Babies on the Brain

It has happened! There's a baby in my belly!

So my husband and I celebrate our 1 year wedding anniversary on Monday, March 17.  Today, March 15, is the annual St. Patrick's Day parade here in my city.  It's a BIG festival here (well it's been a celebration of stuff all week).  I needed to take a test last night to see if I could drink anything today.  I am also about a week late.... though that's not totally uncommon for me. 

My hubby was out last night, as he plays a game on Fridays with friends.  So I knew I'd be home alone.  The first reg. test stick came back positive.  But I wasn't convinced.  So I took another one.  It was negative. So I jumped int he car and went and bought me a digital.  It CLEARLY came up fast that I was pregnant!

I was shaking with nerves.   I have already made the hubby a craft project for the 1 year anniversary, which is paper.  Got a card.  And I put the 2 positively pregnant strips in the card to give to him.  He's in for a mega surprise on Monday when I give him his presents.  (If I can hold it in that long.... I may give it to him Sunday night). 

I text messaged the pics of my tests to my two closest BFF's and one of my dear, long time friends who is a woman of many talents:  a photographer, breast pumping educater, dula, etc.  I told her I'd be driving her crazy for the next year at least.  She was going to take pics of my hubs and I for our 1 year anniversary next weekend.  Now she's going to add in some announcement pics as well. 

 I joined this group a few months ago to get as much info as I could about anything.  I stopped taking birth control back in November.  I have a lot of medical issues that scares me with being pregnant.  And honestly, I didn't know if I would be able to even get pregnant.  I am a traumatic brain injury survivor, I have epilepsy, and liver problems.  I am on meds for those that I cannot ever come off of.  My long time friend told me to go see the best baby Dr. in the city, who specializes in high risk pregnancy cases.  He didn't sound too concerned about anything.  Only that I would be coming to see him probably every 2 weeks to keep a close watch.  He did tell me several times to lose weight before trying to even have a baby.  (I was 225, though in the last few weeks I have gained a few pounds.  I thought it was because I was more stressed as I have a student for the next 3 months for my job (I'm an Occupational Therapist) who is stressing me out.  But I eat healthy and exercise at least 5 days a week.  Heck, I ran 3 miles yesterday before I even took that pregnancy test, lol.) 

I'm up early this morning before the hubs (I am so anxious I can't sleep) and doing all kinds of research and ordering books. 

Re: It has happened! There's a baby in my belly!

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  • Jags8 said:

    You told your friends before your husband?

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    That's the VERY first thing that ran through my head. A baby isn't an anniversary present, is baby. Wake your husband up right now and pretend you just got the positives this morning!
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  • Yes I did tell them first.  I would have told him first.  But with our anniversary 2 days away... I want to surprise him.  I want to make it a fun surprise.... not just wake him up and give him the news!
  • Lurker. I think my hubby would be mad if I kept that from him but told my friends. I also got my BFP two days before our anniversary. I told him as soon as I took the test. He still considered it a great anniversary surprise. Congrats to you both, but consider his feelings here too.
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  • Congratulations! Now go tell him! It's your anniversary weekend...close enough! :)
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    Congrats on the baby.

    I also find it a bit odd that you told someone before your husband... I understand wanting to surprise him with the news given the timing, but your friends knowing shouldn't have priority over your husband. I hope it doesn't hurt his feelings. 
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  • Congrats!  If it were me, I'd tell him that I wanted to give him your anniversary present early, and do it now!  He'll probably be suspicious if you don't drink at the St. Patty's festivities, no?  But either way, congrats!
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  • Congratulations!!! How exciting-right before your anniversary! I think it'll be a wonderful surprise for him :) will he gets suspicious if you don't drink?
  • Lol chill people.  I did tell him as a surprise early present.  I even took videos of him crying.  In my secret way of telling him to open his early anniversary present he was like, "no, I'll just wait until Monday".  I had to force him in to opening it, lol.  He has no problems or is mad over me telling my best friends (both of which were the only ones I could tell as I was home alone and whom I've known for YEARS... I was freaking out).  He has already told 3 of his friends, though we told everyone they are sworn to secrecy, as we haven't told our parents and I want to be safe and out of the first trimester.  If word gets out on facebook... it's over!  Haha.

    And no, he knew I probably wasn't going to drink anyway, just for health/diet reasons.  There was no worries or concerns there.   
  • Jags8 said:
    You told your friends before your husband?

    This was my first question as well!!!

    Congratulations on your BFP though!!  But yes you always tell your husband first!!!

  • Oh ladies, calm your tits. BOTB knew before my husband with #2 and 3. He was absolutely fine with that. 

    Congrats-- it's a great anniversary present. 
    Thank you!!!!!  Someone understands ;)
  • Congrats!! 
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  • I couldn't imagine telling anyone before my husband. This was my first thought as well after reading the whole paragraph. He would be so hurt.
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  • Everyone is different! 
  • Ugh, people always go to the negative first on these boards!

    First of all, congrats! Sounds like you've been through a lot and that you're really excited. I think it's nice to keep it a surprise and tell him in a way that he'll always remember. It's find that you told your BFF's, especially since once will have to start preparing to take an announcement pic! I think you're being very thoughtful and I'm sure he'll appreciate it! Good luck!
  • Feelings weren't hurt in the slightest.  Quite the opposite!
  • 2Swanns said:
    Ugh, people always go to the negative first on these boards!


    Couldn't agree more. Trying to find advice on The Knot for my wedding turned me off from ever asking anything again on here. Everyone's lives are different and no one should impose their feelings over anyone's post unless its positive. 
    These boards are for support and celebration... and on that note I say CONGRATULATIONS!!!! I cannot WAIT until this day comes for my husband and I!!!
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  • Doesn't matter who knows first! Congrats!
  • Thanks!  I love hearing good comments back from people! <3=)
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