Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*

Re: What's for Dinner Wednesday?
While technically not in my kitchen, I LOVE my grill. It is by and far the most used piece of kitchen equipment we own. I love how convenient it is, how easy clean up is, and how it doesn't get the house hot in the summer. I grill meats, veggies, and even dessert out there!
I'm having a left over black bean burger today for lunch from the batch that I made this weekend. I'm thinking @atxmommas should share the recipe since they're such a hit in my house and @jazibel's house.
QOTW: I don't think I have any cool/interesting answers to this. I have a circulon frying pan and a circulon 3 qt pot that I like a lot. I have a serrated knife that I use for the majority of my cutting and chopping. It's significantly sharper than I can keep my chef's knife, so it is definitely my first choice for cutting onions. I've recently become a bit fan of using my garlic press. For years now I've been doing the chopped garlic in the big container from costco. But our local grocery store carries these bags of peeled garlic cloves for very inexpensive that make it so much faster to use fresh garlic than it used to be, so I've mostly switched over to that.
We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.
Our IUIs
with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.
Our IVFs:
IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response
IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
1st ultrasound (3/6 6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm.
***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***
FET #1 December 2014
Of all the kitchen gadgets we have, the ones that get the most mileage are for sure the cast iron skillet and the mincing knife- it's shaped like a fan and rocks back and forth to mince my veggies. Also, I'm an old school fan of my salad spinner. I wash lettuce in it everyday for salad.
A & K, married 7/1/13.
After 10 months of ttc via medicated IUIs and two early losses, we finally got our boys- Perfect premie twins born 5/27/14.
Black Bean Burgers
Ingredients
1 can black beans drained & rinsed
1 can diced tomatoes drained
3 garlic cloves
¼ cup diced onion
¼ cup diced carrots
½ boiled sweet potato
1 roasted red bell pepper (I roast my own ahead of time)
½-1 tsp cumin
½-1 tsp salt
½ cup rolled oats
½ cups whole wheat bread crumbs (or panko)
Directions
Preheat oven to 375
Mix all ingredients except for oats & bread crumbs in large bowl. Transfer to food processor and pulse for about a minute until well mixed. Small chunks are okay, but mixture should be pretty well pureed.
Transfer back to bowl and add in oats and breadcrumbs. I usually mix in some ground flax and/or wheat germ as well if I have them on hand (I used wheat germ a lot during pregnancy for the extra boost of folic acid). You may need to add more breadcrumbs – the mixture needs to be firm enough to shape into patties. I just keep adding more dry ingredients until I get a good texture. Form into patties – I can usually get about 6.
Bake patties (you may want to spray some cooking spray on a cookie sheet to keep from sticking). Check after about 20 minutes to see if they are ready to flip. Bake another 20 minutes. Keep baking until both sides have a nice crisp on them.
This week's cooking has been a bit interrupted due to the crazy weekend I had (since I normally do all my cooking on Sunday). I think I'm going to make tacos with braised greens and beans - not too exciting, but I have a bajillion greens from my CSA share to use. What it lacks in excitement, it will make up for in nutrition - which I remind myself is sometimes all a meal needs to be.
QOTW: I suggested this question to B&C because I'm such a dork when it comes to kitchen-ware. I get giddy talking about the things I love.
First up, my 5-qt Calphalon saute pan - LOVE. Similar here - https://www.amazon.com/Calphalon-5-qt-Commercial-Hard-Anodized-Saute/dp/B005DYK94K/ref=sr_1_2?s=kitchen&ie=UTF8&qid=1396453707&sr=1-2&keywords=calphalon+saute+pan. Use it all the time.
Next, my 7-qt Le Creuset dutch oven. It's pricy, but love, love, love it. I ended up getting it as a gift from my mom at about half the original cost. I found it at the outlet and was able to use a coupon. So worth the cost. It will last forever.
A wooden spatula that I received as part of utentsil set changed my life. Who knew? Everyone needs one of those.
Zayra got me aa 4-tbsp measuring cup as a stocking stuffer a year or two ago, and I use that sucker all the time. It's perfect for measuring small amounts of liquids rather than refilling a tbsp several times.
I'm going to look into the knive set that @twomomsintexas recommended and a mincing knife! I always use my butcher knife (another must have!), but a mincing knife sounds pretty awesome!
Well... as I mentioned in my TTT post yesterday, I have fallen off of the cooking wagon as of late. In fact, I sent an email to my wife earlier today that said: "I don’t even know what to suggest for dinner tonight. I don’t feel like cooking ever again. I don’t feel like eating much of what we have to cook with. I could live with green beans, cauliflower and veggie burgers… other than that I really don’t know. You can feel free to suggest something and make it. HAHA. Sorry, I think I have entered a new pregnancy stage called “I don’t feel like cooking anything except the baby growing in my belly, and I don’t feel like eating anything normal and will decide on a whim what I want. Like waffles.”
My wife has not yet responded to that little love note HAHA
QOTW: My giant skillet by far is my favorite piece of cookware. It cooks things sooooo fast and evenly and there isn't much I haven't tried making in there yet. It is my go-to kitchen gadget that I can't live without. When I am cooking that is. Which is apparently not right now.
Me - 30, My wife - 31 , Together for 10 yrs - Married August 2012
5 medicated IUIs w/ RE (March - July 2013) = BFN
Fresh IVF Cycle in September 2013 resulted in 18 mature eggs, 16 fertilized, 12 made it to day 5. Transfer of 2 Grade A blastocysts on 9/15/13, and 10 embryos in the freezer! *****BFP on 9/25/13 - betas: @10dp5dt = 232; @12dp5dt = 465; @15dp5dt = 1,581 *********William George born June 4, 2014*********I'm on my own for dinner tonight since my wife has to attend a lecture at school. I will either stop home between work and Spanish class to grab some leftover split pea soup that my wife made, or grab a burger on my way. Sad.
QOTW: Panini press. I'm not much of a cook, but even I can work this thing. It can take a boring sandwich and make it something special. It's a bit of a unitasker, which we usually avoid, but its well worth the space it takes up in our tiny kitchen.
Me: 28 DW: 28
Together since 5/30/02. Married since 8/31/08
IUI#1 - 12/13/13 = BFN
IUI#2 - 1/22/14 = BFN
IUI#3 - 2/21/14 = BFN
IUI#4 - 3/23/14
QOTW: We have a LOT of kitchen stuff, and I have to say we really do use most of it. My wife insisted on registering for high-end pots and pans when we got married (I think ours are All-Clad), and I think it makes a HUGE difference. They don't just cook more evenly, they also clean more easily. We received a couple of enameled cast-iron Le Creuset pots as gifts, which are amazing, and we do a LOT of cooking in regular old cast-iron (we have two skillets, a grill pan and a Dutch oven). We have a ton of knives (including my wife's knife kit from culinary school), but my go-to is a Santoku knife --it stays sharp forever and it is just the right size for a) my hands and b) cutting just about anything. And I love my stand mixer and food processor --they are luxuries but we use them all the time, and they make a lot of dishes much easier to pull off!
@2brides, we love grilling for all the same reasons! I rarely do it, since my wife is so much better at it, but it just makes dinner and clean-up soooo much easier. We start as early as March and usually push grilling season into November or early December, but once there is snow on the ground it's a little hard to access our grill. That would be a huge advantage to living somewhere a bit warmer!
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*
A & K, married 7/1/13.
After 10 months of ttc via medicated IUIs and two early losses, we finally got our boys- Perfect premie twins born 5/27/14.