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»»»January ☆ Snowflakes ««« (BFP Warning) March 25th

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The January Snowflakes check-in is for anybody who has an EDD or a Loss in January of any year. Feel free to join in by introducing yourself and telling us your EDD or loss date. I will be posting this check-in on Tuesdays. 

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Hello everyone, I have volunteered to fill @KMW08’s huge shoes, I don’t know how I am going to do it but I appreciate your patience as I give it a go.

»»»January Snowflakes«««

LSS
☆☆ 1/04/13 @poppy715  ♥Addie♥ ☆☆ I have loved all of your wedding photos this week, everything looked perfect.

EDD ☆☆ 1/03/14 @Carlsonbaby2014 ☆☆ ((((HUGS)))) On a bump break.


EDD
☆☆ 1/04/14 @kalynn12 ☆☆  Hi!


EDD
☆☆ 1/08/14 @taberbtb ☆☆ How is the kitchen, did the cabinets come in? I can’t wait to see the pictures! What is going to be your first meal in the new kitchen?

 

LSS ☆☆ 1/10/14 @ikrystal ♥Twin Boys♥ ☆☆ ((Hugs)) about cancelling the FET, it sounds like you made the right decision for your family. Have you started to research trips?


EDD ☆☆ 1/14/14 @Eliz77 ☆☆ How is your new health regimen going?


EDD
☆☆ 1/14/14 @Irons633 ♥Olivia ☆☆ TTC is quickly approaching, how are you feeling?

 
EDD
☆☆ 1/15/14 @neptunebljc ☆☆ 17days into the Whole30, how has the last week been?

 

EDD ☆☆ 1/24/14 @sunnydaysarehere ☆☆  Have you had your consult yet?

EDD
☆☆ 1/27/14 @BethKate2 ☆☆  ((hugs)) I am so sorry about CD1.

 

EDD ☆☆ 1/29/14 @E&B0811 ☆☆ How are you doing?

EDD
☆☆ 1/29/14 @JimBobCooter ☆☆  How are you doing with the IVF preparation? Is everything all set?

 

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A huge congratulations to our amazing and fearless leader @KMW08! A H&H (and boring) 9 months

I'm 31 and DH is 36

Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

BFP #3 EDD 12/9/2014

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Re: »»»January ☆ Snowflakes ««« (BFP Warning) March 25th

  • As for myself, I am currently in my TWW and doing my best at containing my crazy.



    I also applied for a job today and am really hoping I get it, it would be a pay raise plus an opportunity to try something new.
    I'm 31 and DH is 36

    Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

    TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

    MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

    MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

    BFP #3 EDD 12/9/2014

    *~*~*Everybody is Welcome*~*~*

    My Ovulation Chart

    BabyFruit Ticker}
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  • Congrats again, @KMW08!!

    EDD ☆☆ 1/27/14 @BethKate2 ☆☆  ((hugs)) I am so sorry about CD1.

    Thanks for the check-in, @kalynn12. I had a nice looking chart last cycle, so CD 1 definitely sucked, but now I'm trying to psych myself up for this cycle, and it's not really working.



     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

  • (((HUGS))) to all who need one this week.  I'm still so thrilled for@KMW08 . Between here and TTC35 it just feels like BFPs are overflowing.  I have hope!   Thanks for taking over at leader @kalynn12 .

    We have our financing secured for DE IVF and meet with the RE on the 31st to get things going.   Tomorrow I'm calling the agency and officially putting our donor on the five day hold.  We'll pay the agency fee  right after our doctor''s appointment.   We need to go for our psych eval first and, once cleared, my next step is to start a trial cycle next time AF shows up.   We're hoping for an August transfer. I can't believe we're doing this.  It feels surreal.

    @jimbobcooter Wow it sounds like you are going to have a busy next couple of weeks. I am sure August will be here before you know it! Good luck with the first couple of steps.
    I'm 31 and DH is 36

    Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

    TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

    MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

    MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

    BFP #3 EDD 12/9/2014

    *~*~*Everybody is Welcome*~*~*

    My Ovulation Chart

    BabyFruit Ticker}
  • BethKate2 said:
    Congrats again, @KMW08!!

    EDD ☆☆ 1/27/14 @BethKate2 ☆☆  ((hugs)) I am so sorry about CD1.

    Thanks for the check-in, @kalynn12. I had a nice looking chart last cycle, so CD 1 definitely sucked, but now I'm trying to psych myself up for this cycle, and it's not really working.



    Sometimes I feel like I am more crazy now then when I wasn't temping. I know it's a necessary evil but can be a total MF. Is there anything special you and your hubby can do to get psyched up? Special dinner , new lingerie?
    I'm 31 and DH is 36

    Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

    TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

    MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

    MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

    BFP #3 EDD 12/9/2014

    *~*~*Everybody is Welcome*~*~*

    My Ovulation Chart

    BabyFruit Ticker}
  • kalynn12 said:
    BethKate2 said:
    Congrats again, @KMW08!!

