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Sorry I have been MIA (rainbow mentioned)

HeatherhahHeatherhah member
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Hello Ladies! I have been MIA for awhile. I have been lurking and posting periodically but not often. It has been 2 years and almost 6 months since we lost Sydney and I can tell you it gets easier but it still stings too. I attend 2 loss groups and faithfully go to all of them, not really for me anymore but to support new ladies who attend. I know their pain and I feel I can help them see that after 2 years I am still functioning and going through my day to day life. I miss my baby girl so much. As my rainbow grows it makes it tough to think she should be in the terrible 2's.

Thinking of you all. I am always here if anyone needs me!! Huge hugs!!

Heather 

DS- Brenden born 11/13/93 Missed miscarriage on March 6, 2007 @ 9 weeks D&C on March 8th 2007. Riley Annalise born 2/25/08 ( 3 weeks early weighing 8 lbs 12.8 oz.) Chemical pregnancy 3/2010. Sydney Adriana born sleeping on 9/30/11 weighing 10lbs 3 oz at 38wks 4 days. Trinity Alivia born via c section at 36 wks 4 days weighing 9 lbs. 5.7 oz. She is our amazing rainbow baby!!! Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers PGAL buddy drvst8
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Re: Sorry I have been MIA (rainbow mentioned)

  • Bayberry12Bayberry12 member
    So nice to see an update from you! At almost two years out myself, I agree that it does get easier, but the pain is still there. It's just different than it was in the beginning.

    Thanks for always offering support. I wish there had been someone like you, someone further out from their loss, in my support group. I think that would have helped.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 

    BFP #1 Jan. 2011 - mmc Mar. 2011 
    BFP #2 Aug. 2011 - My sleeping angel Stella, born April 21, 2012 
    BFP #3 Nov. 2012 - mmc Dec. 2012
    BFP #4 April 2013 - mc May 2013
    BFP #5 Sept. 2013 - EDD 5.24.14
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  • NoetholaNoethola member
    Good to see you Heather. You are always such a good source of support. Your willing spirit has helped many a mother, myself included.
    Lilypie - (qptF)


    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 
    "Elsie Irene was born sleeping at 35w 6d on December 8, 2012. Mommy and Daddy miss you sweet girl."


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  • stefugestefuge member
    Thanks Heather, for the encourage and support!
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    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie Kids Birthday tickers

    Me: 32 DH: 33  High School Sweethearts  Married 5/28/2005
    DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
    Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
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  • stefugestefuge member
    I'm high jacking Heather's post, but @noethola, I love seeing Chester's little ticker in your siggy!  Already almost a month old - craziness!
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    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie Kids Birthday tickers

    Me: 32 DH: 33  High School Sweethearts  Married 5/28/2005
    DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
    Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
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  • NoetholaNoethola member
    @stefuge I can hardly believe it either. :-) He is a special little being. 
    Lilypie - (qptF)


    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 
    "Elsie Irene was born sleeping at 35w 6d on December 8, 2012. Mommy and Daddy miss you sweet girl."


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  • LyndseyTSLyndseyTS member
    Thanks for the reminder that life will eventually have a "new normal". Sometimes it's nice to see that others have been able to heal, at least a little bit. I know things will never be the same again (and I wouldn't want them to because that would be forgetting our little girl), but it's reassuring to know that you can "make it out the other side". My words are pretty clumsy right now, but I hope that you can understand the feeling/meaning behind them.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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