The DCP post below got me thinking - what age can your child put on a coat? What about pulling up his/her pants? DS is 21 months and we've been working on pulling his pants up for a few weeks now, but I don't think he is close to doing it by himself. He definitely can't get it off himself either. I was planning to give a try on potty training this summer, but I suppose I can't do it if he doesn't know how to undress his pants? As for his coat, he can unzip it and take it off if I take off one arm for him, but he still needs my help.
Re: Putting on clothes
She has been able to take off her coat (with zipper) for several months, and she can put it on (sometimes backwards!) if she really tries, but she can't zip it up herself unless I start the zipper for her.
She just started being able to put on her own sneakers (velcro) a couple weeks ago.
She potty trained at about 33 or 34 months and had a lot of trouble pulling up her pants on her own at first, although she can do it now pretty easily.
I've been thinking about having her start trying to get herself dressed in the morning (with my help if needed). Practice makes perfect for sure, but they need good fine motor skills and to be able to conceptualize how clothes go on before they can do this alone, and I think you can't expect them to be able to do all this too young.
I think by 3.5 or 4, my daughter will be pretty independent on dressing.
My DS is 15 months, and I haven't even thought about having him do anything on his own yet.