Pregnant after a Loss

Need some positive thoughts...(possible loss mentioned)

I am so confused.

I had 2 positives on Saturday but DH made a comment about how light they were, so I figured I would test again and have it get darker to make him feel better. They have been getting progressively lighter (line still shows) which had me worried.  This morning I took a Digital and it said "Not Pregnant".

I called my OB office today and they said to test again in a few days and if its still negative and I don't get my period to call them back. 










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Re: Need some positive thoughts...(possible loss mentioned)

  • (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

    I've been thinking of you. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this.
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  • Sending so many thoughts and prayers your way that everything is ok (((hugs)))

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  • ((hugs)) I am sorry you are dealing with this confusion.  Will your OBs office run betas?  My lines were not very dark (I tested 3 days in a row), and the last day actually looked lighter than the day before.  However, when I went in for betas, they were rising normally.  Fx that all turns out well, love.


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  • ((HUGS)) I really hope this isn't the case. Did you take a digital before and it said pregnant?

    I don't want to be a downer AT ALL but something similar happened to me with my CP back in July. I had a positive line test on a Saturday morning, positive digital that Saturday evening, Monday morning the digital was negative. The line was still there on the test...didn't get darker but didn't really get lighter either. I had betas done at that point and they were dropping.

    I am keeping all things crossed that this isn't the case for you.

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    Lots of love and ((Hugs)) hun. Can you call your doc for betas?
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  • I am so sorry!   I will send over T&Ps. 

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  • ((HUGS)) I really hope this isn't the case. Did you take a digital before and it said pregnant?

    I don't want to be a downer AT ALL but something similar happened to me with my CP back in July. I had a positive line test on a Saturday morning, positive digital that Saturday evening, Monday morning the digital was negative. The line was still there on the test...didn't get darker but didn't really get lighter either. I had betas done at that point and they were dropping.

    I am keeping all things crossed that this isn't the case for you.

    Today was the first digital.

    Thanks everyone.  She didn't say anything about betas. I am assuming that would be the next step if my period never shows up.
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  • FX for you hun. I hope the negative was just a bad test. So sorry you are in limbo. (((Hugs)))

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  • I hate this for you! I have everything crossed and I'm sending t&p your way!
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  • hope you get some clear answers soon. ((hugs)) for being stuck in limbo and sending lots of positive T&P your way.

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  • I hope that you get a positive tomorrow or the tests start to get darker.  Sending lots of positive thoughts.

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    I hate seeing this!  FX that it was just a bad test!!! 



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    I hav everything crossed for you!! FX it was just a bad test and it is just too early for a digital. ((((((HUGS))))))






     


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    I am so sorry you are going through this!  I had a very similar situation happen with this pregnancy.  When I first took a test I could see a slight line but couldn't figure out if it was just in my head!  I took a test again the next day and it was lighter.  So I called my Dr and they had me come in for betas.  I must have caught it super early because they are rising normally just started super low.  I hope that's the case for you too hun!! ((hugs)) I know being in limbo is so not easy! ((hugs))


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  • Huge hugs coming your way.  I know every doctor is different but since I had a loss with my last pregnancy (2nd tri), my OB wanted me to come in as soon as I got a positive test so that she could test betas and progesterone. I've never had issues with those in my pregnancy but it's more precautionary and I greatly appreciate her taking that care with me. Is that something you could ask for with your OB?  Maybe it's not an absolute necessity but could help with peace of mind one way or the other. 

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  • Just wanted to send you lots of love and positive thoughts your way (((hugs)))
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  • So sorry you are going through this (((hugs))) Thinking of you!

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  • (((Hugs))) I am so sorry you are dealing with this.
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    I agree about calling to see if your doc will do a beta and progesterone check.

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  • Hugs and positive thoughts. I hope you get good news soon.
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  • I want to add that my SIL just recently found out that she's pregnant. She called me saying that she was 7 weeks and when I asked her when she found out, she said just the day before she called me. She was testing every few days since her missed period and they were coming up negative until that day. I was freaking out that it was chemical or something was wrong (I didn't let her know this) because it took so long to turn a digital positive. But, she went for an ultrasound yesterday at 8 weeks and she's actually having twins and both have heartbeats. I wouldn't give up hope yet. I really hope your doctor can get you in for some betas and you can find out what's going on. Sometimes our bodies can be soo screwy! More (((hugs)))

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    I'm so sorry you are going through this. Sending you lots of ((hugs))

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  • So many (((((HUGS)))))!  Hoping that the lines get darker tomorrow!

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  • DH made me take a test last night.

    I used a FRER and it is still showing a line.

    I didn't test this morning...I think I will wait until tomorrow.
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