I had written a post yesterday that DD's school district team is questioning her ASD diagnosis at 21 months, I just keep going over it in my mind and would love some others opinions and feedback. The school district said that the psychologist that did the ADOS did not take her cognitive delay into account, they recognize that she she SPD, but are questioning ASD because, they said, that with ASD, typically there is a spike in one area of development, and with DD, she is consistently delayed to the 12month age in all areas.
When I look at typical development of a12 month old, DD still struggles with a lot of it, and to me it can't all be related to SPD or developmental delays. For instance, lack of eye contact (they blame her vision, but I don't buy that), she avoids peers except for 1 little girl that she is co-treated with at ABA, no pretend play at all except what she practices at ABA. She does not use objects appropriately such as brushing her hair or holding a phone to her head, She doesn't respond to her name often (despite this being something that we have spent significant time on in ABA). She is very difficult to engage or keep engaged, and shows very little expression on her face a majority of the time, and she often just stares into space, like she is in a trance and spaced out.
Am I just not understanding developmental delays and SPD? Are these things typical with those diagnoses? To me, they seem to fit a picture of ASD (at least what I thought ASD was I guess). All of these things were mentioned in her evals. Just looking for the experience of others as I find myself so confused by all this.
Re: Developmental Delays vs. SPD vs. ASD ??
Based on what? The federal definition of autism for educational purposes is
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That being said, I agree that they are offering amazing services, and I don't want to rock the boat over this. From what they said, the diagnosis they gave isn't going to change what they would offer her, and they said this teacher has a lot of experience with Autism and would let the Autism specialist know if she sees specific red flags. I guess it was really for my own benefit that I wanted to understand it better since DD is well taken care of at this point.
I assume they mean ID when they say developmentally delayed, she is delayed in all areas of development, including cognitively, and physically, but all the specialists here always just say developmental delays. That part always confuses me, I am never sure how to phrase it.
Per my autism society in my area kiddos with splinter skills on the spectrum are the exception, not the rule. Your school department is off base in using that criteria to rule out autism. You're also right on that what you describe about your dd isn't just developmental delays. Kids who are chronologically and/or developmentally 12 months old respond to their name, express emotions, and are easily engaged. I would take the schools info with a healthy dose of skepticism.