    EDD ☆☆ 1/27/14 @BethKate2 ☆☆  ((hugs)) I am so sorry about CD1.

    Thanks for the check-in, @kalynn12. I had a nice looking chart last cycle, so CD 1 definitely sucked, but now I'm trying to psych myself up for this cycle, and it's not really working.



    Sometimes I feel like I am more crazy now then when I wasn't temping. I know it's a necessary evil but can be a total MF. Is there anything special you and your hubby can do to get psyched up? Special dinner , new lingerie?
    No, not really. I've tried new lingerie before, but it backfired when my H just felt like I was doing it to pressure him. We tend to have sex more often on the weekends, so hopefully I'll O on Monday or Tuesday. Otherwise I have to work a little harder at having good timing, and that just sucks. 


     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

  • @kalynn 12 - thank you for taking over!  Good luck with the new job - I hope you get it.  Try to take it easy during this 2WW (easier said than done, I know). 

    @jimbobcooter - I am so excited that you are getting everything ready for August.  Best wishes to you!

    @bethkate2 - No advice here (My husband and I are infamous for really forcing the sex when I thought I ovulated), but just wanted to give you (((hugs))).

    As for me - thank you to everyone who supported me in canceling the FET.  It means so much to me.  I'm still so upset about it, but I do think this is the best thing to do for me, especially physically right now.  I got my meds in the mail for the May cycle yesterday and almost started crying at all the needles in there.  Not again.  I just can't believe this.

    But we did book a trip to Bermuda!  We leave the day after baseline for the May cycle and will be home way before lining check, so I got the all clear from my IVF nurse to go.  I just have to hope I don't get a ton of crap for flying with needles.  Should be fine as long as I fly with my prescriptions with me and a note from my RE.  I am excited to go, but sad since we're really supposed to be bringing Conner and Ben home in May instead of going on a trip and doing an FET.  Transfer is May 20th or 21st and I am hopeful but not really optimistic.  
  • Hi @kalynn12! Thanks for running the check-in! I hope you're keeping busy in the 2ww. And good luck with the job!

    @jimbobcooter - That's great you have a timeline in place. I hope time flies for you until August!

    @bethkate2 - Sorry about the BFN. (((hugs)))

    @ikrystal - I'm sorry that you're upset about cancelling your FET, but you need to do what's right for you and it sounds like you did the right thing. I hope that your vacation will be a nice break for you!

    My consult is tomorrow. My first post-EP AF showed up yesterday. As bittersweet as it is, I'm glad that my body is at least somewhat back to normal now. And it will be perfect timing if he wants to do anymore CD3 bloodwork.

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    edited March 2014
    Hi!! :-h

    @kalynn12‌ -thanks for taking over check-in! GL with the job and the 2WW!
    @JimBobCooter‌ -how exciting things are moving along smoothly!! August will be here before you know it.
    @BethKate2‌ -FX for a Monday/Tuesday O date for you. Also we are cycle buddies!
    @ikrystal‌ -I am sorry about having to cancel your FET. I hope you are able to enjoy your trip a little bit and not think too much about the timing of everything. (((Hugs)))
    @sunnydaysarehere‌ -GL at your consult tomorrow. That's good news you will be able to save yourself another appointment by doing your CD3 bw while you're there.

    I am dying to have our kitchen done! The cabinets are in, so now we are just waiting on the countertop to be delivered so we can finish with the sink, cooktop, etc. I will post pics as soon everything is in! We will probably do a nice roast beef dinner or something as our first meal. I want something special and since our ovens can be controlled from my iPhone I can start dinner even if I am not home!

    ETA: congrats again to @KMW08 !






     


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  • Hi @kalynn12! Thanks for taking over the check in! GL to you in your 2ww! FX for the job! 

    I am also in my 2ww with some good timing. I'm also starting it out with a lousy head cold and major tinnitus going on, so that is creating more of my crazy right now.

    @JimBobCooter I know, there have been quite a few graduates, always seems to happen that way. Good luck with the DE!!! Very exciting!
    @BethKate2 ((HUGS)) When I try to spice/change things up, my H gets very suspicious as well and it always backfires. We tend to have sex 2-3 times a week anyway, so for a while I just crossed my fingers things worked. This cycle, RE told us the 3 days to do it, and miraculously, H came through although two of those days felt more business transaction like than anything special....
    @ikrystal ((HUGS)) So jealous about Bermuda! Sounds like you really need this vacation.
    @sunnydaysarehere Good luck tomorrow!!
    @taberbtb Hmmm...roast beef and a nice, finished kitchen! Sounds perfect!


    So happy for @KMW08!!! 

