I'm really needing help or suggestions to stay awake during the day without caffeine. I always have one cup in the morning but lately it's been increasing to coffee all morning and one more in the afternoon. I don't drink soda but am so so tired in the afternoon that I can't function without coffee.
Any suggestions? How are you all coping? Eli has been sttn for a few weeks now but my DD2 has been getting up multiple times a night and it's killing me. She's not just awake for a bit either, its for like an hour at a time a few times a night.
Help!
Re: non - caffeine help!
Can you try decaf tea? Or decaf coffee? Can you get some fresh air and have some water? I find that moving around or even working out gives me a little boost of energy.
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I do have decaf once in a while.
I was a caffeine addict. I used say I just needed caffeine patch. I didn't think it impacted my sleep or had negative impacts. I had periods were I would give up/cut back and just felt tired. However, over the course of the last 5+ years, 3 pregnancies, and nursing 3 cant-tolerate-any-caffeine-dont-even-dream-of-a-sip,mommy-babies, I have FINALLY cut the cord so to speak. My mom friend with 3 kids exact same ages as mine was just asking how I don't do-coffee (she was all out and in zombie mode) so we just talked about this.
I now know it WAS impacting my sleep. I think I just had so much caffeine in my system that it took forever to detox it all and then forever to re-set my natural sleep patterns. It was also impacting my days. I feel better now without any than I did with no kids and caffeine.
It may not be the best time to quit if you are dependent on it because there is a slump/adjustment period, but when you can, try giving it up.
Ideas to help: stay hydrated. I notice on days when I don't do this, I'm more tired and foggy.
Also make sure you take you multi-vitamin/ have well rounded diet. I can tell when I am slacking in these.
Have small snacks more frequently and bonus if they balance carbs and proteins.
Get moving - a quick walk in fresh air, even if you have to bundle up for just 5 to 10 minutes can make you feel much better. Fresh air is therapeutic.
If you can't get outside try a little dancing around to music, light stretching, or even cleaning that gets you moving around.
A short rest can help even if you aren't able to sleep during it.
Gum or mints helped when I was first kicking my diet coke addiction.
Certain smells/scents are suppose to help with alertness (I used to use that trick during final exams) - mint? Vanilla? I used my vanilla lotion (that they no longer make
GL! I know how very very hard it is and if I think of any others, I'll let you know.
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