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Hubby tantrums

CP0979CP0979 member
in October 2012 Moms
So my H had a major temper tantrum tonight. I asked him to get off the couch and help me straighten up for 10 min. I was washing bottles and wanted his help just picking up toys etc. he said he was tired and would do it tom. A little background, he was out the past two nights with his friends late, but NOW he's tired?! I insisted he help bc he has it way too easy around here. Well he threw a tantrum yelling purposefully loud enough to wake the baby which gladly he was unsuccessful at. He then proceeded to slam doors, making a hole in one in the process, as he straightened up while throwing several toys around the room? He then went up to bed. I went to talk to him and realized he had locked the door to our bedroom. Seriously!? He finally opened it, and I tried to talk to him but he wouldn't. I tried explaining to him that I work all week so I really value my weekends with baby, and I was trying to get some cleaning done tonight so I can have more time with her tomorrow. He wouldn't even talk to me. I was sitting there sobbing with no reaction by him whatsoever. I swear he can be so heartless sometimes. And the sad thought runs through my mind that I hope my daughter marries a better man than her father. And the other part that bothers me is that he can go out late with friends but fri night comes and instead of wanting to spend time with me, watching movie or something, then he wants to go to bed by 9pm. Feeling so sad and lonely :( someone pls cheer me up. I'm couching it tonight. And pissed about the hole in the door! Why do guys feel the need to break stuff when their mad. So dramatic and totally unnecessary! Ugh
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  • StefanieM522StefanieM522 member
    Hugs, I hope it gets better for you. My h has moments as well that he forgets I need help and time too. Hope he calms down and you get some much needed help and love from him.

                    
                   







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  • Sillygirl85Sillygirl85 member
    Sorry you had a rough night. It sounds like you two need to sit down and talk about what your expectations are for each other and try and come up with a plan to share responsibilities.
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