Secondary IF

Let's get to know each other a little better, besides our combined fertility issues.

Hi, I am new here and would love to know more about everyone here, outside of our fertility issues. I will start: I am 34 years old, my DH is 36, we have 1 DD who is 2 1/2 years old. I am a police officer in Maryland, have been for 7 years and was one prior to that in California for 5 years. My hubby is a project manager for a large construction company in Wash DC. We have 2 large dogs, French Mastiff mix name Thor and a Rottie named Aphrodite. We love to work out, ride motorcycles and do anything outside. What about you guys??

Re: Let's get to know each other a little better, besides our combined fertility issues.

  • KC1212KC1212 member
    edited March 2014
    I'm 27 my H is 34. I'm a SAHM. I have a BA in English and eventually want to return to school.

    My son was born 5 weeks early after 4 years of IF. He just turned 2.

    We have a dog and 2 cats and I used to ride horses.

    I love to read.
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


  • @KC1212‌ wow a BA in English, no way here. Lol. I can't spell. I have a BA in Criminal Justice Well I am glad he is doing well with being born 5 weeks early. My little girl had to be kicked out, lol. She was a week and 2 days late.
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  • I'm a total nerdy bookworm :)
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


  • @kc1212, I have a BA in English Ed!  I don't like reading though.  Well, that's not true, I like reading, but I prefer to be read to.  I love audio books!

    I am 31 and so is DH.  We have been married 5.5 years and I became a SAHM after DS was born last year.  DH is a high school science teacher and is thinking of going back to school to get a masters starting in the fall.  We have two cats who used to be indoor fur babies until they didn't adjust well to DS. Now they're exclusively outside cats and we got new carpet.

    I love doing projects around my house, decorating and crafty things, but my budget not to much, lol.  So, I have to be really really creative.  I also bake for hire and love party planning.  

    I don't want to go back to work in an office ever, if I can help it.  But I have been building my portfolio and am getting ready to open an etsy shop.  I will list digital files of customized stationary/invitations/etc.  After a while, I may start offering printed items, too.  But I'm not sure I want to deal with the hassle of shipping.  
    Happily Mrs. C 
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    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
  • I'm 33, hubs is almost 33. Dd 2 & 1/2 too. I have a BS in communication (did it for the snickers you all are getting reading that- planned my future for a punch line...!) was army, then admin, the. Engineer, prek teacher and SaHM now. No pets but grew up in Dr do little house/ zoo and will probably java a mother pet eventually. Put Etsy shop and photography dreams on hold to prek teach and have more kids. Hope to reopen one (probably etsy shop) again in next month or so. I make tutus, dresses and other cutesy stuffs.
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
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    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image
    imageimage Potato Love!

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  • Sorry for all the typos, sick toddler asleep on typing hand, will edit later
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
    image

    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image
    imageimage Potato Love!

    BabyFruit Ticker


  • I'm 30, DH is 40. We have been married 6 years and DS is 4.5. I have my M.A. in speech pathology and I am a speech therapist. I started a PhD program, but don't want to give up working to go back to school and haven't been able to juggle both so I'll work for now. DH is a professor (which is part of why I went back- free education is a major perk!).

    We have 2 mini Australian shepherds. We try to get out, just the two of us, once a week even if it's just to grab a burger for half an hour after work. DS is in a major hellion stage and testing us at every turn. From a developmental perspective, I love it because it means he is acknowledging that we have moods and feelings. From a parent's perspective, it's exhausting!
  • Momarazzi007Momarazzi007 member
    edited March 2014
    Omg "strange little unicorn" dying and love you @MrsCastillo
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
    image

    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image
    imageimage Potato Love!

