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TTC After a Loss
LeighaG
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My SIL Is A ....(BFP mentioned)
LeighaG
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I just need to vent and rant for a minute. This past weekend totally sucked. Just an emotional weekend and then had to go to my nephew's 1st birthday. This is my husband's sister's kid. She is the kind of person where the world revolves around her. Well the birthday party sucked. 40+ people in a space made for like 15. I ate my lunch on the floor. Then she announces to EVERYONE that they are expecting again. I was devastated! She does my hair and I've shared with her the struggles since our MC and TTC and it never occurred to her that hearing this might be a little tough on myself and her brother? She told the parents on Friday, why couldn't she have told us so we could be prepared?
On top of that, H and I had a huge fight over it because I should just get over it. We didn't talk all day Sunday and finally talked it out on Monday night. He blew up because he was hurt too but didn't know how to show his emotions. I just know that my SIL will rub this in my face like she did the last one and I can't deal with it anymore. On top of that, I work with her, so I called my boss and asked to not be scheduled in the same building with her.
Ok, feel better now. It doesn't fix anything but helps to get it out.
Oh, and after we talked we had make up sex
It was good
On top of that, H and I had a huge fight over it because I should just get over it. We didn't talk all day Sunday and finally talked it out on Monday night. He blew up because he was hurt too but didn't know how to show his emotions. I just know that my SIL will rub this in my face like she did the last one and I can't deal with it anymore. On top of that, I work with her, so I called my boss and asked to not be scheduled in the same building with her.
Ok, feel better now. It doesn't fix anything but helps to get it out.
Oh, and after we talked we had make up sex
It was good BFP 11/2012: EDD 7/19/2013: MC 12/17/12
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Re: My SIL Is A ....(BFP mentioned)
BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
Horrible!!! I was shocked reading this, and I can't imagine how that must have felt.
Let us know if someone needs a throat punch.
PG#1 - 3rd cycle BFP. Team Green. HELLP syndrome @ 34 weeks.
Later diagnosed with Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, possible link to HELLP.
PG#2 M/C 3/14 - Surprise BFP 2/13. Beta's doubled every 52 hours from 3w5d-5w5d
Viable pregnancy scan at 5w5d; 2nd u/s showed 2 days of growth in 7 but a HB of 120
3rd u/s on 3/10/14 had no HB and baby had only grown 7 days over 14
D&C 3/17/14 - complications - DX Retroflexed uterus, multiple tears to cervix
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Me (30) DH (31) Married 5/13, TTC since 2/13
BFP # 3, EDD 2/21/15 * please be our rainbow*BFP #1 Blighted Ovum resulting in D&C on 11/1/13
BFP #2 Ectopic Pg, lap surgery on 3/12/14, R tube removed
Me: 27 DH: 33
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI
TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF
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DH and I have had our ups and downs as well over loss and other people announcing... it sucks, and it comes and goes regularly because it seems like EVERYONE around us is pregnant... but at least the make up sex is fun right!
Hope it gets better!
DH & I 23
Married: 3/23/13 Together since: 4/11/10
DD born 4/19/09 after a summer fling after graduation. Not planned
Dx with Endometriosis and Ovarian Cysts July 2010
TTC since July 2010
DX with unexplained secondary IF 2012
BFP Oct 6, 2013
Confirmation BFP at Dr. Office Oct 7, 2013
Miscarriage confirmed 10/19/13
CD 21 full panel blood work 3/18/14 to initiate fertility treatment
Psalm 34:18 "...The Lord is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit..."