New preschool and ASD evals

Maddy has had a medical dx of developmental delays and ASD since Dec 2012 (she was 21 months old then). We moved to a new school district and she is aging out of EI, so the new school district has been doing a lot of evals for ASD and for preschool placement. They sat us down and said as a team they are not sure that the Autism diagnosis fits. They said they reviewed the report from her diagnosis and the psychologist did not factor in her cognitive delays (they had a psychologist do a cognitive evaluation at the school). I guess it doesn't really impact the services they are providing her through the school, so overall the label doesn't matter. I just feel like we are back to square one with no answers and no real diagnosis. It seems silly, but feeling like we belonged somewhere felt comforting.

On a very bright note, we toured her new preschool and met her new teacher and we are so excited. It is a school for cognitively impaired and they have so much to offer. A large sensory gym, a mechanical horse, the gym has modified bikes, there is a separate PT gym and OT room. The kids in her class are all very sweet and a good mix, I really think she will do great there. The teacher seems wonderful too.