We aren't ready for a dog yet, but I've always had a dog and can't wait to bring one into our family. I want to hear from all of you what some of the pros and cons are of having a dog right now. How do they handle a LO who is walking and grabbing and invading space?
I know every dog is different, but would love to know how your dog handles being around LO, if you've had your dog since it was a puppy or adult, from a rescue, etc.
Our little Samosa arrives in January!
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We have two English Bullgogs. Duke and Tank.
We got the first when dating and the second when engaged. They are now 6 and 4.
PROS: We chose bulldogs because when we were dating we lived in a townhome and worked odd hours so we wanted something that would not need walked and that we would not feel guilty leaving kenneled when working. They are perfect for this, so lazy and require next to no exercise. They are very mild mannered and cuddly. I love how DD interacts with them and it has made a huge difference for how she is with animals in general. I think it is really good for kids to grow up with pets. I cannot wait for her to be able to run after them.
CONS: They ARE heavy so we worried when she was tiny that they would squish her. Now the only problem is that our younger one tries to give her kisses and she is still really tippy when standing so she has fallen over before. The only other con is that I often have to kennel them when it is just us as home because I can't handle all three of them since DD is so in their faces right now. The boys take it well but I'm sure they get annoyed.
He does pretty well with DD...I was worried because he was the center of attention before (and honestly he still gets plenty of attention). DD loves him, he could go either way with her. He loves her when she eats (I love that he cleans up her mess) but isn't a huge fan of her pulling on him (which is fair because he is smaller than her).
I am biased, because I'm a dog lover but I think all kids should have a dog. It's great for their immune system, a great companion and a way to teach responsibility. But just make sure it's really for you. It absolutely breaks my heart when people have pets and give them up due to kids. Hope this helps
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I have a 4 yo schnoodle (poodle and schnauzer). He's already getting to be an old man who just wants to sleep on someone's lap all day lol. But he's really good with Norah.
Pros: no shedding to worry about. He's gentle and sweet with Norah, especially with toys and bones that she grabs from him. They will keep each other occupied by playing with each others toys. He eats the food she drops on the floor. She gives him hugs and kisses and it melts my heart.
Cons: He will growl at her if she pulls his fur or squeezes to tight (he's not a large size dog). He will steal her cheerios from time to time. He is like another baby getting under your feet. He barks a lot. I suggest a quieter breed!
Good luck deciding!
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I LOVE my dogs but some days they drive me absolutely crazy. I wouldn't trade them for anything but I'm not certain I would have adopted a dog after baby. We have much less time for walks and much less time for playing just with them.
My daugher absolutely loves them and we make sure that she knows to treat them gently.
That is something you can find very helpful in choosing the right dog--going with a rescue will allow you to know the dog's temperament, behavior, and history before you adopt. When we got Ripley (younger one), we knew we had to be very careful in our selection. Some dogs simply aren't meant to be with young children.
They have both been very good with LO; no aggression, very tolerant of having their hair pulled, etc. Biggest downside to having dogs at this time with kids is the extra housecleaning and time to care for them.
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