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Team green is killing me.

Snikle512Snikle512 member
in May 2014 Moms
Ok ladies. I know this sounds crazy and I know I will love the baby either way as I have said to others myself. With that being said, I found my daughters old new born clothes and it really hit me how much I have had my heart set on this LO being a girl. This is my first time being team green ( I have boys and girls already) and this is the last baby. What if the baby is born and my DH says " it's a boy!" and then my heart is filled with disappointment? I am sitting here crying feeling like a bad person because I know this is our baby and I will love it. But why do I feel like this? I'm 34 weeks now, so it seems almost a waste to find out now, but what if I dont get over this before birth? Team green moms HELP!
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  • GoodToBeGeibGoodToBeGeib member
    I think because you are getting so close and don't know you start to imagine the possibilities (or a possibility).  That's normal.  We were team green last time and we are again.  I did the same.  Once the baby arrives that will be your reality and you'll barely think of what you had previously imagined.  As you know, once you are holding your little newborn he/she will be your whole world and you'll be in love.  The anxiety of not knowing is by far the worst of it!!!
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  • HappypostHappypost member
    I'm horrible with surprises! I say go to the dark side and find out >:)
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  • danabsddanabsd member
    edited April 2014
    I get it. I want to know so so bad. But then I remember why we're doing this again.  :)
    You won't be disappointed when that moment comes.
    This is the home stretch!

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  • gutsysneakersgutsysneakers member
    Don't give in! We're almost there. FTM so I don't have my heart set on a boy or girl, but I imagine that you'll be so deliriously happy with your LO, you won't care. Stay with Team Green!!!!
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  • Nmooney1Nmooney1 member
    We have a girl and boy already. I too am really hoping this is a girl. I even have 2 NB dresses hanging in the closet :) We don't even have a boy named picked either.
    As PP said, you already know your heart just melts when you hold your LO. So many emotions are going to flood over you....I highly doubt disappointment will be one if them. Stay strong Momma!

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  • KatieP71312KatieP71312 member
    I have similar challenges! I have two boys and would LOVE to have a daughter. I've specifically not found out because I refuse to be disappointed for having another healthy baby (boy or girl)! 

    Hold on... we are sooo close!! 
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