How do you go about getting a therapist? It seems like there's a lot of ladies here who go to counseling, and after months of internal debate, I finally decided to make an appointment.
I first went to my insurance site to see the list of providers and after not having any luck, googled counseling, therapy, and marriage and family counseling and I literally dialed right down the list of names and all of the numbers were deactivated. I finally got a working number (only 1!) and left them a message and haven't heard back. What am I doing wrong? Do I need to see my PCP first to get a referral? I don't know anyone who has ever gone to counseling so I don't even know where to start.
Also, how did you know who to go with? Did you go to a few appointments with a few different counselors and decide who was the best fit?
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What kind of insurance plan do you have? If you have a PPO, you shouldn't need a referral. And when you say you had no luck searching your insurance website, do you mean you searched psychologists within a particular radius and got no results at all?
There are all kinds of techniques for therapy, if you have a preference you can start there. Referrals from people you know or from another care provider are also good (that's how I found my 3rd therapist).
I think that calling your insurance provider and talking to them about their outdated list is in order!