I feel bad for mine too because I keep thwarting his efforts! I was pretty irritates with him this morning because he had the tv on too loud and I wanted to sleep!
I was in a baby store today with mine and I was wearing a sun dress...he decided it would be a good idea to swipe the length of my ass crack with the car key. Pissed me off to no end, stormed to the car and demanded he take me home. Maybe I'm just hormonal but I could have kicked his shin.
Mine decided to go golfing today but took my car instead of getting a ride (since he left his car at work last night) and left me stranded at home for 6 hours when I had major errand running to do. So now I'm getting a mani/pedi and not telling him.
Mine has been doing the whole night time routine with our kids while I lay in bed and watch hulu/read for the last month. A**hole. Clearly he's trying to destroy our relationship.
Don't get me wrong I love him and he is being great with the kids and household chores. It is little things that annoy me... he smokes and I can't stand the way he and his breath smell. When he drink he will reek of alcohol and I can't stand it. Then he comes over and wants to cuddle and have sex, but he smells so bad I don't even want him near me. And if I say anything he gets hurt and pissed. And it isn't long term only been a couple a weeks.
I thought this was a place for support, these things don't normally bother me, but since being pregnant my sense of smell has been heightened and a lot of smells can make me sick. I was just wondering if anyone was having the same issues. I am not whining, simply sharing something. Maybe I am on the wrong board for support. I went back and forth about even posting this, I vary rarely post at all and I think that now I will be done for sure.
I thought this was a place for support, these things don't normally bother me, but since being pregnant my sense of smell has been heightened and a lot of smells can make me sick. I was just wondering if anyone was having the same issues. I am not whining, simply sharing something. Maybe I am on the wrong board for support. I went back and forth about even posting this, I vary rarely post at all and I think that now I will be done for sure.
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OP, Lala gave you support in the form of good advice. The way your DH smells and behaves after smoking and drinking is something you need to sit down and talk to him about. That is the only thing that will help you.
I'll admit, last night I got annoyed with DH. But after a good nights sleep and realizing it was likely my out of control hormones and irrational emotions, I let it go. Plus DH did some cleaning for me today without me asking him to. All is right in the world. And my DH rocks. I'm glad I have him around.
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