SS: friend with 7 years of ttc now BFP!

MorganW24 · March 2014

Hey ladies,

I'm going to SS it for a minute! One of my very best friends FINALLY got her BFP after 7 years of ttc and failed adoption attempts. Can y'all help me show her a little love today?! She deserves it!

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12288103/intro-new-mom#latest

deedee830 · March 2014

Yay for her!!! Love sent!

Lewis813 · March 2014

Love you @MorganW24‌ !!!

Lindsleigh77 · March 2014

awwwww. I feel all the love and I love it

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Mindyvl · March 2014

My story is very much like hers. So happy for her! Be there to listen too, in case she has some really scary feelings to work out. It took us 9 years and multiple failed IVF attempts, before we got a surprise BFP. I can't tell you how hard it was to keep my anxiety in check, especially at first (though it's still not gone), since it was something we wanted for so long and really thought it would never happen. Trying to express those thoughts to anyone else, seemed to make them uncomfortable and think that I wasn't over the moon to be pregnant. So, I felt like I had no one to talk to. Help her celebrate though!!

Ashes92813 · March 2014

Love sent!!!

MorganW24 · March 2014

Mindyvl said:
My story is very much like hers. So happy for her! Be there to listen too, in case she has some really scary feelings to work out. It took us 9 years and multiple failed IVF attempts, before we got a surprise BFP. I can't tell you how hard it was to keep my anxiety in check, especially at first (though it's still not gone), since it was something we wanted for so long and really thought it would never happen. Trying to express those thoughts to anyone else, seemed to make them uncomfortable and think that I wasn't over the moon to be pregnant. So, I felt like I had no one to talk to. Help her celebrate though!!

I have an idea of how hard it can be. I was previously married and after a yr of ttc with no luck we moved on to fertility treatments. We had a BFP but lost the pregnancy early on. Now in a new relationship and thankfully was able to conceive the old fashioned way. Definitely know how hard it can be! Wishing her lots of sticky baby dust and lots of love.