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19 weeks and anxious

smusgrove92smusgrove92 member
in August 2014 Moms
Sorry I don't know of anyone's posted something like this recently because I've been using my phone and not really good at it . Anyways I just have a concern and hoping someone can give me some comfort or advice . Im 19 weeks and last night had sex (my husband and I have been through out my pregnancy ) but last night was the first time I bleed . It was just pink and is gone this morning . Called my midwife this morning and said I should be ok but if it happens again to go in . Well I feel like my belly hasn't grown in the past week and everyone says I'm so small :( I also have felt the baby for over a week ( which idk if it was the baby then anyways ) so I've always had anxiety and now that this my first time being pregnant I'm paranoid that the baby stopped growing or something . Sorry if I sound silly but I can't help it :( I'm scared to have sex again and I'm scared my baby isn't growing . My next scan is march 20 and it seems so far away . So once again I know I might sound desperate but I am lol and just need some encouragement if you have any . Thanks everyone Xx sorry I'm not proof reading this either lol
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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member
    Sorry I many I haven't felt the baby *
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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member
    Thanks so much that really helped I almost want to cry lol seriously though I just needed someone to understand and give me a positive viewpoint . Idk how to notify you so idk if you'll see my comment or not but your advice is extremely helpful to me Xx
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  • Jessicalig Jessicalig member
    Like everyone else said spotting is normal but i know that feeling and being stressed. If it will put your mind at ease just see if your midwife will do a heart beat check and then you dont have to stress. I did this many times in my 1st tri and my midwifes were wonderful and loving with me. The peace of mind you get is so worth it. xoxox 
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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member
    Aww thank you everyone ! I wanted to ask my midwife that but got nervous so I'll try again and see if she'll do a heartbeat check ! I feel a lot less anxious now and I'm glad I had your support Xx best wishes to all of you !
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