I know there is a baby name board, but I don't know those people. I want your opinions.
So, DH and I have been tossing around a couple of names for our little girl, but nothing is jumping out at us. The front runners for the past few months have been Stella Gracie or Lennon Stella. A few weeks ago I don't know how or why but I started saying Isla James. Don't even ask me where James came from LOL! DH and I both like Isla for a first name and either James or Gracie for the middle name. My question for you ladies is do you think pronunciation will be a problem? The S is silent like in the word island. Most people I think know that, but some people have commented that it looks like Is-La and have suggested spelling it Ayla. I don't really love that idea. I like traditional spelling of names. I wanted a name that was a normal name, non traditional but not strange. I think this fits, but the pronunciation thing is bothering me. I don't want her to have teachers make the mistake year after year. I feel like Isla is becoming a more popular name, but you still don't heart too often. So, give me your thoughts on the matter and while you're at it if you want you can weigh in on Isla James vs Isla Gracie. Last name starts with W and is 2 syllables.
Re: Thoughts on Isla for baby girl name?
Personally I think Isla has been used to death in recent years. It's a pretty name, but if you want 5 girls to come running when you shout her name then it's up to you. It's going to end up getting dated pretty soon.
I like Stella Gracie. A Streetcar Named Desire is my favourite movie, so I just think "STELLAAAAAAAAA!!!".
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If you do go with Isla, I like James as a middle name.
Sorry, I didn't mean it in a rude way. It's one of the most popular newborn names around at the moment, especially where I live in the UK. There isn't a street without an Isla on it. DH rolls his eyes whenever he hears someone call their child that in the street. Perhaps its different where you are?
Like I say, I like Stella.
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Ayla = A-La
Both are pretty in my opinion but pronounced differently.
I've never met and Isla, nor do i know a single person who plans to name their baby Isla. It's definitely not a popular name in this area, as far as i know (i live in the Boston area). i also didn't actually know how it was pronounced, i would have said Is-la.
I actually really like it though, and i like the way it's pronounced. I do think she'd spend some time correcting people, but maybe if it gains some popularity it won't be an issue.
Stella is WAY more popular where i live, i've met several Stellas.
i think using James for a middle name for a girl will make it sound like she has two last names. and honestly i'm not a fan of Gracie as a middle name because i think Gracie sounds like a nickname and Grace is such a beautiful name.
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I also like Stella. Lennon is a last name and more suitable for a boy IMO.
As far as popularity goes isla made top 4 last year. So yes it has become more popular. However, the top name is only used for like 5% of newborns. So that works out to about 1 in 20 which is about the size of a classroom. Think about how many Ryan's and Jessica's you had in one class growing up. It just depends on how you feel about hearing your kids name on other kids. She won't be the only isla in her school.
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If you don't want to fight the pronunciation battle, my vote is with Stella Grace. I also don't know any Stella's, and I absolutely love that name too. Stella would be my next choice for a girl.
Your husband can still call her Isla/Stella Gracie if he wants to. It's just paperwork, but I think Grace sounds better suited to grow up with.
Good luck!
FWIW it's not common near me.
Isla was on our short list, but spelled Ila after my great-grandmother.
I also don't know a single Isla, but two baby girls in my circle have been named Lennon recently.
OP, "a normal name, non traditional but not strange" seems like a mythical unicorn name, but maybe my imagination is just shorting out at the moment.
I wouldn't go with Lennon at all, personally, but if I did it would be more likely for a boy. I have a peeve about using traditionally boy names on girls (gestating my second son and struggling what to name him may have something to do with that...) so I wouldn't do James as a middle name for a girl, but if you don't have that peeve then please yourself. Isla or Stella, both are fine, but Stella will be easier for everyone she meets, in the event they haven't met anyone named Isla before. Also, I agree with everyone who says Grace is better than Gracie for the middle name. Your husband can still call her Gracie, but then her drivers license and other official documents requiring a full name will look more grownup when she gets to that point.
ETA the popularity of both Isla and Stella has been rising in the US but Stella was ranked #62 and Isla #230 in 2012. You can check the popularity of a name on the social security website ssa.gov
I like 'boy' names paired with really girly names.