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Don't touch this

emilyveemilyve member
in September 2014 Moms
So recently when DH tries to get all cute and cuddly I push him away. Not every time but a lot of the time. I feel like a jerk, but I just can't help it. I don't want to be touched! Or kissed or tickled or anything. And when he keeps trying I seriously get so irritated that I want to scream. I don't understand what's going on with me! Is anyone else experiencing anything like this?
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  • jennashawn2013jennashawn2013 member
    Me! It is so unfortunate. Hopefully it gets better in the next trimester like they say.
    Jenna (27) + Shawn (27) 09.07.13
    DS Carter (7) 11.09.06
    DS Tanner (5) 01.15.09
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  • sapphires-and-diamondssapphires-and-diamonds member
    Me too. I feel so bad for MH, but I am just not into being touchy feely right now. Where is my damn libido?
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  • JulyMomma2U2JulyMomma2U2 member
    Yup. It comes in waves... And my "in the mood" window is so friggan short lived.. If he is not right there the moment I'm feeling it, he's SOL!! Lol. With both my boys, my libido kicked back in during 3rd tri :-)
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  • emilyveemilyve member
    JulyMomma2U2 said:
    Yup. It comes in waves... And my "in the mood" window is so friggan short lived.. If he is not right there the moment I'm feeling it, he's SOL!! Lol. With both my boys, my libido kicked back in during 3rd tri :-)

    This! The window is soooo small. It's completely ridiculous.
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    MermaidsMagic said:

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    Love this!

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  • JD83JD83 member
    I'm in the same boat. I'm good with cuddles, but sex is so not happening right now. Luckily for me, it's Mustache March and I told DH that as long as that thing is on his face, sexual contact of any kind is a no-go at this station.
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  • hadeelbhadeelb member
    Same here, still waiting for the 2nd tri sex drive to come in!
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  • mrsdanielleM2010mrsdanielleM2010 member
    I don't share your issue, I want all the sex... BUT I had to come in to share this image

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  • SoogerplumSoogerplum member
    Oh thank you! I thought I was the only one! :p I feel evil sometimes! I just feel awful 98% of the time and I work full time and have a 5 year old so by the time I'm done with what has to be done every day, sex is the furthest from my mind.
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  • MonotonetwoMonotonetwo member
    I know this sounds like tmi but if I don't feel like it, I just take care of him *blushing* so he doesn't feel unwanted or start having negativity towards pregnancy as I want one more later haha. I'm also an avid snuggler. I tell him how handsome he is etc etc all the time so he knows that it's not him. I just really don't feel like it lately. Who can blame us? But men are like children so I use positive reinforcement.
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  • GabbyCat13GabbyCat13 member
    MermaidsMagic said:
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    I thought this too!! Hahahaha
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