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    ~*~EVERYONE always welcome!!~*~
    TTC #1 since October 2012
    BFP #1 11/22/12 EDD 7/29/13 MMC 1/14/13, D&C 1/16/13
    BFP #2 5/7/13 EDD 1/14/2014 Ectopic discovered 5/21/13, lost left tube
    Referred to RE, blood work done August 2013, AMH 0.27, all else normal, HSG clear
    BFP #3 12/1/13 EDD 8/8/14, MC 12/24/13
    January 2014: RE #2, blood work repeated, homozygous MTHFR c677t, SHG clear
    BFP #4 4/7/14 EDD 12/15/14 Our rainbow was born 12/6/14 at 4:26pm! <3 


  • ikrystal said:
    @kalynn 12 - thank you for taking over!  Good luck with the new job - I hope you get it.  Try to take it easy during this 2WW (easier said than done, I know). 

    @jimbobcooter - I am so excited that you are getting everything ready for August.  Best wishes to you!

    @bethkate2 - No advice here (My husband and I are infamous for really forcing the sex when I thought I ovulated), but just wanted to give you (((hugs))).

    As for me - thank you to everyone who supported me in canceling the FET.  It means so much to me.  I'm still so upset about it, but I do think this is the best thing to do for me, especially physically right now.  I got my meds in the mail for the May cycle yesterday and almost started crying at all the needles in there.  Not again.  I just can't believe this.

    But we did book a trip to Bermuda!  We leave the day after baseline for the May cycle and will be home way before lining check, so I got the all clear from my IVF nurse to go.  I just have to hope I don't get a ton of crap for flying with needles.  Should be fine as long as I fly with my prescriptions with me and a note from my RE.  I am excited to go, but sad since we're really supposed to be bringing Conner and Ben home in May instead of going on a trip and doing an FET.  Transfer is May 20th or 21st and I am hopeful but not really optimistic.  

    ((Hugs)) I can't imagine what you are going through but I am certainly here to talk if you need to. On another note though, I LOVE Bermuda! I hope you will have an amazing trip. Where are you staying?
    I'm 31 and DH is 36

    Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

    TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

    MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

    MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

    BFP #3 EDD 12/9/2014

    *~*~*Everybody is Welcome*~*~*

    My Ovulation Chart

    BabyFruit Ticker}
  • Hi @kalynn12! Thanks for running the check-in! I hope you're keeping busy in the 2ww. And good luck with the job!

    @jimbobcooter - That's great you have a timeline in place. I hope time flies for you until August!

    @bethkate2 - Sorry about the BFN. (((hugs)))

    @ikrystal - I'm sorry that you're upset about cancelling your FET, but you need to do what's right for you and it sounds like you did the right thing. I hope that your vacation will be a nice break for you!

    My consult is tomorrow. My first post-EP AF showed up yesterday. As bittersweet as it is, I'm glad that my body is at least somewhat back to normal now. And it will be perfect timing if he wants to do anymore CD3 bloodwork.

    Good luck tomorrow, I hope they are able to give you a good plan. Also that's great (well as good as it can be anyways) that you won't have to wait for the blood work.

    Thanks for the job wishes, I hope the process moves quickly as I almost find it worst then TWWs :)
    I'm 31 and DH is 36

    Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

    TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

    MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

    MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

    BFP #3 EDD 12/9/2014

    *~*~*Everybody is Welcome*~*~*

    My Ovulation Chart

    BabyFruit Ticker}
  • taberbtb said:
    Hi!! :-h @kalynn12‌ -thanks for taking over check-in! GL with the job and the 2WW! @JimBobCooter‌ -how exciting things are moving along smoothly!! August will be here before you know it. @BethKate2‌ -FX for a Monday/Tuesday O date for you. Also we are cycle buddies! @ikrystal‌ -I am sorry about having to cancel your FET. I hope you are able to enjoy your trip a little bit and not think too much about the timing of everything. (((Hugs))) @sunnydaysarehere‌ -GL at your consult tomorrow. That's good news you will be able to save yourself another appointment by doing your CD3 bw while you're there. I am dying to have our kitchen done! The cabinets are in, so now we are just waiting on the countertop to be delivered so we can finish with the sink, cooktop, etc. I will post pics as soon everything is in! We will probably do a nice roast beef dinner or something as our first meal. I want something special and since our ovens can be controlled from my iPhone I can start dinner even if I am not home! ETA: congrats again to @KMW08 !

    Sorry the one thing I took from update is a oven that you can control with an iPhone! That is sooo cool! I might be beginning my hubby for a new kitchen now :) in all seriousness though, I hope it's all done soon and you can have your roast beef dinner.
    I'm 31 and DH is 36

    Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

    TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

    MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

    MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

    BFP #3 EDD 12/9/2014

    *~*~*Everybody is Welcome*~*~*

    My Ovulation Chart

    BabyFruit Ticker}
  • Eliz77 said:
    Hi @kalynn12! Thanks for taking over the check in! GL to you in your 2ww! FX for the job! 

