♥♥♥ Lost February Love Bugs Check-In ♥♥♥

buggirl72 · March 2014

♥♥♥ Lost February Love Bugs Check-In ♥♥♥
This check-in is for Tuesday, March 11, 2014.

This is a weekly check-in posted on Tuesdays, open to any and all ladies who have had a loss with an EDD or loss date in the month of February (any year). To all the new ladies, welcome to the group. I am so sorry for your loss, but glad you can find support here. Please introduce yourself and tell us your story, and I will add you to our Current Members list.
Current Members, give us any updates and let us know how you’re doing. If you get a BFP, please send me a PM so I can update our list.
Here is our badge if you would like to add it to your siggy:
~Current Members List~

Angus26 EDD 02/02/2014 - Baby Molly born sleeping at 25 weeks.

avioletsky EDD 02/05/2014

Buggirl72 EDD 02/07/2013 - Baby Zachary born and grew angel wings on 09/22/2012 at 20w

sarcaztic10 EDD 02/08/2014
clh4444 Loss Date 02/11/1998

clh4444 EDD 02/14/2014

angelaclevenger EDD 02/14/2014

Kateisoptimistic EDD 02/14/2014

5895WolterA EDD 02/14/2014

JenOSU EDD 02/15/2014

Alicia_R1 loss date 02/20/2014

Courtney1741 EDD 02/21/2014

Tappin2B EDD 02/21/2014

ksgsmu EDD 2/22/2014

Graduates:GavinRonansMom, NJMom050911, SgrRay929, mmedov01, mattsgirl2004, Meli1025, Ameliyah, Marcilene1, lisagde, dragonfly711, kountingsheep, mrsd0930, mmnumber5, MsHamon09, jenbunSC, meagpt22

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Please update us with how you are doing.

QOTW - Do we want to stay with a weekly check-in, or would you rather the check-in be posted every other week?

buggirl72 · March 2014

Kateisoptimistic said:
Good morning! Thanks for doing the check in Bug!

Looks like I'm out this cycle, i had a temp drop this morning so just waiting on AF to show. Also looking at the calendar if I O when I usually do this month I will be away for work during my entire FW so we are out next cycle too and my DH told me he has some travel in April - I'm praying it doesn't align with my FW that cycle also, I'm just so frustrated and am feeling emotional this morning. Anyhow, sorry for the pity party. ((hugs)) to anyone that needs them this week.

((((Hugs)))) I'm sorry for the temp drop and that it looks like you and DH won't be together for your next FW. That is so frustrating!

KristinDMiller · March 2014

Good morning. Can I be added as a member to this board? Claire passed on 2/17/14, EDD was 6/27/14.

Well finally the bleeding has stopped. Wondering when AF will make her debut again. I'm thinking after that I can start tracking again. There is an app that I have on my phone that I use to help me plan. It's called Pink Pad. I love it.

At least the the sun is shining here and the temp is much better than it has been.

Hope you all have a good day.

buggirl72 · March 2014

Kateisoptimistic said:
Thanks @buggirl72 - how are you doing? Hope all is well.

I have no energy for some reason which is not like me at all. Maybe it's the crazy weather?

buggirl72 · March 2014

KristinDMiller said:
Good morning. Can I be added as a member to this board? Claire passed on 2/17/14, EDD was 6/27/14.

Well finally the bleeding has stopped. Wondering when AF will make her debut again. I'm thinking after that I can start tracking again. There is an app that I have on my phone that I use to help me plan. It's called Pink Pad. I love it.

At least the the sun is shining here and the temp is much better than it has been.

Hope you all have a good day.

I'll get you and Claire added in when I get home. (((Hugs)))

buggirl72 · March 2014

KristinDMiller said:
Good morning. Can I be added as a member to this board? Claire passed on 2/17/14, EDD was 6/27/14.

Well finally the bleeding has stopped. Wondering when AF will make her debut again. I'm thinking after that I can start tracking again. There is an app that I have on my phone that I use to help me plan. It's called Pink Pad. I love it.

At least the the sun is shining here and the temp is much better than it has been.

Hope you all have a good day.

I'll get you and Claire added in when I get home. (((Hugs)))

buggirl72 · March 2014

KristinDMiller said:
Good morning. Can I be added as a member to this board? Claire passed on 2/17/14, EDD was 6/27/14.

Well finally the bleeding has stopped. Wondering when AF will make her debut again. I'm thinking after that I can start tracking again. There is an app that I have on my phone that I use to help me plan. It's called Pink Pad. I love it.

At least the the sun is shining here and the temp is much better than it has been.

Hope you all have a good day.

I'll get you and Claire added in when I get home. (((Hugs)))

KristinDMiller · March 2014

@Kateisoptimistic, thanks for the info on fertility friend. I am checking into it.

