April 2014 Moms

Creep at the sushi restaurant

So I just picked up sushi for dinner, and while I was waiting in line The man in front of me turned around and asked when I was due. If any of you happen to watch real housewives of Orange County He reminded me of Vicky's boyfriend Brooks. Super southern accent, think he's hot shit, but is really just creepy.

Anyway, he tells me I have one piece of advice for you… Have the epidural. Do not be the hero! I can tell you from experience that it doesn't cross the placenta into the baby and it's perfectly safe to have done. I asked him if he was an anesthesiologist, giving him way too much credit, And he said oh no, don't worry about that. Whatever the hell that means. I'm assuming he's in pharmaceutical sales because he went on to tell me that he's from Birmingham and is spending the night in my city on his way home. I felt dirty after!

No matter your birth preference, where does the jerk get off thinking he can approach pregnant women and give them advice on their births? WTF?!?!? And I'm so mad at myself because I am always stunned at crap like this that I have no response but I can think of a million things like, F@ck off!! Gross end to a pretty good day!
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Re: Creep at the sushi restaurant

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  • I have a rule that I don't take pregnancy/birth advice from men. Except for my Dr, but not even all the time. And "don't be a hero?" God, it's not even about that.
     






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  • zoopsiedaisyzoopsiedaisy member
    edited March 2014
    Thinking back he said he's been in on many births but the birth of his son was the most amazing one he's experienced. First of all...I would hope so. Second of all...what kind of creep is not a doctor or nurse that been in on many births? It was CRAZY! Experience my ass!
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  • Ewwwww.

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  • zoopsiedaisyzoopsiedaisy member
    edited March 2014
    @Bluebird2318‌
    I think fuckery is my new favorite word
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  • nikki912 said:

    I HATE the "Don't be a hero" line. It's bullshit. My birth preference has nothing to do with being a hero and everything to do with minding your own fucking business.

    Exactly!! I want a natural birth for the attention. I need my ass kissed because I decided to be the hero. Everyone bow down to me and my ability to turn down an epidural.
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  • @melody*W*
    I wouldn't be surprised if he does
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