    I am also in my 2ww with some good timing. I'm also starting it out with a lousy head cold and major tinnitus going on, so that is creating more of my crazy right now.

    @JimBobCooter I know, there have been quite a few graduates, always seems to happen that way. Good luck with the DE!!! Very exciting!
    @BethKate2 ((HUGS)) When I try to spice/change things up, my H gets very suspicious as well and it always backfires. We tend to have sex 2-3 times a week anyway, so for a while I just crossed my fingers things worked. This cycle, RE told us the 3 days to do it, and miraculously, H came through although two of those days felt more business transaction like than anything special....
    @ikrystal ((HUGS)) So jealous about Bermuda! Sounds like you really need this vacation.
    @sunnydaysarehere Good luck tomorrow!!
    @taberbtb Hmmm...roast beef and a nice, finished kitchen! Sounds perfect!


    So happy for @KMW08!!! 

    @eliz77 Ugh I am sorry about the cold, there seems to be a lot of them going around at the moment. Good luck with the TWW, I am stalking you :)
    I'm 31 and DH is 36

    Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

    TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

    MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

    MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

    BFP #3 EDD 12/9/2014

    *~*~*Everybody is Welcome*~*~*

    My Ovulation Chart

    BabyFruit Ticker}
  • BethKate2 said:
    kalynn12 said:
    BethKate2 said:
    Congrats again, @KMW08!!

    EDD ☆☆ 1/27/14 @BethKate2 ☆☆  ((hugs)) I am so sorry about CD1.

    Thanks for the check-in, @kalynn12. I had a nice looking chart last cycle, so CD 1 definitely sucked, but now I'm trying to psych myself up for this cycle, and it's not really working.



    Sometimes I feel like I am more crazy now then when I wasn't temping. I know it's a necessary evil but can be a total MF. Is there anything special you and your hubby can do to get psyched up? Special dinner , new lingerie?
    No, not really. I've tried new lingerie before, but it backfired when my H just felt like I was doing it to pressure him. We tend to have sex more often on the weekends, so hopefully I'll O on Monday or Tuesday. Otherwise I have to work a little harder at having good timing, and that just sucks. 

    We are totally guilty of the same things, hubby always say just tell me when we have to do it. I should probably take my own advice as well as take suggestions from everyone. Good luck
    I'm 31 and DH is 36

    Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

    TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

    MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

    MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

    BFP #3 EDD 12/9/2014

    *~*~*Everybody is Welcome*~*~*

    My Ovulation Chart

    BabyFruit Ticker}
  • @kalynn12‌ - thanks for taking over for our awesome grad @KMW08‌ :-) so many good and happy vibes for you lady.

    I'm ok. I'm taking a bit of a bump break. Lurking a lot but posting very little. The January snowflakes continue to have an important place in my heart. Love to all of you. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and lurking now and then to see how you all are doing. xox

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    BFP#2 11/6/2013.  CP 11/14/2013.  

    BFP #3 12/13/2013.  Beta #1 @ 15dpo- 239. Progesterone 27.  Beta #2 @17dpo - 90.  CP 12/21/2013

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  • E&B0811 said:
    @kalynn12‌ - thanks for taking over for our awesome grad @KMW08‌ :-) so many good and happy vibes for you lady. I'm ok. I'm taking a bit of a bump break. Lurking a lot but posting very little. The January snowflakes continue to have an important place in my heart. Love to all of you. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and lurking now and then to see how you all are doing. xox

    I will miss you but totally understand. We are here if you need us :) ((hugs))
    I'm 31 and DH is 36

    Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

    TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

    MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

    MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

    BFP #3 EDD 12/9/2014

    *~*~*Everybody is Welcome*~*~*

    My Ovulation Chart

    BabyFruit Ticker}
  • BethKate2   I always tell Dh before hand which week I am ovulating and then I always try to be extra sweet and extra special to him.  He obliviously knows why, but at least he is aware of why I am putting extra pressure on it.

    kalynn12! Good luck with the job!! I know the feeling! I have been applying for tons of jobs.  Good luck!

    @jimbobcooter - Good luck in August! 

    @ikrystal -  I hope you enjoy your vacation.

    Update from me:
    I am doing great on the Whole30.  I am done 10lbs and DH is down 15lbs.  We do our measuring at the end of this week, so hopefully there will be some big numbers.
    I have also decided to take a break from the promethium this month.  It has been really making me crazy at the end of my cycle.  I also think it makes me feel very emotional and then crazy depressed.  So yeah, it was a rough week before the end of this cycle. 
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  • neptunebljc I'm glad you are taking a break if it is making you crazy.  Best wishes!
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