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eg214 · March 2014

I know. I know. I need to get over it. I need to get over his shit. I need to not look on Facebook. I get it. I really don't think about him or his shit or our past very often. Truth.

I was checking my old email and saw I had a mutual friend with manchild on my old FB account. I knew there HAD to be pictures of him on there and sure enough, there were. One he looked great and attractive. Another he looked high as a kite and like a piece of shit. Part of me looked honestly to try to find pics of him smoking weed or something so I could use them against him in court...since this was a guy he smoked with. There are pictures of him with his best friend/ex convict/drug dealer/addict. Not sure if that would do anything for me or not.

Anyway, sucks sucks sucks. I can't believe he has nothing to do with his daughter. I cannot believe he gets to go on with life, go out with the guys, drink like a fish, blah blah and here is daughter sits. I cannot believe it. I wish I could rent a damn airplane with a banner and fly it over his house and his friends houses and be like LOOK YOU ASSHOLE. LOOK AT HER. I cannot believe he shammed me into marrying him and shammed me again when we got back together. Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. Whatever. He's a dick but it still makes me sad.

End vent. And trust me, I wholeheartedly know 1000% I am better off without him. I freaking know it.

MinnesotaMomma91 · March 2014

Im sorry, i know its hard but you just need to not look. It helps if you block him then he cant see you and you cant see him.

I had to block bd on facebook because i was just hurting myself. It sounds like you dont have any contact with him and good. You dont want that around your kid.

You dont know what hes high on. And you dont want your daughter to see him normalizing bad behavior. So give yourself peace of mibd and stay of him amd the mutual friends facebook

eg214 · March 2014

Thanks love. Yeah he's been blocked on my FB for a while. It was a mutual friend. I'm sure just like any "breakup" I'll get to a place where eventually I can delete the friend.

jesuisfatiguee · March 2014

eg214 said:
Anyway, sucks sucks sucks. I can't believe he has nothing to do with his daughter. I cannot believe he gets to go on with life, go out with the guys, drink like a fish, blah blah and here is daughter sits. I cannot believe it. I wish I could rent a damn airplane with a banner and fly it over his house and his friends houses and be like LOOK YOU ASSHOLE. LOOK AT HER. I cannot believe he shammed me into marrying him and shammed me again when we got back together. Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. Whatever. He's a dick but it still makes me sad.

End vent. And trust me, I wholeheartedly know 1000% I am better off without him. I freaking know it.

I really feel you on the bolded. DS' father won't speak to me, and I have no idea what he's doing or, frankly, where he is. I often wonder if he ever thinks about DS, or if any of the people who he hangs out with now (whoever they may be) even know DS exists. I am mostly angry at his abandonment of DS, but a teensy bit jealous that he gets to live like a single, childless person while I am stuck with the grunt work. Not all of parenting is "grunt work" of course, as I also get all the baby laughs, snuggles and kisses, but still.

And yeah, DS' dad makes me sad, too. I'm sorry

eg214 · March 2014

I'm with ya. I also wonder if his friends know. They have to though bc of the nursery in his house and I saw his mom posted I was going to have a girl on FB and a friend responded. I'm certain he tells them I'm not letting him see her. I also wonder wtf he does at night. Does he think about her? What an asshole.

freeatlast2014 · March 2014

I want you To know that my mom was a single mom and my dad and all of his family had nothing to do with me at all. I found them at the age of 26 and have been in touch for the past 5 years. Pretty close, in fact I will be moving in with him, my sm, and their 3 kids (all under age of 13). And I now know that this happened for a reason and I was much better off without him when I was a kid. He has straightened out but took decades. It can be different when the time is right. But for now you are the best one to care for that precious bundle.

AllieAlba · March 2014

His friends probably don't know anything about her, I would think, from my experience. None of my biodad's friends knew about my brother until after I was born. The only memory my brother has of my biodad is of he and his friends coming over drunk to see me for the first time, and biodad's friends asking who my brother was.

Dad's are dicks. (Well, my actual (non-bio) dad is great, but you get the point).

20thirteen · March 2014

je+suis=fatiguee said:

eg214 said:
Anyway, sucks sucks sucks. I can't believe he has nothing to do with his daughter. I cannot believe he gets to go on with life, go out with the guys, drink like a fish, blah blah and here is daughter sits. I cannot believe it. I wish I could rent a damn airplane with a banner and fly it over his house and his friends houses and be like LOOK YOU ASSHOLE. LOOK AT HER. I cannot believe he shammed me into marrying him and shammed me again when we got back together. Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. Whatever. He's a dick but it still makes me sad.

End vent. And trust me, I wholeheartedly know 1000% I am better off without him. I freaking know it.

I really feel you on the bolded. DS' father won't speak to me, and I have no idea what he's doing or, frankly, where he is. I often wonder if he ever thinks about DS, or if any of the people who he hangs out with now (whoever they may be) even know DS exists. I am mostly angry at his abandonment of DS, but a teensy bit jealous that he gets to live like a single, childless person while I am stuck with the grunt work. Not all of parenting is "grunt work" of course, as I also get all the baby laughs, snuggles and kisses, but still.

And yeah, DS' dad makes me sad, too. I'm sorry

Yeah, me too. My BD I haven't heard from since the end of January. I'm not really complaining that I'm not hearing from him, trust me, I really don't want to see him. But sometimes I get so angry that when I want to go out, I can't just drop everything and go out like I used to be able to. It's either pack up the diaper bag, some toys, an extra pair of clothes for just in case anything, figure out how long I'm going to be so I know if I should make 1 bottle or more or find someone who can babysit and that is usually a task that is not for last minute. I'm not a planner, so I almost never go out looking for a babysitter. If I go out at all, it's with DD because I don't think that far in advance.

