I know all women are different, but I'm just trying to get an idea. I
started out my pregnancy at about 245, wearing size 18 pants. I have a
more flat tummy FOR MY SIZE.
Could you please share your starting weight, pants size and a picture of when you think you started to show? Thanks

Re: When did PLUS SIZE women start to show?
Married 1/2/99.
TTC since 4/09.
Diagnosed PCOS. Diagnosed Hypothryoid 11/09.
SHG & SA normal. PCOS Research study started 5/10.
Clomid/Femara cycle #1 - 6/10 = BFN
Clomid/Femara cycle #2 - 7/10 = BFP #1 - Missed miscarriage 9/2/10
11/12 - BFP #2 - 11/22 - m/c
5/1/11 - BFP #3 - Pre-eclampsia, IUGR & bed rest from 32w. DD born via induction 1/4/12.
A friend gave me a cute top that has baby hand/foot prints right over the tummy. I loved to wear it when I was in the 'is she fat or pregnant' stage.
Normally i don't care what others think of my body but with tons of changes so quickly pregnancy can really mess with your self image/self esteem.
Just remember you are beautiful and carrying your child is wonderful (even if at times it sucks!)
I have posted a couple pics for comparison. First is 16 weeks (nothing to see!), second is 22 weeks when you can start to see something, and the third is 26 weeks - where I personally think it's pretty obvious. I'm 29 weeks now and look pretty much the same I did at 26w. I've gained 12lbs if that matters. HTH