What's your sex life like post baby?

Re: What's your sex life like post baby?

• Mrbatesisinnocent member

  March 2014

  We were going crazy for awhile there buy now it's settled back into the 1-3 a week range. I can say that it's gotten better since having a kid...I did not expect that.

  
  
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• macadamia03 member

  March 2014

  We have yet to DTD. I have zero desire and I wasn't cleared until 12 weeks out. It's like I've forgotten how to initiate sex. I think he's scared that he will break my vajayjay. We may never have sex again. :-(

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• blainethetrain member

  March 2014

  Mrbatesisinnocent said:

  We were going crazy for awhile there buy now it's settled back into the 1-3 a week range. I can say that it's gotten better since having a kid...I did not expect that.

  I find sex feels way better now too. Now that my hormones are regulating my sex drive is picking up, so we will be back to 3-4 times/week soon.

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• tattooedtragedy member

  March 2014

  Well since DH lost like 85lbs while I was pregnant. And the whole time I as pregnant I had zero desire and now I'm no longer living with a beach ball on my stomach and DH is rocking his new bod (its like DH is my hot new bf) I have been kicked into sex drive overload! Its awesome! 

  
  

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• leahraewku member

  March 2014

  I bedshare with DD, and he sleeps with DS. I could count on one hand the number of times we've DTD since she was born. Strangely, neither of us is bothered by this and we're still in a very happy place in our marriage.

  
  

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• MissyC979 member

  March 2014

  Maybe once or twice a week? Usually on weekends or when I drink wine at night. It's hard to get motivated for it, but I've been trying to make the effort.
  

  
  
  
  

  

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• dupe member

  March 2014

  I would do it everyday. For some reason its better than it has ever been. But we only get to do maybe twice a week. I think yhe kids plan it, each night they take a turn to come try to get in bed with us.

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• azmama20 member

  March 2014

  We maybe DTD once or twice a week, on average. It's hard for me, since I'm battling PPD and anxiety. That pretty much kills my drive plus I hate my body most days, so it's hard to feel attractive. Hoping my hormones and emotions level out more soon so I can feel more 'normal'.

  

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• thetheisens member

  March 2014

  We are hit and miss. Some weeks we are really into it and others we are just too tired. I hurt at first, but it's back to normal now.

  
  

  
  
  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• grannyweatherwax member

  March 2014

  Where is the "not at all"?
  

   
  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• redmond_steph member

  March 2014

  Last night we finally DTD!!!!! Lol I had bad tearing so only got cleared a couple weeks ago and when we tried then I was still too sore. But it was DH's bday yesterday so we gave it another try

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• cammyisagirlsname member

  March 2014

  Heaven802002 said:

  I'm way too fucking tired most of the time. We've only done it a couple times since lo was born.

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• BoothBaby member

  March 2014

  How is it that those of you in the 1-2x/wk club think you are below average?? Here I am thinking you are rock stars!

  
  
  

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• BootsOrHearts member

  March 2014

  Hurts too much
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• greenbeanqueen member

  March 2014

  I want to more than we do but even with lube I'm still dry as the Sahara and it hurts... Blegh. I miss good sex.

  

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• PamMcManus member

  March 2014

  It's basically a weekend thing for us now. Sometimes we can sneak a session in through the week if we aren't too exhausted. Between working, picking up the baby and getting everything ready for the next day of work, we just don't have time.

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• ugoglencoco member

  March 2014

  DH said earlier today he feels like a sex ninja. A lot of times were so exhausted at night so it's more of a he comes home for lunch time, and I try to make sure both kids are asleep kind of thing. It is so much harder to find the time with two kids!! But we're making it work! It's actually been fun!

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• swirl25 member

  March 2014

  We are barely averaging 1x a week, mostly due to this being DH's crazy period at work and he is fairly stressed. But I will say that the handful of times we've done it, it's been pretty good. I have been pleasantly surprised by PP sex this time around!

  

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• cboink member

  March 2014

  No sex here. I am sadly okay with this.

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• frankierokx member

  March 2014

  We DTD once a day at least. We have always had big sex drives. Our sex life has got so much better since M arrived. We are certainly making up for lost time.

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• ChiAmy member

  March 2014

  I am on the not at all party and I am sadly okay with it. We have not dtd in six months...and I really have no interest to. Every since my son was born four years ago I have lost interest and I really don't know how to fix it...it used to be so different.

  

   

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• Cambury108 member

  March 2014

  @Yezbick9‌ your not alone in that let down department. I thought it was just me. Glad it's not. It also makes me want to go all the way. DH enjoys that aspect of my pumping schedule.

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• dmbeatty87 member

  March 2014

  It's like SO and I switched places. I'm a total nympho since being cleared and he's so meh about the whole thing

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• Cambury108 member

  March 2014

  MarBee1214 same thing with my DH, he is normally the not horny one in our home and lately he has been giving me a run for my $, I am A OK with that!! He is normally a 1x and done kinda guy, could go more he just chooses not to, so last night when he came at me twice I was like "who are you and what have you done with my husband but YES I will make all the sex with you!" Most magical night all week LOL Its been great though really. We are on our 3rd child so we figured out long ago how to "sneak one in". Glad things are rocking for you at your house!! Party on sister!!

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• monkeybutt61612 member

  March 2014

  We are having so much more sex since the baby was born. We have two kids with predictable sleep habits, which makes it easier

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