But I'm sure he thinks about DD because his stupid mom uses my pictures as her profile pic and she posts so much that I'm sure, unless he's blocked her from his newsfeed, he sees DD's pic every day. And with all the friends he has that his mom friended, it makes me wonder what they think about the situation. What is he telling them? Is he pretending to contact me and telling all of them that I won't let him see her? Or do they know that he'll let months go by before even bothering to find out whats going on with her? How can anyone be friends with someone who denies their own child love and affection? I just don't understand. All the friends of his that I kept in contact with know he's a piece of shit that doesn't bother contacting me. So, I wonder if that word is going around. I blocked him immediately after we broke-up. Sometimes I want to unblock him and see what the fuck is so much more important to him other than DD, but I just can't get the oomph to care. Fuck that cocksucker.

20thirteen · March 2014

I also wonder what his mother thinks and/or is telling her friends. Only because she apparently thinks I'm an unappreciative bitch (as she told me in an email in so many words).

jellybean529 · March 2014

I feel your pain so much. This past weekend when I was taking care of three kids (mine plus my sister's two) aged 5-7 by myself and XH was posting on FB about how hard his life is (when he can come and go as he pleases and do whatever the fuck he wants whenever he wants) and calling me crying and whining about missing me I wanted to just be like...you know what dude, you're living the life. Don't cry to me about this shit you brought on yourself. I'm the one who got the short end of the stick.

But then...really? No I didn't. It is SO HARD but for all the troubles and trials and frustrations I also get 100% of the joy. It's all mine, except the one weekend a month he's here. I get all the snuggles, the random "I love yous", the art projects made just for me, the joy of seeing her earn awards at school and know that my support helped make that happen, sharing in all of her "firsts" (right now we're working on our first loose tooth!) All of that is mine. How sad for him that he has to miss out, and how sad for your ex, too.

jesuisfatiguee · March 2014

@Roxalot - I wonder about that, too. I can only imagine if any of my ex's friends do know about DS, that I'm painted as the villain. I know his mom hates me for some unknown reason, and wants nothing to do with DS, either. Kinda makes me sick.

MinnesotaMomma91 · March 2014

im to lazy to quote right now lol.

but the only times i hear from bd is when he tries to be sexual with me which gets shut down real fast. The last time we talked about Bentley was when I asked him for help paying for child care and he flat out refused saying he couldn't afford to pay for child care for all five kids. Ironically after that he told me he wished hed stuck around to be in bentley and I's life and that him and I could have been a couple.

HAHAHAHAHAHA! no, nope. Not now not ever. Our few hookups would never have lead to a relationship between the two of us.

eg214 · March 2014

WOW @MinnesotaMomma91. FIVE KIDS!?! WTF!?!? Does he pay CS on any of them? To you?

Yeah I am pretty certain (about 1000%) that ManChild's friends know about LO but he tells them I refuse to let him see her. He's probably saying he's been paying CS (he hasn't given me a dime) and I'm just my usual bitch self. When we were separating and going through our divorce, he had a bunch of lies spun up he was telling them, so I know now is no different. His friends are too stupid to realize there are two sides to every story. I used to have a very public blog and clear the air on it sometimes but shut it down when LO was born and have my very private one now. It was nice to put the TRUTH out there, but now I just don't care. I don't have to see his friends or deal with them while parenting LO...at least not right now. When we were married it was different.

ManChild's mom is a bitch. A psycho, strung out, crack head, worthless bitch. I could care less what she says or thinks and I have had NO dealings with her in years...even when we were married I may have seen her or talked to her twice...bc ManChild and her don't have much of a relationship either.

I have always struggled with our dissolution of marriage just bc of the cirumstances...PTSD. I felt like my husband was a good man, went away to war, and came back a monster. That sucks more than I can explain but it is what it is. He's a monster and has had many chances to get help and do the right thing and he refuses. So whatever. It just makes me sad he's always wanted daughters, he has one, and wants nothing to do with her because he isn't getting his way. It's ridiculous. I always said I had no worries about him being a great father and that probably makes me bummed too because I know he would be great with her...just make my life hell.

I am glad I am the only one who gets her snuggles and gets to suck on her chubby cheeks (and by suck I don't mean leaving marks and legit sucking). I am glad I don't have to deal with his dumbass every other weekend or at all right now. I am relieved she is too little to understand wtf is going on or even know her dad isn't around. I just hate looking at her, knowing we BOTH made her, and he has dipped out. With all the stuff he did before she came, it's just beyind bizarre he dipped out. I can't make sense of it, but some things I know you just can't.

MinnesotaMomma91 · March 2014

yup @eg214 count them one(4) two(3) three(2) four(Bentley, seven months) and five(three months). my bd is with the mother of the four other children and i'm currently trying to get child support out of the twat waffle

eg214 · March 2014

Holy shizniky. He needs to get snipped! @MinnesotaMomma91

MinnesotaMomma91 · March 2014

@eg214 there are rumors shes pregnant again with twins.

20thirteen · March 2014

UGH!!! WHY CAN'T I ATTACH PICTURES?!

jellybean529 · March 2014

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

@eg214 there are rumors shes pregnant again with twins.

MinnesotaMomma91 · March 2014

mrs.tbc said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

@eg214 there are rumors shes pregnant again with twins.

im starting to wonder if they know what causes pregnancy

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