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T&P's for a friend

sparrowmomma24sparrowmomma24 member
in Late Term and Child Loss
Please please keep some friends of mine in your T&P.  They are in my infant loss support group and lost their son to SIDS last November at 2 months old.  Shortly after giving birth to a healthy little boy, she went on Mirena because they wanted to wait at least a year before TTC again.  Then he passed away shortly after that.   They found out in January that she was pregnant!  So today they went for their A/S and to find out the gender at 17 weeks.  They found out their rainbow baby has a fatal neural tubal defect and no heartbeat.  So they are scheduling their delivery for next week.  I can't even tell you how much they need prayers.  To lose two children in less than 6 months... my heart can't bear it! I will be helping them through a bunch of things and I'm helping them plan out what has to be done.  I just wanted to share this because they could use all the prayers they can get.  

Thank you all!  
**TW loss mentioned **



12 miscarriages in first marriage (2007-2011)
Surprise BFP - 06/2013
Daughter stillborn at 22 weeks - 09/09/2013
Married my best friend - 09/03/2016
Genetic testing came back with APS - 10/03/2016
TTCAL - 10/21/2016
BFP - 11/18/2016
EDD of Rainbow baby - 07/30/2017
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Re: T&P's for a friend

  • erinelerinel member
    That is so terrible.  I don't know how I'm getting through this loss, I can't imagine having to go through another one.  I said a prayer for her already, but will continue to do so.

    Me 32 (Stage IV Endometriosis, short luteal phase) DH 38

    Married 5/2010

    January 2014- DS born healthy at 35.4 weeks

    February 2014- DS passed away due to complications from adenovirus

    February 2015- Rainbow baby DD born at 36.3 weeks

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  • VyD81VyD81 member
    Keeping your friend in my T&P. I'm so sorry for her losses.
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    BFP #2, EDD 12/26/14, please be our rainbow.

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  • sparrowmomma24sparrowmomma24 member
    Thank you guys.  I know how hard its been for me in the 6 months since Ellie passed.  And to lose two children in less than 6 months.  My heart is broken for them.
    **TW loss mentioned **



    12 miscarriages in first marriage (2007-2011)
    Surprise BFP - 06/2013
    Daughter stillborn at 22 weeks - 09/09/2013
    Married my best friend - 09/03/2016
    Genetic testing came back with APS - 10/03/2016
    TTCAL - 10/21/2016
    BFP - 11/18/2016
    EDD of Rainbow baby - 07/30/2017
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  • Maybe JoleisaMaybe Joleisa member
    That is heartbreaking. T & Ps going out to your friends.

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    IUIs # 1-5 = BFFN
    IVF # 1(July 2012) = BFN
    IVF # 2 (November 2012) = BFP (MIssed MC D&C @ 8w3d on 1/10/13)
    IVF # 3 (June 2013) = BFN 
    IVF # 4 (September 2013) = BFP Fraternal twin boys! (Loss at 21w6d due to IC on 1/26/14...devastated.)
    3/21/14--TAC (transabdominal cerclage) w/Dr. Davis in NJ
    IVF # 5 (May 2014) = BFN
    FET (August 2014) = BFN

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  • kflynn81kflynn81 member
    So sad, many T& P for your friend
    Me: 33, Endocrine issues & FVL       DH: 32, Nothing 
    NTNP 2009-2012         TTC since 2012:
    • Clomid, 2 IUI cycles, and 5 IVF cycles = BFN
    • FET #1   August 2013 = BFP!     EDD 5/11/14
    • Jack dx at 19w1d with Dandy Walker on 12/16/13
    • Severe Pre-e /HELLP set in Jack born sleeping at 20w1d on 12/23/13
    • FET #2 --July 2014  BFP!  ---  EDD  4/5/15

    Jack has handpicked his sibling up there :)

    My blog about IF and loss ... Kate's IF Blog

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  • Jellybean71514Jellybean71514 member
    sending T&Ps to your friend, that's just heartbreaking ..
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  • stefugestefuge member
    T&Ps for them and for you, as well. ((Hugs))
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    Me: 32 DH: 33  High School Sweethearts  Married 5/28/2005
    DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
    Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
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  • ikrystalikrystal member
    Many thoughts and prayers to your friend.  And what a great friend you are to her and her family for asking others to think and pray for her.  
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  • LyndseyTSLyndseyTS member
    Thoughts and prayers to your friends and to you. I can't even imagine how their hearts must be breaking.
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  • BrittianyMBrittianyM member
    Sending thoughts and prayers. I am so very sorry.

    Brooke Elizabeth born Feb 17, 2013 grew wings May 9, 2013 @ 11 weeks & 4 days old from SIDS

     

     

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