Right now we are co sleeping and I thought I should start trying her in her crib. I have to go back to work in three weeks. I am thinking I might have a better sleep with her in her own room, but I am nervous about her being in there alone. Am I crazy or what?
Re: Moms: When did your DC start sleeping in the crib?
We moved DS into his crib at 4 weeks and it was the BEST thing we've done. I didn't realize how much he stirred at night until I moved him out. The first night he was in his crib, I was nervous but I quickly realized how much better I slept with him in his own room. DO IT!
2 1/2 weeks. It was tough at first but we are happy now. We spent the weekend sharing a room with her and she is very noisy, so we are even more happy.
The monitor gives us piece of mind.
"When it comes to sleeping, whatever your baby does is normal. If one thing has damaged parents enjoyment of their babies, it's rigid expectations about how and when the baby should sleep." ~ James McKenna, Ph.D., Mother Baby Behavioral Sleep Center, University of Notre Dame
we put DS in the crib around 4mos - a couple weeks before i went back to work- b/c i didn't want to try and make the transition when i was working and really needed my sleep. We ALL slept better with him in there.... and we weren't even cosleeping in the bed- he was in a bedside cosleeper.
we were really sad the first few nights and missed him a lot- but then it was great to have our room back to ourselves.
im not one to ask..my guys slept in the bed with me until 6 months! and i still sleep in the nursery on an air mattress
im a little attached, haha..
i have made a new years resolution to try to sleep in my bed with my husband..we'll see
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We put him in the crib at 3 weeks. He tried sleeping in the bassinet and didn't like it so much. Plus, it is easier to feed him in the nursery chair, change him and put him to sleep with some music on.
I did not realize how many moms will cosleep for several months. I didn't do any research on cosleeping before the baby came, but maybe I should.
DS started sleeping in his crib at about 3 weeks. We all slept better that way, especially him.
You're not crazy about him being there alone. Get a good monitor, and that will make you feel better.
If that also doesn't sound like a good idea, if you are able to move his crib, or put up a pack n' play in your room, you can have her sleep in the same room with you -- her own bed, but still close enough to you to feel more comfortable.
Good luck!
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My girls have been sleeping in their cribs since we brought them home from the NICU..I was too freaked out I'd roll on them or something to co-sleep....as for putting him in his own crib, I'd do the tr ansition before you go back to work so that you don't have terribly painful days at work due to exhaustion! GL.
I do have to say, we have the Angelcares monitor and that's helped me a TON with them sleeping in their own room.
You asked "am i crazy" ..my answer, yes.
Bryn was in her crib from DAY ONE.