on Plenty of Fish. He put that he is divorced, that he drinks socially (we met in AA, he had 5 years sober at the time), put his ideal first date as the restaurant we went to the night he proposed to me in NYC, and has 2 pictures of my children on his free Internet dating ad. Oh My Fucking God.
Then I pick the kids up at daycare, he never sent their blankies (my kid is like Linus, where he goes, blanket goes), and brought all of their stuff for the past 2 days. I also had a meeting with the director (this was only their 4th day) who told me the 3 year old said "shit" (this was something he's been saying) and "dumb bitch" (can't take credit for that one). And told me he had been weepy all day, feeling so anxious about who was picking him up cause he wanted Daddy. Then I had to deal with him crying for an hour, HYSTERICAL, because he wanted daddy and his grandparents. I had to wrangle 1 toddler, 1 hysterical preschooler, 3 bags of lunch (they forgot to take 1 home the day before so sent lunch in a plastic baggie), 1 bag of puke clothes from the week before when the 18m old got sent home, and 2 bags of stuff from the weekend. I told him to drop off the blankies on the front door step. Asshole literally leaves the blankies on the dirty ground, not even in a bag. Asshole, our kids sleep with these. Ugh.
Wednesday: I go to amend the restraining order to include prior history. I am there over 1.5 hours and my 3 year old was, again, in hysterics. They wouldn't allow him in the room with me but he wouldn't stay without me so I leave without amending anything. They tell me to come back without my kids. And what, pray tell, shall I do with them? Pay one of the junkies outside to babysit on the street? My 18m old now has an ear infection, we went to pedi this morning too. And again, I deal with over an 1.5 hours of hysterics tonight because the 3 year old doesn't want to go to school tomorrow and he wants to see his daddy and grandparents.
I didn't sign up for this. I didn't PLAN to have 2U2 and then raise them by myself with a STBXH who is exploiting their cuteness while he looks for a piece of ass, all the while abusing his wife for years in front of the little boys we planned to have together. Are you kidding me?
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Re: I couldn't make this shit up
Sounds really rough, sorry dude. I wish I had some advice for you
Throwing leaves
I suppose I can stop texting him cause clearly he doesn't read or care what I write. He also forgot the 3 year old's blankie. Clearly stated that last week too in the text. I'm done with that. Ugh. He can't just keep it half together for the kids' sake?!???!!!
As for POF I totally plan to use that.
And small victory: today the court took away weekday overnights and just gave 2 dinners per week and eow. At least until court in 2 weeks!!
Throwing leaves