Okay, A14, help me out here.
I found out today (39+6) that my practice does not let you go past 41.  In that they want to schedule an induction even PRIOR to 41.  I'm not cool with this, particularly as my mother went two weeks late with both of her kids, so I'm arming myself with as much information and delaying tactics as I can prior to my next appointment on Thursday.
I plan on bringing DH so we can tag team, and I managed to get the Thursday appointment with the midwife who I think will be most sympathetic/easiest to argue with.  I plan on starting by asking why they don't want people going past 41, and bringing up some of the research I've seen that says that first time moms tend to go to 41+1.  What else can I do?  Would requesting NSTs be a reasonable compromise?  WWA14 do?
                
Re: Induction Delaying Tactics
I think putting your foot down and refusing to be induced is your best bet. It's not like they can strap you down to a table and force it on you. Even if they scheduled an induction, you can still just not show up for it, no one can force you to the appointment. It's your body, your baby, your choice. It's pretty ridiculous of them to just induce women because they think things are "taking too long" and for no other medically necessary reason.
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4/25/14 12:41am
From what I've read, it seems that NSTs a couple of times that last week would be a good compromise.
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BFP: 10/30/10 EDD: 7/7/11 Born 7/11//11 7lb12oz, 20 in.
BFP: 7/30/13 EDD: 4/9/14 Born right on time on his due date! 8lb10oz, 21.5 in.
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