    BabyFruit Ticker


  • Lola at a fish named Mickey Mouse! I knew someone who's kid who named the goldfish "chicken nugget" lmao
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


  • KC1212 said:
    Lola at a fish named Mickey Mouse! I knew someone who's kid who named the goldfish "chicken nugget" lmao
    So LOLA, the kid does whatever she wants. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • Sfulton50Sfulton50 member
    edited March 2014
    This is awesome, thanks for all your replies. @Mrs Castillo‌ I did not know what that stood for, lol. Still am confused about some of the lingo. Lol. Also forgot to add me and hubby have been married 4 years, come May I still have not seen frozen, I am lucky if I can get my crazy girl to stop enough to eat sitting down. She is 100% on the go all the time. She even moves all over her bed the entire night, lol.
  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    edited March 2014
    I'm 34 and my hubby will be 30 in a couple weeks. I robbed the cradle ;-)

    I have a DD that will be 7 years old in a month from a previous marriage and I really need to get started planning her birthday party!

    I'm a stay at home mom but have an accounting degree and was a staffing recruiter and teacher prior to staying at home along with a few other jobs. I never really figured out what I want to be when I grow up excepting being a mom. My husband is a truck driver. We just got married last November because my stupid ex kept tied up in assets for 3 years . We've been together for a lot longer.

    We live on NC and like outdoors kind if stuff like fishing, hunting, gardening and four wheeling.

    We have a Chiweenie named Pixie Cupcake.

    I'm an retire roller derby player and I'm obsessed with cupcakes. My husband was a semi pro pool player and his dad is ranked 2nd in the US for winning the most money in fishing tournaments. There's a name for it but I'm can't remember what it is. My DD is a competition cheerleader and is very free spirited.

    We're kind of a hippy, redneck fam, haha!

    Oh and I'm almost always late to answering posts!
    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • Well DH and I are both 37.  We have been married for 2 1/2 years, together for almost 6 years. I have a DS from a previous relationship who is 17 about to be 18 and is going to graduate in 2 months.  I am in the middle of stimming for an FET. 

    I had damaged tubes from endo
    We are getting ready to move
    I am currently working in fiber optics
    I have not seen Frozen
    My favorite color is black I wear a lot of black
    I have 4 different colors in my hair. 
    I got toothpaste in my hair yesterday and it was stiff in that part all day
    I love to read too
    I have an addiction to goldfish, especially the pretzel ones. 





      


  • DH is 34 and I will soon be 33. We've been married for almost 10 years and DD just turned 4. We were primary IF, spent 3 years ttc DD.

    I have a B.A. In Elementary Ed, and almost my M.A. in Early Childhood Special Ed. I have taught kindergarten and pre-k spec. ed. Now I am staying home and doing childcare in my home. DH is a school counselor in an elementary.

    We have a few pets...a cat, two dogs, and two aquatic frogs. We enjoy watching movies and spending time at the park. I enjoy pedicures and reading.

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    DD conceived after 3 years of ttc.
    MFI - DH had varicocele repair and took Clomid to get DD b. 02/2010

    TTC #2 since 6/2010
    10/2012 DH diagnosed with Epilepsy
    A few failed IUIs summer 2012 and 2013. 
    DH taking clomid and waiting to see if he needs another vericocele repair. 
    Hoping for a 2015 baby or babies. 
    Wishing, hoping, waiting.


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  • DH & I are 33. married for 3 years. i have a BS in psychology but did nothing with it, so went to school to be a nurse. i work in a neuro-surgical intensive care unit. just got accepted into a master's degree program for nursing leadership and education. at the time i applied i thought i was nuts trying to go to school while TTC but now that we are on hold to start IVF at some future date (when money grows on trees) i welcome the distraction of school.

    ds just turned 2. he is a beast. literally and figuratively. he's about 1/3 the size of me (i'm really short so i guess that's not saying much) and is constantly pushing the boundaries. love him to pieces but most days i want to throat punch him.

    furbaby is a chihuahua/terrier mutt... quite the cranky bitch named Jezebelle. ds tortures her on a daily basis but she takes it like a champ.

    i've watched frozen twice. i'm meh about it. (fully aware i am in the minority here)
    i hate bell peppers.
    i am a crazy coupon lady. i have a 3" binder full of coupons i haul with me everywhere.
    i have the mouth of a sailor. thought for sure ds's first word would be fuck.
    i love wine.
    Me: 36, DH: 36
    DH's SA = normal
    1 tube only wonder
    AFC 3-5, AMH 0.30

    BFP #1 3/29/11.  EDD 12/4/11... Missed m/c 5/9/11. Cytotec fail. D&C 5/17/11.
    BFP #2   7/5/11.  EDD 3/14/12... Our rainbow Kellen born 3/14/12 via c/s.
    BFP #3 5/30/13.  EDD 2/8/14...  6wk u/s HB 126. 8wk u/s lost HB. D&C 7/12/13.
    BFP #4 2/18/14.  EDD 10/30/14... Ruptured ectopic with L tube removed & D&C 3/7/14.
    BFP #5 7/27/14.  EDD 4/9/15...  m/c @ 5w4d.

