Me:35, DH: 39
TTC since March 2011. All bloodword, SA & HSG are normal.
8/12: Clomid & TI - BFN
10/12: Colmid & TI - BFN
3/13: Clomid, Trigger & IUI - BFN
4/13: Gonal F, Trigger & IUI: BFN
6/13: IVF #1 (1AA blast & 1BB blast) = BFN
8/13: FET #1= BFN
10/13: FET #2= BFP!!!

Re: Working during FMLA??
In terms of working though, as I understand it, if you are getting paid disability leave of some sort, you aren't allowed to work. I don't know what the rules are for unpaid leave.
You can't work at all while you are receiving disability pay. If you are on FMLA but are unpaid or using PTO, it will depend on your company policy.