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June 2014 Moms
SkyAngelMommy
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baby shower!
SkyAngelMommy
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So when i was out today with my BFF she was talking to me about my baby shower. her and i are going to plan it together...i'm SOOOO happy shes helping me because i just didnt know where to start with all of it! i already have a place reserved for it and the date set aside may 18..yayy! my fiance will be in town that weekend so i decided it was the best date for it. but anyway..you girls have been such a super help with all of your advice for me, and are the only ones who really know all of my issues well besides my BFF that i talked to today with the whole girl/boy thing so i was hoping to get your help with this.
i think that i'm going to tell him at the shower that the baby is a girl. i mean, when he comes in and he sees all the pretty decorations, it will be like a reveal for him! i just think that with the excitement of the shower and seeing everything all set up for it and everyone happy about our little princess he wont be as mad at me there. plus he cant cause a scene in front of all of my friends and family. my BFF told me today that she thinks the idea will work. i'm just super nervous about telling him when its just us because i know hes going to be a little upset but i know if he sees its a good thing hell be ok. what do you girls think??
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Re: baby shower!
I'm team NO WAY of a gender reveal at the shower.
OK, so OP said in her intro post that "nothing happens if we have a girl"
So if this is the case WTF did you lie about the gender in the first place when you found out? If I were your SO I'd be more pissed at you lying to me and CONTINUALLY lying to me then I would be about the gender of my child. Do you know how many people in the world would love to have a healthy baby? Do you know how many of our own June mamma's would LOVE to still be pregnant? Get your head out of your ass, admit that you are a lying skank to your SO and for everyone's sake don't reveal your crap at the baby shower.
*EDIT* I have no idea why TB wouldn't allow this to be posted with the above comment even when I edited. It could be the Lord trying to stop me from showing my bitchface on the internet but this whole thing really pisses me off**
WTF is wrong with the bump?? I post a very bitchy response and all that posts is f****** smiley faces!!!!!
This is my last attempt to post my freaking response to this BS...
OP stated that it was no big deal if it was a girl in her intro, they were just hoping for a boy. If this is the case WTF did you lie about the gender in the first place when you found out? If I were your SO I'd be more pissed at you lying to me and CONTINUALLY lying to me then I would be about the gender of my child not being what I "wanted".
Do you know how many people in the world would love to have a baby - for that matter how many of our own June momma's who would love to still be pregnant?
My advice to you is to get your head out of your ass, admit that you are a lying skank to you SO, seek therapy for yourself and your relationship (why even lie about this in the first place) and don't even have a baby shower if you have to throw it yourself (with someone else's help) especially if this is the type of BS drama that you get off on.
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