So last night my LO went to bed at 8 and so did I. She woke up around 11:30 and gave a couple whines but she wasn't fully awake. 11:30 was 4 hours since she had eaten. Instead of getting her up, I gave her the pacifier. She went back to sleep until 12:30. She started to stir a litte, but again wasn't really crying at all. At this point, I got her up to feed her. Do you try the pacifier first before getting your LO up to eat (unless she is crying of course)? I'm just wondering if that's ok to do. I figure she'll let me know if she's hungry by spitting it out, crying, and not going back to sleep right? I think she might have gone back to sleep at 12:30, but I felt bad she hadn't eaten in so long. My LO is 8 weeks old and breastfed.
Re: Long sleep stretches
I don't see any reason not to try a pacifier first. My first LO would take it when she was not hungry. My second LO doesn't want them. Ever.
With the extended nights, make sure you're feeding enough to keep your milk supply up. To help with this you can pump too.
My LO is asleep by 9. I top her off before I go to bed, usually at 11 or so. I'm working. I'm up at 5:30 to get ready for the day. I pump a little first thing. LO sleeps until 6:30/6.45. This works for us. So far my milk supply is fine and I'm avoiding the middle of the night feedings.
dx PCOS 2007
BFP #1 (natural) 12/23/2010. Stillbirth due to IC 4/2/2011
TTC #2 starting 03/2012
RE starting 07/2012
05/2013 BFP on a Letrozole (Femara)/trigger!
Cerclage, Procardia, Makena, GD (with insulin), MBR, and we made it!
Our Angel was born sleeping at 20 weeks due to IC.