I gained 20 pounds PP and i havent shed it off yet

i cried again last night because DH mentioned that i was not this big a year and a half ago. I try to curb my meals and be active but i just cant pin down a regular gym sked. Can you share yours to me? Im thinking of hitting the gym 3x a week (we have one near our place). I only have one LO who's 3 and i work full time. For now the only exercise i do is walking during the weekends (1-2 kilometer leisurely stroll). TIA
Re: how do you squeeze in gym time?
I hit the treadmill in my basement at 5:15 am before my usual 6 am shower. Can you go to your gym when they open in the morning, while your family is still asleep/wakingup?
When the weather finally warms up, I usually take time at lunch to go for a walk, maybe a mile at a time.
You could try letting your DH do your daughter's bedtime and heading over to the gym while they're busy, if exercising at night works for you.
I either go to the gym during my lunch break or work through my lunch break, leave work early and go to the gym before picking up LO from daycare. The weather is starting to get a little nicer around here so I also fit in a walk with LO. Some days I will wear her for these walks and do lunges. Her extra weight on my body makes the workout more challenging.
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
@k3am apparently he is in improved shape as he is the slightly athletic type
Thank you again ladies!
IVF #1: 9/11: ER: 12R, 11M, 10F, No Frosties; 5dt: 2 blasts, 1 morula; DD born 6/3/12
IVF #2: 11/12-12/12: ER: 20R, 20M, 16F, 4 Frosties; 5dt: 3 blasts, DS born 8/9/13
We own a treadmill and I get on it every day at 5 a.m. or after DD's bedtime for an hour. I also go to the gym at my work during lunch a couple times a week for cardio and lifting.
If you're trying to lose weight, you should probably work out more than 3X per week and "leisurely" strolls aren't going to do it.
You should also really look at your diet and make sure it's balanced and keep the calories down.
For me, it's all about scheduling a specific time to workout and keeping that schedule.