Hello-
I introduced myself previously, and we are just starting to research adoption. We plan to move forward pretty quickly b/c it really seems like a no-brainer to do so.
We really want to have a baby but haven't been successfully TTC naturally. I have some minor health issues that make me fearful of going through fertility treatment; plus, I typically lean toward natural medicine anyway.
So, adoption seems like the perfect path. But I've been reading about how emotional and difficult it can be. I'm def. one that expects the worst but hopes for the best.
I know it won't be easy, so I feel scared. Is this a normal feeling to have before jumping in? Even though I am scared, I want to do it and think it will be worth it.
Re: Is this feeling familiar?
Totally normal. You're going into the unknown, which is scary for anyone.
FWIW, our adoption process was really good, with very little roller coastering. You may get lucky
TTC # 1 Since October 2010 (Not preventing since 2009)
November 2013: Applied & Accepted by the Agency
January 2014: Home Study, education class, Profiles
February 2014: "Officially Waiting"