March 2014 Moms

Potty Training Woes

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edited March 2014 in March 2014 Moms
So, DD1 has been telling me when she needs a diaper change for a few months.  I waited to start potty training until today because I just couldn't keep up with her during my last trimester.  So, this morning, we decided to give it a go.  She has her potty chair that she likes to sit on, she's running around in a Houston Texan cheerleader dress and no diaper.  She's been drinking lots of juice (which she loves!).  Ready to start learning to use the potty!

However, the first time she peed - she startled herself and stood up.  Half went in the potty chair, half on the floor.  That's ok, I praised her and made such a fuss over her for pottying in her chair!  Then, I got a towel and cleaned up the rest.  Well, she would not sit on her chair after that.  She kept peeing on the floor, which is fine, but stressed her.  I'd come with the towel and clean it up.  Sometimes she'd run and get it to clean up the pee before I could get over to it.  This lasted about 20 minutes.

Now, every time she pees - every single time - she gets really stressed and cries.  She wanted her diaper back, so I put it on her to give her a break.  Still cries... every single time she pees.  She runs up to me, points to her diaper or grabs it and says "I pooped!" - which means she peed.  She points at her belly when she poops and runs to the changing table.  I have changed her diaper 3 times in the last 5 minutes.

So, what we have accomplished - she knows when she pees - every single time.  Now, I know when she pees - every single time.  Any suggestions for how to get her to relax about the potty?  She hates diaper changes... absolutely hates them and fights with us so much over them.

As a distraction - we painted her toes for the first time!



Re: Potty Training Woes

  • Maybe get her to sit on the potty with a new toy and/or book with no mention of actually peeing in the potty so she'll start to think of it as an ok, pressure free place?

    GL. In my experience you just need to be really really patient and don't press it too much but each kid is different.
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  • DS used to just sit on the potty and never really understood what he was supposed to do on it. I got a doll that wets and kept having the doll got potty on the chair and it was like a lightbulb went off. Maybe a peeing doll would do the trick and she wouldn't be so afraid if she saw the doll go? You could try faking it by putting a water bottle behind her doll and see if that works.
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  • I tried to read to her on the potty chair so she'd be comfortable with it - but that didn't help, she wanted to sit in my lap next to the potty chair.  Daddy brought home some mini m&m's that she got to eat while she was sitting on the potty.  She would sit on the potty, but she held her pee until she was in a diaper again.

    I LOVE the doll that wets idea!  If we aren't making progress tomorrow morning or she's getting stressed about it again, I will definitely give that a shot!
  • Yeah, and focus on the doll going potty and don't even mention anything about her going or sitting. Just have the doll sit, praise the doll for going successfully, encourage her to praise the doll and be really excited about it. Eventually I bet she will want to sit and go just like the doll does.
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  • I tried to attach a pic yesterday of our matching toes, but I don't see it - so I will try again.

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