    IVF #1    Oct 2014 - antagonist protocol: 9R, 7M, 5F. 3dt of 3 Grade 2 embies. BFN. 
    IVF #2    Jan 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle.  Converted to IUI #1. BFFN
    IVF #2.1 March 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle.

    BFP #6  (SUPRISE!) 3/19/15.  EDD 11/30/15...  CP at 4w2d.
    IUI #2:    Clomid + Follistim = 3 follies. BFN.
    IVF #2.2 May 2015 - horrible response to micro lupron flare protocol: 3R, 3M, 3F. 3dt of 2 Grade 3 embies. BFFN. 

    BFP #7 (beyond surprised again!) 4/26/16. EDD 1/5/17. beautiful betas!!!! and then near-fatal hemorrhagic corpus luteum. turns out baby was ectopic after all; another lap 5/6 (@24dpo).

    the universe can fuck off.


     "You are overly paranoid and delusional that every one is out to get you." -lastsliverofhope

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    all AL welcome. TTC #2 for 43 44 months.
    follow my infertility journey here at timestandsstillblog.com

  • I'm 37 my H is 36. I have a BA in Public Communication and an AA in Graphic Design and am proud to say that I use both in my job. We have been together for 12 years, married for 7. And if you didn't get my screen name, we were married in Tuscany.

    My first daughter is 5 1/2 and my second daughter would have turned 2 this week.

    We have 2 dogs (pit bull mixes).

    I love wine...so much that H started making wine and we have around 100 bottles in our house at all times (he also brews beer).

    My favorite color is green and my favorite food pasta.

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13

    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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  • edited March 2014
    I'm 45, and DW is 48. I am a geriatric nurse, and DW is a foreign language (English and Swedish) teacher. I am from Manchester, England and DW is from Stockholm, Sweden, but now we live in Bergen, Norway. We've been together for 13 years, married for 5.

    My elder daughter is 16, with my XH, and she's far too tall and looks far too much like her dad and acts far too much like DW, and I adore her anyway. My younger daughter with DW is 7, and when she was asked what she wanted to be when she was older on her first day of school she said her big sister and I almost died of cuteness overload. But she has also taken to her sister's teenage tantrums.

    The only pets we have are two clown fish named Mr. Nobody and Astrabacus, a goatfish named Elsa.

    I was horrified when I found out that Frozen was supposed to be based on The Snow Queen, and now I can't watch it.
    We all go camping in Jotunheimen every year with DWs extended family.
    I've seen the Northern Lights seven times.
    I love beer.
    My favourite film ever is the Prince of Egypt.
    Older children warning!

    TTC #1 with XH January 1997 - May 1997
    BFP TTC #1 May 1997
    Mathilda Winifred "Tilde" born 3 February 1998
    Moved in with DW November 2003
    TTC #2 with DW (IUI with DS) (DW carrying) May 2005 - December 2005
    TTC #2 with DW (IVF with DS)  (DW carrying) January 2006 - May 2006
    BFP TTC #2 May 2006
    Nova Kathrine born 9 November 2006
    Nova finally became legally mine 1 January 2009
    Married DW 2 January 2009
    TTC #3 with DW (Surrogacy with DS) February 2013 - January 2014
    TTC #3 with DW (Surrogacy with DE) March 2014 - ????
  • @tuscanbride2007‌ I would love to see your wedding photos! How romantic!! <3
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


  • @KC1212‌ I will have to dig some out. It was one if the best decisions we ever made! I loved my wedding!

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13

    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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