5895WolterA · March 2014

Hi Ladies, hugs to all who need them this week.

Welcome to @KristinDMiller, I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Claire. (((hugs))) I hope that you are having a good day too.

@Kateisoptimistic - I'm so sorry about the bad timing this month I really hope that everything lines up right and YH is home in April!

@buggirl72 - I hope you are having a good week. Thank you so much for leading this checkin

I am doing well this week. I am so happy for the warm weather finally! DH and I have been having some conversations about when we want to try again, so that is good. For a while MH wasn't wanting to talk about it at all, but I'm glad that he's been a little more open to the discussion when I've brought it up this week. Still no conclusion (I'm pushing for April, he wants to wait until September), but I'm glad we are chatting about it.

QOTW - I would be fine moving to every other week for the checkin. Perhaps weekly during Feb?

buggirl72 · March 2014

5895WolterA said:
Hi Ladies, hugs to all who need them this week.
Welcome to @KristinDMiller, I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Claire. (((hugs))) I hope that you are having a good day too.
@Kateisoptimistic - I'm so sorry about the bad timing this month I really hope that everything lines up right and YH is home in April!
@buggirl72 - I hope you are having a good week. Thank you so much for leading this checkin
I am doing well this week. I am so happy for the warm weather finally! DH and I have been having some conversations about when we want to try again, so that is good. For a while MH wasn't wanting to talk about it at all, but I'm glad that he's been a little more open to the discussion when I've brought it up this week. Still no conclusion (I'm pushing for April, he wants to wait until September), but I'm glad we are chatting about it.
QOTW - I would be fine moving to every other week for the checkin. Perhaps weekly during Feb?

I'm glad YH is talking with you about when to burn the bench. I hope both of you can come to an agreement that you are both happy with.

I agree with the every other week and every week in Feb

buggirl72 · March 2014

sarcaztic10 said:
(((Hugs))) to all who need them this week.

We listed our house with the realtor on Saturday. Someone is touring it tomorrow and I hope that it goes well. We sent our renters a warning letter notifying them that if we hear anything else negative about them from our realor they will be given 60 days to vacate.

I called my MW last week to try to make an appt for the end of next cycle. She actually wanted to see me sooner so I made an appt for tomorrow. I think that we are probably just going to talk but I may ask for a referral because I know that thier office is limited in the types of tests that they can order. I hope that something positive comes out of the appt...

I hope your appointment tomorrow goes well and you can get your referral.

And I really hope you can get a good offer quickly!

KristinDMiller · March 2014

@Kateisoptimistic, thanks for the info on fertility friend. I am checking into it.

buggirl72 · March 2014

mcnsher0627 said:

Hi ladies. The EDD for my son, Nathan, was 2/3/2014 and I lost my sweet pea on 2/27. My doctor has told us to wait one cycle then we can try again. I'm not sure if I'll be ready, but DH is. (((Hugs))) to all of you.

(((hugs))) and I am so sorry for both of your losses. I had a loss last February and I know how incredibly hard it is to go through that while facing your EDD. More (((hugs))).

Make sure to keep the lines of communication open with your DH. If you are not ready, it's okay to let him know that.

clh4444 · March 2014

@KristinDMiller - welcome, I'm so sorry for your loss.

Good luck @sarcaztic10‌ selling a home can be very scary so I hope it goes well and sells fast.

@5895WolterA‌ glad you and DH are talking and hope you come to agreement soon.

Hugs to everyone else. I'm on mobile so it is hard to keep track.

@buggirl72‌ thanks for the check in. I agree every other week is fine.

My update is that I am changing my focus off of TTC and working on just getting healthy again. To that end I am on day 9 of getting back in shape. I have been to the gym for 8 of those 9 days and have been under my calories for all 9 days so go me.

I am going to make an appt to discuss my shorter cycles and possibly discuss early menopause. With the weight gain in the past year which while partly due to the loss and depression I feel may be due to a hormone imbalance so I will check that out further. Part of the process of letting go and moving on.

buggirl72 · March 2014

clh4444 said:

*snip*. @buggirl72‌ thanks for the check in. I agree every other week is fine. My update is that I am changing my focus off of TTC and working on just getting healthy again. To that end I am on day 9 of getting back in shape. I have been to the gym for 8 of those 9 days and have been under my calories for all 9 days so go me. I am going to make an appt to discuss my shorter cycles and possibly discuss early menopause. With the weight gain in the past year which while partly due to the loss and depression I feel may be due to a hormone imbalance so I will check that out further. Part of the process of letting go and moving on.

(((Hugs))) I know it's not easy to go have that discussion but I think finding out what is going on is a good thing.

Great job on sticking with your goal! DH and I just set an exercise/activity goal. Right now it is either going for a walk or using our exercise bike 6 times per week. We figure we will add distance goals once we feel like we are meeting the number of times goal.

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